You Have simply Outgrown her, and You have Moved Past Her…

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

A friend of mine who’s more Red Pill than he knows made a comment to me the other day in reference to my marital situation, and it not only hit home about my particular situation, but upon reflection I think that it can be a generalization about where I and many other men are with “dating/relationships”.

His statement was, “You have outgrown her, and you have moved past her”. When I thought about this it made perfect sense with not only the current parasitical trap, but it pretty much summed up what I think about dating and relationships with ANY woman.

I can go on and on about THEM, and how much they don’t have to offer, hypergamy, their Lies, and how much they NEED a host to continue with their parasitical ways as they age etc. etc. etc., but instead of putting the focus on THEM, it’s nice to put the focus on thyself.

In my youth, I had that need/desire/want for the “relationship” whether it was biological drives or some combination of societal programming/LIES etc., and whatever IT WAS it’s not really point of this realization.

The POINT is that whatever it WAS that lead me along that Blue Pill Path, I NO LONGER have it. I’ve “outgrown” all that. I have moved past all that.

Maybe, it also has part to do with getting older?

Maybe, it has to do with just NOT having the patience or desire to ALWAYS have to deal with ANOTHER person?

Maybe, it’s just NOT wanting to have to make another person “happy”?

I think that it may be more about getting to a point where I DO MORE FOR ME.

The ONLY person that I have to try and keep content or happy is MYSELF.

There just is NO ROOM in MY HEAD or MY HEART for dating/relationships. I’ve simply outgrown all that and moved past it, and I no longer believe in Santa or the Easter bunny either.

LIFE sure is SIMPLER without Fairy Tales or delusions of Unicorns.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Thats a great way to think of it , women you lie with every day are dull..at best

[TaxGuyParticipant]

The blue pill lie you are sold about marriage is that you will grow old with this loving, caring woman who has your best interest at heart. She will be supportive and make your life easier. And you will make her life easier. What’s the old saying? If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. It sounds great. And then in retirement, after you have raised a couple of great kids and stop pulling the plow, you have a partner in crime to travel together, take care of each other, and grow old together.

Yeah, great story. But what you really got was someone that looks out for themselves first, second, and third. She doesn’t love you and doesn’t want you around.

So it’s not as hard as it sounds to outgrow a leach that sucked the life out of you for a couple of decades. And it’s pretty easy to move past the thought of another leach attaching itself to you. The risk doesn’t outweigh to potential reward. It’s like playing the lottery, but you can’t just bet $5, you have to bet half of everything you own. And the odds of winning are just about the same.

Order the good wine

[hmskl’dParticipant 6418]

I’ve simply outgrown all that and moved past it,

this is so true,
socializing would essential mean trying to make chat with some local barstool on-the-wall awalt
that conversation would be so boring and dull .. it would be like dumbing down and putting life in reverse

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

TaxGuy wrote:

The blue pill lie you are sold about marriage is that you will grow old with this loving, caring woman who has your best interest at heart. She will be supportive and make your life easier. And you will make her life easier. What’s the old saying? If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. It sounds great. And then in retirement, after you have raised a couple of great kids and stop pulling the plow, you have a partner in crime to travel together, take care of each other, and grow old together.

I’ve seen that Hallmark movie !! LOL LOL

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

hmskl’d wrote:

socializing would essential mean trying to make chat with some local barstool on-the-wall awaltthat conversation would be so boring and dull .. it would be like dumbing down and putting life in reverse

I envisioned this scene, and the ONLY word that came to my mind was DEPRESSING.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22578]

One form of a Living Hell is realizing you have emotionally out grown everyone around you, yet everyone else still holds the purse strings and opportunities, with them doing their best to keep you under their collective thumb.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

the total absence of real humility in today’s women is appalling. They can put on a good act, but its just an act.

Women called the bluff, why should they behave or honor their husbands when the Law affords them Absolute Power??

Modern life has spoiled them rotten so much that they literally can’t perform as designed. They are not happy. 50% of women are on anti-depressants. They are sick in a medical sense.

T-Rex doesnt want to be fed, it wants to hunt. Women don’t need rights, they are already favored naturally. Women excel and are most happy when you do NOT give them authority. They weren’t designed to lead. There is nobility in being second best. We need to let women be humble again by taking back the power. Its not personal, its objective for human progress.

We have ruined the environmental circumstances of how our population remains healthy and chugging along, by not respecting the evolutionary psychology of biological sexual dimorphism. You cant give women this kind of power, they have no virtue or loyalty because surviving Ice Ages didn’t require it. You have to respect what we are as a species that is in tune with nature.

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

Gravel Pit wrote:

We have ruined the environmental circumstances of how our population remains healthy and chugging along, by not respecting the evolutionary psychology of biological sexual dimorphism.

And, there is No Going back.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I agree bro. Taking back the 19th amendment is not even remotely possible. Not that it would help anyway, nor any other repealing of women’s rights like abortion or divorce. There’s no way to get the votes to end Child Support or to give Men ‘Opt Out’ privileges.

[Branched offParticipant 11014]

Good way of looking at it.

Women seem to live life in reverse once they are 18. It all just gets harder for them, their mental powers diminish quite fast and their life satisfaction and sanity wane. By the time one has grown children a woman is ready to be a grandmother and mother in law. A man is ready to be head the extended family and a village elder. It is no wonder we move past them. We are destined for different things.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22559]

Awakened wrote:

A friend of mine who’s more Red Pill than he knows made a comment to me the other day in reference to my marital situation, and it not only hit home about my particular situation, but upon reflection I think that it can be a generalization about where I and many other men are with “dating/relationships”.
His statement was, “You have outgrown her, and you have moved past her”. When I thought about this it made perfect sense with not only the current parasitical trap, but it pretty much summed up what I think about dating and relationships with ANY woman.
I can go on and on about THEM, and how much they don’t have to offer, hypergamy, their Lies, and how much they NEED a host to continue with their parasitical ways as they age etc. etc. etc., but instead of putting the focus on THEM, it’s nice to put the focus on thyself.
In my youth, I had that need/desire/want for the “relationship” whether it was biological drives or some combination of societal programming/LIES etc., and whatever IT WAS it’s not really point of this realization.
The POINT is that whatever it WAS that lead me along that Blue Pill Path, I NO LONGER have it. I’ve “outgrown” all that. I have moved past all that.
Maybe, it also has part to do with getting older?
Maybe, it has to do with just NOT having the patience or desire to ALWAYS have to deal with ANOTHER person?
Maybe, it’s just NOT wanting to have to make another person “happy”?
I think that it may be more about getting to a point where I DO MORE FOR ME.
The ONLY person that I have to try and keep content or happy is MYSELF.
There just is NO ROOM in MY HEAD or MY HEART for dating/relationships. I’ve simply outgrown all that and moved past it, and I no longer believe in Santa or the Easter bunny either.
LIFE sure is SIMPLER without Fairy Tales or delusions of Unicorns.

And tye thing is, you never planned to be this way. If women were different and society didnt reward them while demonizing and punishing men, men would never get to this point. But the love of many grows cold, not because we want to be cold towards them, but because its about sanity and survival, and the fact women have been cold towards men since the Garden mishap.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Gravel Pit wrote:

We need to let women be humble again by taking back the power.

NO.
This is tradcon bulls~~~.
Furthermore women never had been humble, it’s a feminist lie: women ruled their home, sometimes even with an iron fist.

As I posted elsewhere: we have to move away from the line of fire, then let them to discuss with Allah.
Then we’ll MAY weight things, costs and benefits, but just only if there will be nothing better to do.

And the actual priority is: GET OUT FROM THAT F~~~ING LINE OF FIRE!

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[SpleeferParticipant 966]

Great thread, very good stuff from everyone.

Awakened wrote:

but instead of putting the focus on THEM, it’s nice to put the focus on thyself.

delusions of Unicorns.

The other day I had a victim mentality, when it comes to the bulls~~~ of women. That makes me want to puke. I can’t stand people like that, they are stuck in the mud. So I started writing all the blessings in my life. Fellas I could go on and on, my life is going the right direction. Then I thought, why the hell was I Consumed with all the F’d up stuff women do? Then it hit me. I’m not as red pilled as I thought, inside the subconscious mind I’m still looking for that Unicorn. So when the bulls~~~ of women continues to appear in front of me, I get more and more disappointed that this is the world we live in Today.

Unicorns don’t exist, I need to stop the delusion in my conscious and subconscious mind. I also gotta eat more red pills. Lol

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[iMickey503Participant 12468]

Only this can explain the insanity our minds were in.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Gravel PitParticipant]

iMickey, that is the best way to start my day. BIG HEARTY LAUGHTER BRO. thanks.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Why do we care about the dealings of women, anyway?

They are who they are, we cannot change that. Why blame women, for being women?
The real problem has Always been the cucks, specially those in power.
They are the source of the s~~~ that we have today, not women. These cucks KNEW that if they let female nature to run amok, society would die and decay quite fast.

The Wolf of men, is men, gentlemen. Not women.

We have the power, we always had.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[Daryll55Participant 2959]

ok bud,….
I’ve “sensed” something about you since you were posting about those freakshow trips you were making to dating sites.

BRO,…. I FOUND your unicorn.
She’s right here

(sarc)

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Daryll55Participant 2959]

They (Unicorns) don’t really exist. Nor does the perfect woman.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

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