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Topic: Fixed My Path
I have a decently lengthy story in my bio, but I’d just like to say this community seems very fitting for me. I’ve had conflictions of what I should do or be for a very long time. Give up on everything, be chivalry, just be the good guy, quit, back out, break it, maybe just …. try to understand? But there are so many problems in trying to any of that I forget that I actually have a life.
I had a life that I planned out so long ago before the topic of girls entered my life. I have simple dreams, not super out there dreams either. A few to name are to ride in one of those trains that have like, you know, restaurants on them and stuff… be on one of those massive cruise ships, be a passenger on an airliner… simple things. I didn’t want to be a super hero, a firefighter, although I did want to make my own movie… I decided to have much simpler dreams that could make me just as happy. But as I grew up I was taught things like being e gentleman, being respectful, standing up for what was right. Being a better man was embedded into my brain like some sort of programming, and it ruined my life, because it wouldn’t ever let me have my own life or do what I want.
I don’t really care about a lot of things because I feel I have no reason to, I just react to it how I naturally feel towards it. But because I needed to be a ‘better man’ to women, I had to act against my feelings and do what was ‘better.’ I’m not a hateful guy, an asshole, or a jerk, but honestly there are times in our lives that we naturally react to something, a lot of times positively for good reasons, but we shouldn’t. Like laughing at someone slipping and falling. We didn’t do it on purpose, it was just natural, sorry? Only a few days ago I just put it all to a halt and started getting my life back, then through an endless binge watch of youtube videos someone mentions some guy being a bad ass and being MGTOW… and, as naturally the curious cat I am, I googled it. It seems like a very appropriate community for me, and I hope to stay.
Give me a reason as to why I should care, or why I should think of it -that- way. And I mean good enough for me, not you. Your opinion is weightless to my natural instincts.
Hi all,
I’m 34, born in France and moved to western Canada 8 years ago.
I was (and still am, I guess) a well-mannered raised boy from a middle-class family, and was taught to be nice and respectful to all women. You’ve for sure heard of French chivalry, and I am indeed a fine representative of it…
Anyways, I met that girl in 2004 and it was the so-called love at first sight, for me at least (for herself, she phrased it later as me being “the kind of guy she thought she would never be able to date”). Got married and moved to Canada 3 years later, had two daughters now 5 and 3. Time before wedding was amazing, I was there to fulfill all her needs and I thought I was accomplishing my dream in life. She was for sure enjoying her time with me as well, but when I look back, she wasn’t doing so much to me than I was doing for her.
After the wedding, her behavior started to change pretty fast, and worsened when she got pregnant the first time (desired pregnancy from both of us). She became extremely lazy, always had excuses for doing nothing in and around the house, losing jobs because of laziness as well, her “light” psychological issues worsened, and the mother in law became more and more present despite the 8,000kms separating us from her. I was accepting everything. I was the man, I had to take responsibility for everything. Work my a$$ off and do everything in and around the house as well. Raise our kids much more than her since she was constantly too tired to do it. I gave her all the excuses possible: hormones, hard to be a Mom, missing her mother,… and accepted to have a second child. More for my daughter to have a sister than for anything else, actually. I didn’t desire to have another child with her, I guess, but it was the right thing to do. Gained quite some weight since I married her, I guess it’s my fault, but I’m starting to think what I rejected for long: her behavior was so hard on me that it might have been a factor.
So after 1 year without $ex, once did the trick. Her behavior worsened even more and I decided to start doing things on my own: my hobbies, my friends, my children. Tried to involve her in all that for years, I won’t push her from joining, but I won’t refrain myself to do it. Started to do less chores as well in and around the house. She was of course furious of it but I started considering I would stay with her for my kids’ sake, but won’t be denied happiness despite that. However, verbal violence from her to me became the norm as well as hard retaliation every time she felt she was wronged (basically…every week?). I kept smiling and be nice while enjoying time with my kids, my friends, my hobbies. I just accepted all of that, because I’m a man and men are supposed to do so. I thought.
Then last summer she hit me with a “I’m divorcing you and there’s nothing you can do about it”, in front of her mother. Can’t say I didn’t see it coming, but I was mostly worried for my kids. I tried to convince her to go with an amicable divorce resolution. But it was never in her plans. I’ll try to keep it short now. She accused me of all sorts of violence while she was the one being violent towards me, towards our children (she blames our oldest because she can’t make her hate Dad), police got involved 6 times for false accusations of abuse. I kept letting it go, and documenting, while trying to convince her to go the amicable way. Then back in November she kidnapped our kids, went to an abused women and children shelter, and filed a court application for sole custody over the grounds of physical abuse from me towards her and our children. The Judge made a fool of her. She was shortly after kicked out of the shelter since she lied. My children were returned to me but I had to fight hard for that, for 3 weeks. She then was happy to give them to me 2/3 of the time since she doesn’t care that much about them. Of course to date, I am paying for the totality of the children’s related expenses and she refuses to pay the child support she owes me. She also demands spousal support so that she can live off me, but fortunately where we live, she’s not gonna get it. She kept lying and crying and saying she was an involved, stay at home mother, for more than 3 years, but all facts go against these sayings. But since justice don’t punish women for false accusations and perjury, then why not trying, right?
Now 5 months later, we have a weak shared custody agreement. There will be no consequences for all the lies, the violence towards me and our children, I was basically said a mother can lose custody only if she beats her children (and it’s fully provable), she heavily addicted to drugs, or she chooses to abandon them. She even tried to take the kids out of the country, but I should have let that happened to maybe have gained sole custody. Or lost my children altogether. If I had done any mistake, even little (almost happened last month when she set me up when we exchanged the kids), then it would be instant custody loss. What she does is parental alienation at its finest and there’s nothing to do about it. Bias is not a word strong enough to describe it. Fun fact I discovered recently: she’s looking for a roommate, “male preferably”, to share a second condo she rented “by mistake” (long story…she did many mistakes, and relied on me and her own Dad to pay for all her mistakes).
Now let’s go back to the reason of me being here. I’m thankful to my ex for one thing: having showed me what some women are capable of, and what the society bias is. If it wasn’t thanks to her, I would still be in that situation, living a not so great life because I thought it was my role. I became interested in men’s and fathers’ rights and learnt a lot about men’s and women’s rights and what feminism is actually about. It’s been a journey and I’m not there yet, but I am trying to prioritize my needs and wishes over what women and society and dictating me to do. I am not a bad person for doing so. However, as a involved Dad of two little girls, there is some adjustment to do. I’m still learning. I heard only this morning about MGTOW and it appears to me to fully resonate as my new goal in life after I discovered marriage was a illusion. Don’t get me wrong, I am not mad or bitter at women in general, or even to my ex. I want her to behave like a responsible adult and parent, or get away from my children’s life. People tell me I’ll get married again, but I don’t think so. I will likely date again, but I don’t feel the need right now. I enjoy my life, just have to deal with some craziness that I hope will be behind me soon.
That was longer than expected…thank you for all that read me!
Topic: Deceived by Conniving Female
I pride myself on being a mghow and I thought I knew the manipulative nature of women. I did not know enough. I was deceived.
I sell, repair and service small engines. Long story short, I hung up on a woman who was asking dumb questions I’d already answered. This woman, who I’d had no business with, wrote a bad review about my company.
She then kept calling, wanting to order a part. Naturally, I told her to f~~~ off as she had just burned my company’s image. This is where the blue pill was swallowed. All the bulls~~~ 12 step rhetoric slips in, the blue pill thoughts “I need to make this right, I shouldn’t have hung up on her, I was wrong, this is not like me, I have a resentment and need to make amends” etc… into blue pill hell. I caved in after a few days.
So I apologized and say to her, “I will help you on the condition that you take down that ridiculous review.” So the review comes down, she buys the part and I even go out of my way, like a true simp, to help her put it on, charging her nothing for labor as it was a simple/fast job, apologizing for hanging up on her, explaining that she can keep coming to my store for future business. I thought I was displaying a good foot forward, a gesture of good faith. I was doing what a man should do, set things straight with my honor and goodwill.
This was a mistake. The second that bitch was gone, the bad review came back up. Google and Yelp don’t give a f~~~, they leave that review up and several other false, defamatory and abrasive reviews. They should all be sued but I can’t afford it or care to. Of course, reviews were invented for assholes to defame you with psychotic emotional comments–to which you have no defense, the stars just fall no matter what you say. Google and Yelp just post whatever they want, unverified, inflammatory, etc etc…
Let this serve as a lesson to you men who run your own business. Never trust women, ever! They manipulate and put on the most believable personas, true masters of deceit. They have no honor.
Now, I’ve been had. I feel like the lowest of scum. A good man shamed, used, deceived and robbed of self worth. If I didn’t know better I’d take my life or pick up drinking again. That’s how low you feel when you try to do the right thing and a woman takes full advantage of the opportunity to ruin you. The female viper has no mercy or compassion, she just strikes without cause, without reason, without remorse.
Be warned Gentlemen. Not only do women have no honor but there are several men who they have at their disposal. You are outnumbered and you do not have the manipulation and convincing masks that they have. You will fail. Your honor and goodwill mean nothing. The only solution is to be on constant alert, to practice and succeed in not taking blue pills. Never help them. Charge them for everything.
I wish I could say that this was an isolated event but in truth this sort of s~~~ has been happening for years. Feminist indoctrinated and instinctively manipulative women f~~~ing me over in every discourse of life, personal and public. Their slaved men, their boy friends and husbands at their side white knighting them all the way. Our fellow men, deluded by the promise of pussy, slay us with no second thought.
Take notice of my grief and why I have it today. Don’t let this happen to you. I’ve learned form this today and continue to strive to be a better mgtow. I strive and I keep going because I will not give up and drink or kill myself. I will not resort to physical violence against them and go to jail. If I do that s~~~, they win. No. I live to fight another day. Fool me once, shame on you. Twice? Shame on me!
Now I’m becoming all too aware of the blue pill nature of chivalry, of helping people (men or women), or letting myself be a tool. Im so sick of it. i dont even care if I get fired or reprimanded anymore. Im just done. I have to guard my self esteem, my emotions and my company. Im just done believing women or giving them the benefit of the doubt in anyway. Beware or your dealings with women. Do not trust them, get the cash and get out.
men are now refusing to co-operate with what women want and refusing to get married:
Non co-operation is the best strategy men have of fighting back.
But there’s no reason it should be limited to just marriage as a form of non co-operation. identify what women want and then refuse to co-operate and make a point of not giving it to them. They will soon get the message.
Can we all brainstorm what women want please and then we can figure out ways to not give it to them. here’s some:
– marriage
– chivalry
– attention
– money
– gifts
– dating
– compliments
– drama
Not only should we not do the above ourselves, we should go around actively encouraging other guys not to do it. go break up a few weddings – catch the hen fooling around on the hen night and show the groom pics.
One of my favourites is to not let women out at junctions when I’m driving ever but make a point of letting men out. This drives women crazy and they hate it. I’m nice and safe wrapped in steel so it’s a great one and nothing they can do. Chivalry is not dead, but I’m working on killing it off.
Ignoring their drama is pretty effective too. if guys stopped taking any notice of their feminist whinging and stopped commenting on websites and just ignored them they would shut up a lot quicker.
persuading men not to get married is a pretty easy sell
Topic: Life at the Workplace
Yesterday a woman colleague for makes an issue with the time I leave work, saying sarcastically in front of others I am just looking to avoid work. I object to this.
She doesn’t buy it and I call her out on her bulls~~~ and drop the F-bomb on her. She explodes and it takes 2 men to hold her back. I stay calm and still without saying a word while she screams that I should be in a mental hospital and I am ‘lazy’ when I have done tons more work than she ever has. I leave when one of the men (my supervisor) realizes the situation is not fixable and orders me to leave early.
Good thing they held her back. Because if she so much as touched me as then she would have committed assault and I would have to defend myself. I don’t buy into the chivalry bulls~~~. Once this other side of myself (from my conscription days in the sadistic training regimen) takes over I am like a shark on a feeding frenzy, and I would be in a lock-up by now facing jail time probably for “violent assault”.
Took medical leave out of genuine reasons of burn-out from a whole week of moving heavy stuff, but also to let things at work simmer down.
Working at a job is not fun. Remains to be seen what my employer thinks.
Topic: Slaying the Dragons
My profile describes a little bit about my early history with women. This week, I’ve read “The Predatory Female.” The thing I love most about rationale is its not easily undone. It is not a joy being without sex, but I do feel 15 years younger as my hobbies are available to me at any time. I am free to choose and apply my philosophy, express myself artistically, and prioritize my health. My ambitions have returned and I feel more masculine than ever. I see films with men in power suits and know that I can only be self-actualized if I get my head straight and marginilize pussy.
My roommate is a female, I’ve known her for over 15 years. She is a financial analyst with a very strong salary history and a beach house appreciating significantly in value. While I was taking a serious interest in MGTOW, she happened to be in pursuit of a “real man” who will pay her bills and perform her home maintenance for free. Of course she’s been told I shall do neither. For the past two weeks, while I get deeper into studying female behavior, I’ve watched her sleep with a different man every night. I’ve heard the conversations with her girlfriends about how she needs a “provider.” I’ve watched her take dick from the bartender around the corner one night, and invite her ex-boyfriend over the next. While she f~~~s to her pleasure, every other night she has the ex-boyfriend over, gradually lulling him back into her trap. Pity…
I’m not angry about this, I feel lucky. Lucky to know the behavior of my adversary. I’m saddened by what feminism has done to the relationships between men and women. Girls don’t understand where “chivalry” and “romance” come from, or why men no longer feel obligated to exercise it. I can’t change the world, but I can change my own little corner of reality, and take responsiblity to starve the parasite out of the system. This means no more holding doors open, no more “ma’ams,” no more eye contact, no more dinners, no more help, and no more money. Civility, sure. Chivalry, no f~~~ing way, not even to a 90 year old.
They made this bed, let them lie in it.

