"You're Nice, But I'm Just Not Into Men"

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

I’m actually laughing about it

Good! Exactly the right attitude. I’m glad you see the value in it. Now don’t you f~~~ing cave on me.
Right now her respect for you is in the toilet.

But on Friday, you will elevate your status in her mind to Grand Poo-bah and graduate from MGTOW University with honors – just in time for International MGTOW Day! The timing could not be more perfect.

I expect a FULL report on Saturday AM, and depending on your post, I may or may not have your diploma ready.

Looking forward to it. May the force be with you, young Jedi.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Sorry, brief, but we all saw that coming.

I wouldn’t even bother confirming the plan, just vanish on her. Sever all contact and move on with your life. Just like any bad investment, she’s not even worth the time it would take to talk to her again.

You know this is the truth. She is dead to you, so dead that if someone said her name, you wouldn’t even take the time to say “who?”

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Exactly.

I need a back-up plan, too.  She occasionally has to come to my department regardless at work, and she’d probably need to go by my office anyway around noon tomorrow (which happens to be exactly when I get off work).  Since I obviously can’t not say anything to her if she needs something from me while I’m working, should I: 1) pretend/treat her like I have no idea who she is or 2) be as silent as possible?  Either one sounds good for my sake, but she’s ridiculously good at reading people, and would notice if something is “different” about me.  I also get off work at noon on Fridays.

I also have applied for another position at the university that is literally away from the whole building I work in at the moment, so if I get that position, I won’t have to see her (or really any female my age) again…and I’ll be making significantly more money.  I took the test on the position yesterday afternoon and killed every test.  Here’s hoping I’ll get it, as it will make like much easier.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Aw geez man…just tell the twit you have a date with a pair of hawt bisexual college girls that want to take turns riding your boloney pony and your face.  Explain that under those circumstances you won’t have any time to socialize.  Then thank her for being understanding.

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Mission accomplished.  Walked out of there, didn’t even send her a message telling her I was leaving (heck, I don’t owe her a message…or anything, for that matter).  Haven’t heard a thing from her since.  Might be for the better anyway!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yes. Chris, the time for manners is LONG GONE. If a girl wasted ANY seconds of my time with “I’ll come by to say hi”… I would tell her she may only come by to lick the sweat off my b~~~~. This is how have to you talk to women today.

If she texts you ANYTHING but “be right over”….. you will not f~~~ing speak to her again.

while I’m working, should I:…..

Effective TODAY – international dump that bitch day – you should stop thinking about it. Stop thinking about her and start making plans to never hang around with such a f~~~ing buzzkill ever again.

SHE: “Im not into men”.

YOU: “Im not into acknowledging the existence of any bitch who isn’t polishing my taint to spit-shined perfection.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

It’s been my experience that women, especially in their teens and twenties, as 2/14 approaches, will make contact or re-estblish contact or confirm contact with men she considers to be white knights, manginas, orbiters…whatever tag you want to put on guys she’s not having sex with. They reestablish contact because they want to make sure that on 2/14, they get attention from someone (anyone). What kind of attention doesn’t matter. Gift, candy, text message or flowers doesn’t matter. How many guys she gets some attention from also doesn’t matter…AS LONG AS THE NUMBER OF GUYS IS NOT ZERO.

It is extremely important to women, in their own social circles among themselves, that someone acknowledges to them that they are still want-able by someone on 2/14. They constantly compare themselves to each other, and they are pretty merciless. What they like most is flowers sent to them where they work and delivered among all the other women they work with…so everyone sees. The most frightening thing in the world, is to have everyone else in the office get flowers or candy or some other form of attention, and then to be the only girl in the office who got ignored and forgotten. Women rub each other’s noses in that when it happens.

Reading about this girl, I’d say she is trying to make sure she is not THAT girl. It sounds like she’s gotten a date from a promising target, but she wants a backup plan just in case. I believe this is the motivation for ‘maybe stopping by to say hi’ and may also be the motivation for the odd text to say hi tomorrow on 2/14. If you hear from her on 2/15, you can assume the date didn’t go well…

Ignore all that s~~~. Ignore these little games indefinitely, but make damn certain that you ignore them for the next 72 hours. Any proactive attention a woman goes out of way to give a male in the last few days before 2/14 is just her trying to shore up insurance against being that girl that got (publicly) ignored on that day. I would not only ignore her, I’d delete from phone, Facebook whatever.

Treat this like an amputation.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[ChromestarParticipant 101]

I know Im nit-picking this, but this one has stayed with me for a long time and im STILL trying to figure it out.

In my eyes this had to be the most LAMEST excuse to NOT like men.

A quote from ‘Cara Delevingne’ from the dailymail click link. (I hate dailymail, predominately a feminist orientated site/paper – probably the last time im ever going to link from there again)

“Men Just want sex” –  I thought being gay or lesbian was somthing you’re born with, not because you dislike what the opposite gender is into.

What would you expect to be talking about, when you’re virtually naked in magazines? The trees?

The newspaper site goes on to call It a ‘flaw’ in men.

[davParticipant 422]

She is 22 and was born with a silver spoon in her mouth. Of course Men just want to root her, she has nothing else to offer. Ever heard a woman complain Men are just chasing them for their amazing intellect?

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Chromestar:

Having lived in Gay Mecca (San Francisco) for 15 years, I can assure you that there are plenty of men who are born gay but there are very few females who are. For females, lesbianism is a socio-political statement… a reaction against men and the threats (real or perceived) that we represent. It’s a reaction against power, responsibility, their own inadequacies as females and their fears of rejection and most of all it’s a reaction against giving in to the pleasures of being taken, dominated, used and tossed aside by men… which is what all females secretly desire.

And if you don’t believe that last statement to be true, go to your local used bookstore and buy a half dozen Harlequin Romance novels and read them cover to cover then tell me what you think. 50 Shades of Grey is not a new phenomenon.

Anyway, you should never believe a female who says she doesn’t like dick. Even the most hardcore lesbians go for a dick now and then (nothing else satisfies, apparently) and the ones who say they aren’t into sex of any kind at all are either damaged beyond repair or just plain full of s~~~. Mostly they’re just f~~~ing someone else and need a convenient excuse to hang onto you as an orbiter. Otherwise probably they’re either f~~~ed up from childhood abuse or so full of themselves that they can’t give a damn about human contact or they’re on medication that kills their sex drive.

In any case, if she doesn’t jump on your dick by the fourth date, she’s a lost cause… and if she’s taking mood stabilizers that kill her sex drive, she’s SERIOUSLY f~~~ed up and not even a good dicking is going to help her.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

When I first found out, I actually wondered if this guy she was seeing was indeed just something to have so she could say she “has a Valentine” for today.  I feel bad for the guy in a way.  Either way, I had a good feeling I was being lied to from the beginning, and after discovering this website and thinking it over, it only confirmed the feeling in my mind.

@DocFenderson – Regarding your 3rd paragraph, that’s what I always found interesting; I’ve read about lesbians (particularly on Tumblr) talking about “what toy to use”, all of which represent the infamous male appendage.  There’s definitely an undeniable worship of the phallus still going on by women.

[ChromestarParticipant 101]

Stargazer wrote:

It’s a reaction against power, responsibility, their own inadequacies as females and their fears of rejection and most of all it’s a reaction against giving in to the pleasures of being taken, dominated, used and tossed aside by men… which is what all females secretly desire. And if you don’t believe that last statement to be true, go to your local used bookstore and buy a half dozen Harlequin Romance novels and read them cover to cover then tell me what you think. 50 Shades of Grey is not a new phenomenon.

Thanks Doc, Just needed some clarification on why she said that and thought its ‘OK’ for everyone to understand because shes some model.

I was actually listening to ‘Tom Leykis101’ earlier today and said the exact same thing you did “Women secretly want the pleasures of being taken, dominated, used and tossed aside by men… which is what all females secretly desire.” Exactly the same thing.

I became a MGTOW back in August-september after a year of piecing the final jigsaws in my mind as to why Society is so off-balance and favors heavily on women. So im not that new to the so-called 50 shades of grey phenomenon. Surely you’ve lived through the trend when all those women were getting wet because they’re reading the book version. Yeah that s~~~ too – took me a while to figure out.

Keymaster once advised me that I have to reach the stage where im not angered anymore to the point where im laughing instead of giving a s~~~ about women. Im at the ‘Post-anger’ point at this moment in time, and starting to see the hilarious side of things now. This Dude is like a mentor to me and probably doesnt even know it.

All the best Peeps

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

@chromestar I agree completely, and the guys on this site have helped me become the same way.  Instead of reacting emotionally to situations like this where I’m rejected as I’ve often been in my life, I laugh at it and scratch them off my “to do” list.  To me, they are still physically attractive, but mentally, they’ve lost me.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I agree with you both, Megachris% and Chromestar. I even found a pithy quote to fit the sentiment.

If you are pained by external things, it is not they that disturb you, but your own judgment of them. And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now.
–Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Chromestar wrote:

I was actually listening to ‘Tom Leykis101′ earlier today and said the exact same thing you did “Women secretly want the pleasures of being taken, dominated, used and tossed aside by men… which is what all females secretly desire.” Exactly the same thing.

Really? It wasn’t my intention to quote the Professor, though obviously I have listened to his program and agree with him on this.

Okay, I’ll give you something original… maybe Tom Leykis has said this too but I know I haven’t heard it anywhere else. Being a booty call is the female equivalent of a man being friendzoned. If you think about the male/female value proposition, the male wants quick casual sex to satisfy his biological imperative to spread his genetic material and the female wants lasting emotional connection to satisfy her biological imperative to secure protection and resources from a man.

The friendzone occurs when a man allows himself to give up exactly what the female wants from him without getting any sex in return for himself… therefore the female equivalent would be when she gives up exactly what the male wants from her without getting any emotional connection for herself… by becoming the booty call.

Don’t believe any female who says she is happy having a guy she can just call up and bang when she wants. That is a female who is doing psychological damage to herself by compartmentalizing her need for sex and using it to feel empowered. That is the female equivalent of white knighting for men. The female who says “I’m a strong, empowered woman who loves sex!” is the one who is most likely to cut your dick off when she finds out you’re a strong, powerful man who is having sex with someone in addition to her… just like the white knight goes into a blind rage when he sees a female giving herself emotionally to another man.

And women love to be taken, dominated, used and tossed aside.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

One more update on this lady.

She came into my office Thursday.  As she said “just coming by to say hi since I didn’t see you last Friday…where were you, by the way?”  IMMEDIATELY what came to mind was what Keymaster said about “women just saying hi.”

I was as short and brief with her as I could possibly be.  The chocolates I had for her in advance were instead given to my best buddy so he could get some action from his chick…and it worked.

A HUGE part of me wanted to tell her, “so, new boyfriend, eh?”  Knowing that 1) that would cause unneeded drama, 2) I knew that would be a non-logical, womanly, emotional response, and 3) it would make me sound “jealous,” I held back.

The most I said was a VERY brief statement about “your man”, to which she happily talked about him…almost as if she never told me she was a lesbian in the first place.  Almost like she conveniently forgot!  Miraculous, right?  The “conversation” went much, much shorter than it normally did before when I cared.

Now that I don’t care enough to ask her questions, I feel kinda free in a way!

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