Your greatest victory in a relationship?

[survivorParticipant 610]

All of us here have had the setbacks with nasty broads. I’m sure there have been some victories, too. I was touched by SolidusX relating how he moved out and got away from a very controlling woman some weeks ago with the help of some pals. And seeing Judgment from God come on my wife for her laziness was gratifying even though she still worked to try and pin it on me. How about the rest of you? Feel free to share. Your sharing will give the rest of us some ray of hope and who knows, maybe brighten a very dark day.

"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

Surviving relationships without marriage into my 30’s.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Refusing to start or ending the relationship is every man’s greatest victory in a relationship.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[BoarParticipant]

Walking away.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Never having a serious or commited one.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[UnicronParticipant 752]

Replying “I know, but I don’t care because I’ve been sleeping with your sister” after she confessed to having an affair with my (now former) Friend.

Remembering her look of absolute devastation still brings a smile to my face.

Marriage is the process of finding out what kind of man your wife would have preferred.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Blowing off a young hot t~~~ years ago. The look on her face of “How dare you not sacrifice your b~~~~ and dignity for a chance to worship my golden vagina” was priceless!!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

What relationship?

[AmongstMenParticipant 129]

Being turned down continuously and eventually finding Mgtow as a result is my greatest victory. Never been in a relationship/went on a date, proud of it!

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Breaking off with my high school sweetheart at three different stages in life. I am almost positive I was the only guy to say goodbye to her in her entire life. She was a heartbreaker to many, many men (myself included).

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Ignoring them!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

When I broke up with her.

She was acting too bitchy. And I was curious about the red pill. When she threatened to break up with me, I called her bluff. And she cried, and cried, and cried.

If only I didnt f~~~ it up by giving her a borthday gift a month laterZ

Brother, we need to stick together.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Walking away on my terms

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[OldBillParticipant]

Up until several years ago, my greatest victory used to be navigating successfully through my 20s, 30s, and 40s without suffering through a long term “relations~~~” let alone an engagement or marriage.

Then I became involved with “Cheryl”.

I’ve written about her before. She caught me during a particularly bad period in my life. I just had one career end had no new one in sight, I was downsizing my life as a result, facing my late 40s with all that entails, a couple health issues, just a nasty combination of events that undoubtedly had me slightly depressed.

It’s when you’re at your weakest and most distracted that they set their hooks.

She slowly ground away on more for months, breaking me and training me to be her good little wage slave. Then one day I woke up. I don’t know what it was that sparked that awareness in me, maybe some survival instinct. Whatever it was, I’m damn grateful for it. I was out of the “relations~~~” and out of her control in 24 hours.

I still didn’t have a new career, I no longer had a place to live, and everything I still owned was in storage, but I was FREE.

And that’s all that matters.

For all you men out there in horrific marriages and relationships, you’ve nothing to lose but your chains. You have nothing left, so you have nothing left to lose.

Get out. Get out as soon as you can. Get out so you can begin to live again. Get out, just get out and get away.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

My ex and me were over, she met Chad .. I found out and never said a word , she wanted a quick divorce so we agreed a finance deal which I was happy with..

It was luck on my part she found Chad, but thanks I owe you a beer.

To this day she still does not know I know, I never wanted her then but many guys would have created , if I had the bill would have been higher.

A victory by stealth I guess.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Greatest victory? Breaking up with my ex who was living with me. That’s about the only victory I can think of because I wouldn’t engage in arguments with them.

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