Oh - lets see. How about borrowing 250,000 Dkr (40k$) from my old retired father to balance out the bank loan for our house. Money that should under no circumstances be spend, just to see my wife burn through half of it is less then 1 year - and not caring a $hit about it. Bam - Red Pill please. Or, how about the time when I bought a defaulted house on a auction - an investment I knew would take a lot of my time and money to turn into a profit - my dear wife just asked, and I quote: "Why should I allow you to spend so much time and money on this project? What's in it for me?" Oh, I'll have the Red Pill galore menu please...