Would you?

[nonameParticipant 746]

Lets say i know who the next target of my ex (narcissistic slut) is.

Would you inform the guy (who you do not know) what awaits him or is it better for him to learn the lesson by himself?

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

He will probably think you are some beta chump trying to scare him away.

I would be quiet unless she is special kind of crazy like asking you to kill someone in the past or similar which i not that uncommon as i found out here.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[nonameParticipant 746]

Freeman_K wrote:

He will probably think you are some beta chump trying to scare him away.

Agreed, to be honest if i would receive such info i would be more aware of interaction but not so sure how would i react to the messenger.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

The life of your ex is her life…The choice of the guy banging your ex is his choice…

You thinking about it is not helping you move on…Let her go and live your life…It is a hard way, but it is the only way….

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[GregB0Participant]

noname wrote:

Lets say i know who the next target of my ex (narcissistic slut) is.

Would you inform the guy (who you do not know) what awaits him or is it better for him to learn the lesson by himself?

Why get involved? Your act while seemingly kind could backfire on you. As you don’t know this guy, why set the precedent of attempting to warn him? If you do it once, you might feel obligated to continue warning guys.

He could also get aggressive because of the actions of an ex getting in the way of his action.

Not your role anymore . Keep walking away and letting things settle between you and your ex.

As discussed if there is possible criminal action by you ex against the guy and you know that for a fact you have to act.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Dont, that’s how you get a bullet to the head.

He does not care about you, why should you care about him.

I know what you mean, I was there, but you don’t need to help him.

The truth is, he thinks he is the REAL MEN, and you are just a loser who doesn’t know how to treat a woman.

Little he knows.

You are a samurai right?

“A real warrior knows how to sit down in the shore of the river and wait to see the corpses of his enemies pass floating”

– samurai proverb.

Just sit and wait, enjoy the decline.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

noname wrote:

Would you inform the guy (who you do not know) what awaits him or is it better for him to learn the lesson by himself?

Sometimes the child has to touch the hot stove, himself, to understand it’s painful.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[nonameParticipant 746]

Good reasoning and wise words brothers.
I will not get involved.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Anonymous 4]

Don’t even go there
the further you are able to be the better of you will be.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Personally, I would STAY OUT OF HER LIFE.

WHY PUT YOURSELF BACK INTO A PLACE THAT YOU DON”T WANT TO BE IN ????

Karma has it’s own way of working this s~~~ out on its own time table.

There is NOTHING TO BE PERSONALLY GAINED.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AutoliteParticipant]

noname wrote:

Lets say i know who the next target of my ex (narcissistic slut) is.

Would you inform the guy (who you do not know) what awaits him or is it better for him to learn the lesson by himself?

You can’t ‘show’ or convince someone of the obvious. The due diligence thing would be to just give him a polite and friendly warning and leave it at that. But don’t expect any thanks for it. He’ll likely despise you. It’s your call…

[MonkParticipant 16988]

noname wrote:

Would you inform the guy (who you do not know) what awaits him or is it better for him to learn the lesson by himself?

99% of the time, they shoot the messenger. He’ll think that you are trying to ‘steal his unicorn’.

Getting involved also means that you are potentially back in the frame with her.

Unless you think he might be particularly receptive, or that she is physically dangerous, I would say nothing.

[CoolbreezeParticipant 442]

Simplify your life by avoiding dramatic situations at all costs.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Monk wrote:

Unless you think he might be particularly receptive, or that she is really dangerous, I would say nothing.

A little more info in the OP might help. Is the ‘new guy’ a friend, a relative or a co-worker? Is he someone who you need to deal with or see on a daily basis? If he’s a complete stranger then I would say that there’s no need to say anything. Anything else is a sliding scale of what can be gained or lost by telling him…

Edit: I missed the “Do not know” detail in the OP. Like others have said, it’s probably best to say nothing if that’s the case…

[OldBillParticipant]

noname wrote:

I will not get involved.

That’s good to read.

Despite your good intentions, you would not have been believed. More importantly, such an act it would have drawn you back into her life.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

If you ever meet him look him right in the eye, shake his hand, wish him the best, and rest assured the bitch is his problem now. If he is too stupid to realize this woman is an ex for a reason, he needs to learn that the fire is hot by touching it.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

If is he not your friend, it is not you job to warn him. He he was your friend he would already know.

Maybe they are perfect for reach other. HaHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Anonymous 7]

You have made your decision and I am late to the party.

Get some snacks and enjoy the show.

Didn’t you see your ex doing porn on xHamster dot com?
This bitch is still f~~~ing with your head. I get it, I’ve had bitches f~~~ with my head too.

Good luck.

[nonameParticipant 746]

Anonymous wrote:

You have made your decision and I am late to the party.

Get some snacks and enjoy the show.

Didn’t you see your ex doing porn on xHamster dot com?
This bitch is still f~~~ing with your head. I get it, I’ve had bitches f~~~ with my head too.

Good luck.

Pretty close brother (regarding site).
I am still bitter, disappointed and ugly feeling of betrayal is over my head but moving forward.

The decision is made, there is no going back, they can not be trusted.
I consider myself lucky to learn the truth on time.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Anonymous 7]

noname wrote:

I am still bitter, disappointed and ugly feeling of betrayal is over my head but moving forward.

Of course you are.
Vent all you want brother. To one degree or another all of us here understand your pain and anger.

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