Your Time, My Time, It All Becomes Her Time

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

There are many traps along the road to a relationship where the man is asked to give up his previous life and now devote his time and attention to “The RELATIOINSHIP”. One of the traps that is set along the way is the commitment and restrictions that are put on your time. This is a trap that is set slowly and in its most wicked form, you agree to do something you don’t really care to do, but will to please her. You think you are making a small gesture to please her, but underlying all that is a subtle shift on where your time is now committed going forward. The trap works like this:

You meet a nice young lady and she pretty and you get access to her body and you are feeling pretty good about everything. The little lady also seems to like the activities you do, and goes along with you to some of them. What could be better for you, you get to show off to everyone that you’re manly enough to hook a pretty little squeeze.

This is the setting of the trap.

The second phase is she will do some activities with you she really isn’t that fond of, but she just want to be with you, whatever you are doing.

Gentleman…this is baiting the trap. Because, as you are thanking her for going with you even when she doesn’t like (whatever it is, the movie, football, your friend John) she is building a debt that will be called in later.

You have also subconsciously agreed that for ever going forward, the focus is no longer what you want to do, or what she wants to do, but instead, the most important thing is that you commit all your free time to each other, to the relationship, (well don’t you want to spend time with me). First call on what use to be “your” time….. is now HER. Not the activity you like, not even her interests…but that all time not specifically designated for some specific activity belongs to the “relationships” .

The trap is closed. She went to things she didn’t like for you and now you have to go do things with her you don’t want to do. Like hang out with her friend and her friends boyfriend. Meet her Mom and Dad. Go grocery shopping.

Guys, don’t fall for the baited trap. You use to have your time. She use to have her time. You accepted her offer to go with you to something she doesn’t care for, and now you’re on “relationship time”.

This is too hard to get out after you’ve practically jumped in. The first time she agrees to go do something with you she doesn’t really want to do, don’t agree. say you didn’t get in to a relationship with her to make her do things she doesn’t find enjoyable. The first time she tells you she wants you to go with you to do something because she just wants to be with you….decline. That’s how you end up 6 months later walking around behind her with a shopping cart as she shows her new trained pet to the world. It doesn’t get easier after the first time, or the second. Set the conditions right away.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

It seems to good to be true at first while in the relationship only after she changes to the bitch she’s destined to be. Later she expects you to do everything for her. I’d be better off in prison than handling this bitch’s needs.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Anonymous 14]

Romulus wrote:

There are many traps along the road to a relationship where the man is asked to give up his previous life and now devote his time and attention to “The RELATIOINSHIP”.

Great post, and this is so true… There is a decent chance that I could have been a pro athlete had it not been for my simp behavior when I was young.

Women will grab you by the dick and point you in the direction they want you to go, that is, if you let them.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

That’s just one of the problems that comes along with “relationships”.

It begins when you start dating, and you make allowances to spend time doing things that you really don’t want to do because she has done the same for you.

It’s all so subtle, and seems like a small price to pay. Actually, while under the Blue Pill Influence it ‘s just expected, and it may not even be all that noticeable that you are beginning to give up not only what you want to do in the present, but are inadvertently Expected to do it over and over again in the future.

This is the subtle beginning of LOSING YOUR FREEDOM.

“Just dating” can become a very slippery slope that eventually leads you down a very dangerous path.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

I was talking to a co worker yesterday.
He was asking me about women, why they change their minds so often, ect.

I told him that is done intentionaly, to keep you confused and too busy trying to sort it all out, to have any thoughts of your own .

I told him, dont worry about her nonsense.
Just focus on your own thoughts and the things that are inportant to YOU.

No I didnt mention Mgtow. Hahah

He aint ready for that!

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

It begins when you start dating, and you make allowances to spend time doing things that you really don’t want to do because she has done the same for you.

It’s all so subtle, and seems like a small price to pay. Actually, while under the Blue Pill Influence it ‘s just expected, and it may not even be all that noticeable that you are beginning to give up not only what you want to do in the present, but are inadvertently Expected to do it over and over again in the future.

Absolutely. That is a trap I fell in to more than once. Then one day, I’m find myself pushing a grocery cart behind my wife and two kids at a Safeway…..responding to if we need diet sprite…..and anyway what was I thinking don’t I remember that Billy likes coco pebbles and not coco puffs…..and wondering how it feels to be dead.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Great post. You are a genius. One of the subtle things I noticed in the last few relationships I had before MGTOW was the disposition of sleepovers.

When you first start dating of course the sex is great and you want it every night. But you don’t yet live together so someone has to sleep at the other’s house and its quite inconvenient where getting up and going to work the next day is concerned.

So, for the first few weeks you swap back and forth: one night at yours one at hers. But after a few weeks it becomes sleepovers at HERS only.

I think this is another trap. You like the sex but hate the inconvenience the next day so you start thinking: “We should live together. That will be so much more convenient!”

And the trap is closed.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

What I really like about your post is the suggestion that it is gradual and slowly matriculated, you are like a frog in the boiling water. Its very manipulative and cagey….

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Great post. You are a genius. One of the subtle things I noticed in the last few relationships I had before MGTOW was the disposition of sleepovers.

I agree Zarathustra….the over night dance is another trap. In my case, it was the slow accumulation of her morning stuff (hair dryer, makeup, tooth brush, etc…Eisenhower invaded Normandy with less gear than some women have in the bathroom) at my place so when she woke up the next day she had all her care products in at the ready. When I was younger, I liked that, didn’t see the trap I was entering. Like that line from “Fight Club”…she’s a predator posing as a house pet…

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Zarathustra wrote:

Great post. You are a genius. One of the subtle things I noticed in the last few relationships I had before MGTOW was the disposition of sleepovers.

When you first start dating of course the sex is great and you want it every night. But you don’t yet live together so someone has to sleep at the other’s house and its quite inconvenient where getting up and going to work the next day is concerned.

So, for the first few weeks you swap back and forth: one night at yours one at hers. But after a few weeks it becomes sleepovers at HERS only.

I think this is another trap. You like the sex but hate the inconvenience the next day so you start thinking: “We should live together. That will be so much more convenient!”

And the trap is closed.

Damn…

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[AttonParticipant]

Rum or Bourbon is better.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Unless I didn’t read that right – you missed off the part where she cuts off your friends.

One of the reasons for doing things with you (fakes interest in your hobbies) is so that instead of you going to do things with your friends like you used to, you now do them with her. Once you have been going out long enough she stops going and gives you grief for going by yourself (the friend has long since given up going)

Friendship destroyed and hobby obliterated….happens every time

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

I have no concept of any of the crap you guys write about.

I just do whatever I want.

I faintly remember that when I used to be in relationships I also did whatever I wanted.

It’s your life. If you choose to be a beta cuck then don’t whine about it.

Monk

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Meister wrote:

I have no concept of any of the crap you guys write about.

I just do whatever I want.

I faintly remember that when I used to be in relationships I also did whatever I wanted.

It’s your life. If you choose to be a beta cuck then don’t whine about it.

cool story…

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Jim01 wrote:

Meister wrote:

I have no concept of any of the crap you guys write about.

I just do whatever I want.

I faintly remember that when I used to be in relationships I also did whatever I wanted.

It’s your life. If you choose to be a beta cuck then don’t whine about it.

cool story…

I know.
I’m trying to sell the movie rights.

Monk

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Meister wrote:

Jim01 wrote:

Meister wrote:

I have no concept of any of the crap you guys write about.

I just do whatever I want.

I faintly remember that when I used to be in relationships I also did whatever I wanted.

It’s your life. If you choose to be a beta cuck then don’t whine about it.

cool story…

I know.
I’m trying to sell the movie rights.

haha good response!

[VerusParticipant 965]

I like the way you describe the process. I’ve been there myself, didn’t realized it was happening until it was too late. Eventually my ex admitted to me that she thought the activities we shared early in the relationship were stupid and a waste of time. I’m linking to a song about where this process leads – servile blue pill hell, and resentment when you realize you have become an accessory in her wardrobe (or less).

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3759]

Screw that ! My time is MINE !

But I can see it happening all the time. Not a matter of if, only a matter of when.

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