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[TicParticipant 4329]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

Welcome tic. For some reason the idea of my gf cheating with another woman never bothered me. One time it led to the beginning of a threesome.

[The other chick got weirded out because she was good friends with my gf and thought it would be awkward or something – just so’s I don’t leave the reader a-hangin]

I’m not build that way. Cheating shows deception and the way she did it, was very deceptive which was counter to how she presented herself all these years.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

Welcome brother. We all have our final awakening once we find MGTOW.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Welcome Tic thanks for sharing your story it really got me p~~~ed off when I started reading it because I could relate to everything you wrote (except the woman was cheating on me with a guy). Like you the pain you feel inside is worse than when you get physically beaten it just does something to you to your spirit and it hurts like hell. But eventually it will pass and you will become stronger for it. I would recommend staying away from women for the time being if you can it will help you cope with all the stuff going on in your life. Rub one out if you have the need for sex and just do what you like to do.

If any of your friends or family try to shame you into getting a girl for marriage and kids cut them out of your life for the time being. Some friends will even call you gay because you are not with anyone, if this happens cut them out too. Just be happy with who you are and don’t let anyone shame you into doing something you don’t want to. Welcome home brother if you need any further advice we are here to help.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Mr_Options wrote:

Welcome brother. We all have our final awakening once we find MGTOW.

Thanks. I remember many times we would argue in the last year or so and she kept saying “oh, because you a man, right, so you have be right.” I kept telling her what the hell does that have to do with the argument at hand. Many times I accused her of being a feminist and that if that’s her ideology, she can take a hike.

Rhino wrote:

Welcome Tic thanks for sharing your story it really got me p~~~ed off when I started reading it because I could relate to everything you wrote (except the woman was cheating on me with a guy). Like you the pain you feel inside is worse than when you get physically beaten it just does something to you to your spirit and it hurts like hell. But eventually it will pass and you will become stronger for it. I would recommend staying away from women for the time being if you can it will help you cope with all the stuff going on in your life. Rub one out if you have the need for sex and just do what you like to do.

If any of your friends or family try to shame you into getting a girl for marriage and kids cut them out of your life for the time being. Some friends will even call you gay because you are not with anyone, if this happens cut them out too. Just be happy with who you are and don’t let anyone shame you into doing something you don’t want to. Welcome home brother if you need any further advice we are here to help.

I’m not planning on dating right now. The wounds are too fresh and honestly I think about it everyday.

I found out that one of chicks at work who liked me was very interested, so I said why not 3 weeks ago, given that she is single and apparently very willing to go out with me. Now, when I decided to approach her she told me she is on match.com. Because of that, called her 7 days later and I was busy with work. So, she calls me back 9 hours later and I refused to pick up. She even admitted in her message that she left me that she knew it was me but was at the “beach” all day. F~~~ you bitches, I’m not playing your game. I erased her number and never returned her call. I don’t care if it was a jerk move. You act interested then play games, I’m out. New rules. Don’t, like it. go f~~~ yourselves. Seriously, I don’t want to be f~~~ed with anymore. I haven’t dated anyone since the break up and I think it’s going to stay that way for a while.

God bless peace and freedom.

[draconic1Participant 89]

I can emphasize with your situation as can most who have made it to MGTOW. A break is the best thing ever, lets you gain perspective, only gets dangerous when you equate women with negativity in a way it affects your libido. You describe yourself as a well made man and I know that is true, they need to know it too. I personally have given up on dating for the time being and gathered a rotation. This is having 2 or 3 women you f~~~ a couple times a week and the only qualifiers are they’re good in bed and low drama. One drops off, so what? Get another one. Helps you meet quality women because you aren’t lonely and hard up, you know if you like someone it’s not just that it’s been awhile. I did this because I fell into the habit of dating losers and wanted to keep my head straight. Women aren’t real interested in monogamy anymore, I keep hearing about “open relationships” and other nonsense that just makes marriage sound that much worse.

One of my friends espouses foreign women as a good alternative to what’s going on here locally with solid results, he has 4 kids she stays at home and rules the roost. Still places where women are raised to be women and aren’t interested in feminist BS. I’m looking into it but am doubtful, might go with him to the homeland next time he visits and see what I think. I’d just be worried about the neighbors brainwashing such a girl into feminism.

[TicParticipant 4329]

draconic1 wrote:

I can emphasize with your situation as can most who have made it to MGTOW. A break is the best thing ever, lets you gain perspective, only gets dangerous when you equate women with negativity in a way it affects your libido. You describe yourself as a well made man and I know that is true, they need to know it too. I personally have given up on dating for the time being and gathered a rotation. This is having 2 or 3 women you f~~~ a couple times a week and the only qualifiers are they’re good in bed and low drama. One drops off, so what? Get another one. Helps you meet quality women because you aren’t lonely and hard up, you know if you like someone it’s not just that it’s been awhile. I did this because I fell into the habit of dating losers and wanted to keep my head straight. Women aren’t real interested in monogamy anymore, I keep hearing about “open relationships” and other nonsense that just makes marriage sound that much worse.

One of my friends espouses foreign women as a good alternative to what’s going on here locally with solid results, he has 4 kids she stays at home and rules the roost. Still places where women are raised to be women and aren’t interested in feminist BS. I’m looking into it but am doubtful, might go with him to the homeland next time he visits and see what I think. I’d just be worried about the neighbors brainwashing such a girl into feminism.

I hear you. I am angry and it does show through my posts. But, slowly I’m getting better. I took a hit to the ego and was having confidence issues. If anything, that would affect my libido more than anything and it has. I hope I didn’t come across as arrogant talking about myself. It’s just that I have worked so hard coming from a blue collar family to make it and it’s a rude awakening that I still can lose a woman despite all that. I guess if it can happen to Johnny Depp, it can happen to a nobody like me. At least I don’t have to worry about losing half of $400 million to the c~~~.

God bless peace and freedom.

[TicParticipant 4329]

also, foreign women are not the answer. Seen it first hand with friends and family. They come here and adopt the western culture female antics.

God bless peace and freedom.

[draconic1Participant 89]

Thanks for the feedback will definitely take it into consideration. It’s really sad that these days if you’re able to build a castle, it’s under siege constantly. That’s how I feel and it sounds like you’re in a similar place. Meanwhile you see a bunch of losers getting ahead by being manginas, though any guy who’s satisfied by that lifestyle is the lowest beta there ever was. Women have become more miserable in every poll taken since feminism has taken hold and through their behavior, they have earned it.

All I can say is never stop growing, getting better at something, anything really, will always be a confidence boost. The haters win when you spend your free time thinking about them instead of enjoying your life.

[Anonymous 18]

Hey tic, first welcome man. I joined about a year ago and had quite a nasty fallout with the ex-vagina I used to insert my penis into.

It was the coldness … In fact women can be cold because by the time they are found out or dump a man they have a source they are warm towards- mostly another man but in your case it was another woman. Doesn’t change the dynamics of mindf~~~ery that ensues after being betrayed.

I have had a year now since the emotional turmoil and I’d like to say that things will get better over time. The pain would be gone around 4-5 months mark and come next year you’d have that badass motherf~~~ing ‘indifference’ everyone talks about.

Remember one thing: Once the chapter is closed you can afford to throw the entire book away. If one aspect of this whore hurt you then everything about her is rotten.

Happy times ahead brother 🙂

[AttonParticipant]

Tic wrote:

also, foreign women are not the answer. Seen it first hand with friends and family. They come here and adopt the western culture female antics.

How observant.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[TicParticipant 4329]

Atton wrote:

tic douloureux wrote:

also, foreign women are not the answer. Seen it first hand with friends and family. They come here and adopt the western culture female antics.

How observant.

you dig up an old post for that. LOL

God bless peace and freedom.

[chirParticipant]

Well at least she was cheating with a woman and not a man where you might wind up thinking her child is yours.

Anyway, reading your intro you said you were a mangina and well no. Being mangina means you take on feminine qualities to better relate to women and get closer to women with the supposed goal of having a relationship with them. (never works, women no longer have any respect for men) Your intro pretty much sums up how a man biologically on a core genetic level wishes to protect and care for a woman. Its a basic impulse. Men have never been taught to ignore our basic impulses to protect and care. Women are taught from the time they enter school to hate men and ignore their basic impulses to find a man who will protect and care for them and their children. Thus we have the pitiful state western woman are at.

You may think you are a bit broken but thanks to feminism and governments complicity in it, women are pretty much pulverized. The special snowflakes coming out of college now have no conception of reality and are shocked to their core when the world does not grovel at their special snowflake feet.

Now that your eyes have been opened and you have choked down the red pill, you are much better armed to deal with the modern western woman. Intellect pwns hyper-emotionalism and doe-eyes with a push up bra.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[TicParticipant 4329]

chir wrote:

Well at least she was cheating with a woman and not a man where you might wind up thinking her child is yours.

Anyway, reading your intro you said you were a mangina and well no. Being mangina means you take on feminine qualities to better relate to women and get closer to women with the supposed goal of having a relationship with them. (never works, women no longer have any respect for men) Your intro pretty much sums up how a man biologically on a core genetic level wishes to protect and care for a woman. Its a basic impulse. Men have never been taught to ignore our basic impulses to protect and care. Women are taught from the time they enter school to hate men and ignore their basic impulses to find a man who will protect and care for them and their children. Thus we have the pitiful state western woman are at.

You may think you are a bit broken but thanks to feminism and governments complicity in it, women are pretty much pulverized. The special snowflakes coming out of college now have no conception of reality and are shocked to their core when the world does not grovel at their special snowflake feet.

Now that your eyes have been opened and you have choked down the red pill, you are much better armed to deal with the modern western woman. Intellect pwns hyper-emotionalism and doe-eyes with a push up bra.

I agree with you 100% my friend. Thank you.

God bless peace and freedom.

[ExpendableYouthParticipant 381]

Welcome, friend. I too know the pain of being cheated on. It hurts, anyway you slice it.

My favorite line was “I’ll never treat you the way all those other women did”. Hahahaha. My second favorite…”I am so lucky to have you”. Hahaha…..the third? “I love you so much”. LOLOLOL……oh I’m sure you did. Then Along-Came-A-CHAD

It’s a jungle out there. I, like yourself– thought I had myself a catch. Paid all of her own stuff, 50/50 no problems. But, like all things in life– “We grew apart” (That’s funny, I am the same person– what happened to YOU?). She wasn’t a princess, was actually doing well for herself after her divorce where SHE is paying the deadbeat husband. I will absolutely admit that my personality as being a homebody did not mesh with a social butterfly. That didn’t give you a reason to fool around with others. To this day it stings, part I blame myself– but part of me knows— AWALT.

It at least told me I am now 30 and it’s time to stop caring about any of this and MGTOW. My business isn’t going to build itself. Plain and simple, I should not be in a relationship because I honestly will gain nothing from it. I have women friends, customers, no problem– “hey how are you doing”, and that’s all you will ever get from me. I know you will destroy my insides, why would I even bother.

[TwistParticipant]

Tic,

You got off easy – if you can believe that.

Mine left after two decades of marriage for the lesbian lover. Plotted it out beautifully, arrived in lesbo-land with my two daughters in tow – 13 & 15 at the time. I am sure that did not hurt their welcome into the community.

You can’t overstate the depravity in modern women. That they have a ready cheering section for the most disgusting behavior…

I pray for forgiveness for the horrible wishes I hold. And hope for true judgement at some point.

Amazing that I relish the existence of Sharia to deal with such behavior.

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