You Can't Marry Your Girlfriend…

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

…if you want her to remain your girlfriend.

You see what I mean?

This is one of the most bitter red pills I’ve swallowed. I got it from Tom Leykis before I discovered MGTOW, but I didn’t want to believe it. I thought that if I “found the right woman” I would be okay and live happily ever after.

A lot of guys probably have this thought process in their heads when they’re dating: “Man, my girlfriend is hot. We have wild sex all the time. She’s happy to see me when we go out. She hugs me and tells me how much she loves me. And she knows how to cook! She’s a keeper. I don’t want to lose her to another guy, so I’m going to buy a fancy ring and propose to her. This is the best women I’ve ever been with, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.”

So you know the rest of the story:

They get married and the girlfriend becomes a WIFE. That means she doesn’t have to put effort into being a girlfriend anymore—the role she played to give this guy a reason to marry her. The WIFE (Wicked Internal Female Entity) is free to release her true nature on the unsuspecting male protector/provider. He was totally unaware of this demon possession during the courtship. Perhaps he could’ve seen some hints of it if he dated her longer than one year. She is free to nag about his shortcomings, waste his money, force him into celibacy, refuse to do house chores or cook meals, cheat on him, and eat a dozen donuts while watching soap operas—thus becoming a lazy slob.

There are NO NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES for this behavior—her wedding vows didn’t mean s~~~! But you are a man, and you must “man up” and take responsibility for this mess by continuing to work and provide mall money for your WIFE (and kids, if any). That is your primary duty, and if you get a divorce, there’s a penalty for trying to escape that duty. Another option would be to “work on the relationship” with a marriage counselor (translation: compromise your values/desires to PLEASE HER).

In my “free society” the marriage contract requires a man to be responsible for a LIFETIME of servitude for his wife and kids…or the financial equivalent. The contract basically allows a woman to get something for nothing—a guaranteed pension from her husband. So there’s an incentive for women to put on a “good girl” act to get married. That’s why MGTOW is their enemy!

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[StealthParticipant 5339]

Found myself nodding in agreement throughout this entire post. In my case her true colors showed during the divorce. Either spend your life on her or the financial equivalent . . . For those who get divorced later in life, they might lose both.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[ghostParticipant]

Any man living under an oppressive police state (i.e. current atmosphere in the United States) is better off going GALT until the environment improves. It may never revert back and that is also fine.

Freedom is paramount.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

FunInTheSun wrote:

I thought that if I “found the right woman” I would be okay and live happily ever after.

We ALL THOUGHT THAT, @funinthesun…….I Agree!!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

ghost wrote:

It may never revert back

It won’t as long as women vote for laws based on their FEELINGS.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

So Accurate… The more you commit to a woman, the less she commits. Females are strange creatures.

[Anonymous 5]

The knowledge of the NAWALT routine is the essence of MGTOW, and every AWALT has a NAWALT routine.
I shudder when I read some posts from men in here who are still looking for the elusive NAWALT.

If you’re looking for a NAWALT, you’ll find one! There’s one on every street corner.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Great post. F~~~ women and f~~~ this evil corrupt system.

Any man who gets married today is an absolute f~~~in idiot and though I can’t say he “deserves” everything he gets, he also has himself to blame. He definitely shouldn’t be surprised when his life turns to inconceivable hell.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Even more gold in this post…

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Marrying your girlfriend means that she now has a tighter grip on your resources and your b~~~~.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

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