You have sex with yourself?

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

That’s what a woman asked me in a Facebook IM in response to my telling her I have been celibate for 10 years. No, I masturbate like the rest of the world because I haven’t found a way to remove that biological urge yet. She said, “I could never go 10 years without sex”. 10 years? how about 10 days, 10 hours. Of course you couldn’t, the vast majority of women can’t. That was when only the nose of the camel was in my head.

I am even having a hard time staying hard with porn because I am so burnt out on the female body and when I think about what these porn creatures are really like I go soft. I’m considering going no fap too. I haven’t figured out how to conquer that one yet. There is a no rap forum on reddit that I’m going to start reading. I want total control over myself now.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Sex is ok .. but you can’t beat the real thing ?

I’m mostly very busy then mostly very tired. My life seems to bump along that way.

My urges are slowly leaving me …. thus freeing up time for more busy or tired.

I see it as a positive

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Sex is ok .. but you can’t beat the real thing ?

I’m mostly very busy then mostly very tired. My life seems to bump along that way.

My urges are slowly leaving me …. thus freeing up time for more busy or tired.

I see it as a positive

I speak only for me. At 57 the desire is very little but not entirely gone.

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

At this point I can barely remember the real thing.

[Anonymous 18]

At 28 sex is great if it falls on my lap. But going through the peac~~~ dance burning money on a women who has plenty dicks seems hardly worth it.

Although the desire is crucial to one’s concept of masculinity I find myself rarely missing it amidst everything else I could be doing and do.

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

Anonymous wrote:

At 28 sex is great if it falls on my lap. But going through the peac~~~ dance burning money on a women who has plenty dicks seems hardly worth it.

Although the desire is crucial to one’s concept of masculinity I find myself rarely missing it amidst everything else I could be doing and do.

What I love about this site is that I can freely talk about s~~~ and get it out. For me this is fundamentally an issue about total self mastery. That’s the big one I haven’t completely conquered yet. I find that my pool of male friends that I used to be able to talk about anything to have long been assimilated into her world.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I’m also interested in self mastery. For me it is partly because I sometimes find myself being an obsessive person. I’m usually in control, but sometimes….. uh… lets say I go a little crazy. Like a 7-8 hr. gaming streak or fapping until my dick bleeds and the floor is littered with dead skin. I’ve never had any alcohol and I’ve remained a virgin. If I go overboard with one those, I could end up dead or getting someone pregnant and having the kid born unwanted (which I don’t think I could forgive myself for doing). So yeah, I’ll stick with solo sex, focus on other things. Occasionally I refrain (nofap) for a week or two in order to ensure I’m in control, but like bunker mode said, I purge as needed.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Over use can affect performance.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 3]

Women give the image that they can’t go without sex until they’re married, then suddenly they never want to have sex and it’s an absolute chore and an unreasonable request from a husband.

Actually, same idea if the guy is young and not wealthy, since male sexuality is demonized all through a man’s life.

It’s only when a man is older and has money that suddenly these women start popping up insisting men must have sex with them (until of course a marriage).

[hmskl’dParticipant 6414]

It is probably something like item eighty seven on the list of errands I’ll try and get done today. I’ll be glad if I can get close to item fifty.

[HitmanParticipant]

Balance. .The first month of not masterbating is the hurdle..get passed that and it becomes much easier. .did that for a year once. .I prefer to have sex with a female once or twice a week though.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Avoiding women other than occasional pointless banter with female coworkers. After divorce, even during, my hands welcomed me back with open arms.

I believed my wife was loyal, I wonder if I was ever cheated on…

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Just to make it seem like the real thing you can flush a wad of bills down the toilet, then stare at a picture of a fat broad with no makeup until you have a particularly uninteresting finish, then stare in the mirror and tell yourself what a loser you are. Oh, then go to the mall and stand there holding a bunch of s~~~ and wishing you were dead.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[OldBillParticipant]

What’s the old Woody Allen line? “Don’t knock masturbation. It’s sex with someone you love”

I’m in my mid-50s and estimate I’ve had sexual intercourse perhaps a dozen times over the last calendar year. That’s as good if not better than most married men in the 50s. That’s with 6 or 7 different women, something most married men in the 50s couldn’t manage. It also counts the night and morning f~~~s with the handful of women I let spend the night as one f~~~.

So, I’ve had as much sex with women as I’ve wanted to but I’ve more often handled the job alone.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

Theronius wrote:

Just to make it seem like the real thing you can flush a wad of bills down the toilet, then stare at a picture of a fat broad with no makeup until you have a particularly uninteresting finish, then stare in the mirror and tell yourself what a loser you are. Oh, then go to the mall and stand there holding a bunch of s~~~ and wishing you were dead.

You won MGTOW today

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

Hitman wrote:

.I prefer to have sex with a female once or twice a week though.

No s~~~. I would have never guessed that about you.

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