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  • #463845
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    So those who have followed my posts on the work situation know that at the ambulance company I was partnered with a woman before my second bout with back troubles. Long story short the last one I worked with was a blessing by comparison with the woman I was stuck with now. This new woman partner is a strongly opinionated liberal feminist who is very tight with the boss. She is also know to be easily offended. Quite the opposite of the first woman I was partnered with. Got tricked into a brief political discussion, dumbass me. Navigated it well I believe. Next one around I just will not participate in. My goal is to make my work partnership with this new gal work so I can get to the point where I am leaving the job on good terms for school. Wish me luck brothers. I am thinking of dropping this job for full time schooling in civil engineering and continuing to work at the fire house part time as I always have done.

    Just got off shift and thought I’d share an update before I go in tomorrow. I am hoping it is not so bad, this new gal is quite happy to work with me since I am good at tuning things out giving me quite the laid back approach.

    #463846
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    Anonymous
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    Stealth at work.

    Yourself at home.

    #463848
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    Anonymous
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    Stealth at work.

    Yourself at home.

    I am trying to master that skill. My goal is to master it very soon. It is proving hard for me, I catch myself a little too late. SO far I have been able to avoid crisis. I think I need to be reading more on the down times at work than talking.

    #463872
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    Anonymous
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    Didnt say I was good ay it! Hah Its so hard to not straint there ass out!

    I do this on my phone. Its great at work. You look on here, and feel better, so you wont feel that need to flaten them so much.
    Find a hot thread and say c~~~ alot!! Haja

    #463974
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    Untamed
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    Working with weemins advice:
    1- Open your mouth ONLY if it has to do with work.
    2- Let her think she’s right, always.
    3- Your opinions are great, but only in the comfort of your own home.
    4- Casual-dress social work gatherings are anything but.
    5- NEVER go out with a co-worker.

    You’re welcome.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #464017
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    Anonymous
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    Didnt say I was good ay it! Hah Its so hard to not straint there ass out!

    I do this on my phone. Its great at work. You look on here, and feel better, so you wont feel that need to flaten them so much.
    Find a hot thread and say c~~~ alot!! Haja

    HAHA! I never would have thought of that! Excellent point. The urge to flatten them can be strong at times, haha. I want to flatten them with pure logic. Got a good view of the hamster wheel yesterday when I let myself get involved in that discussion. It was like waiting for the computer to do something and seeing the frame freeze with the little hour glass icon letting you know it was thinking. Quite funny to see it.

    Working with weemins advice:
    1- Open your mouth ONLY if it has to do with work.
    2- Let her think she’s right, always.
    3- Your opinions are great, but only in the comfort of your own home.
    4- Casual-dress social work gatherings are anything but.
    5- NEVER go out with a co-worker.

    You’re welcome.

    Thank you. I would say the most difficult one for me is number 2. It is painful, but I must learn to deal with it for employments sake. It is just hard to let illogical overly emotional tyranny think it is right.

    #464032
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    Untamed
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    It is just hard to let illogical overly emotional tyranny think it is right.

    What’s hard about letting a moron think she’s right? It all happens in her head and has no consequences to you whatsoever besides the fact that you’ll be able to work without having a s~~~ty relationship with co-workers. At the end of the day you go home and purge all the bulls~~~ from work, no sweat and No F~~~s Given.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #464037
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    Anonymous
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    It is just hard to let illogical overly emotional tyranny think it is right.

    What’s hard about letting a moron think she’s right? It all happens in her head and has no consequences to you whatsoever besides the fact that you’ll be able to work without having s~~~ty a relationship with co-workers. At the end of the day you go home and purge all the bulls~~~ from work, no sweat and No F~~~s Given.

    When put that way, I have no reasonable answer other than it is a skill I must work on.

    #464059
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    Untamed
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    It is just hard to let illogical overly emotional tyranny think it is right.

    What’s hard about letting a moron think she’s right? It all happens in her head and has no consequences to you whatsoever besides the fact that you’ll be able to work without having s~~~ty a relationship with co-workers. At the end of the day you go home and purge all the bulls~~~ from work, no sweat and No F~~~s Given.

    When put that way, I have no reasonable answer other than it is a skill I must work on.

    You’ll get the hang of it once you realize that to these bitches you’re wrong when you’re wrong and you’re wrong when you’re right so what’s the point of wasting your breath and getting s~~~ for it?
    The Blue Pill is potent and the delusion of it a strong one, reinforced by TV, Radio, magazines, the schools, the Courts, the Laws and the myriad of websites dishing out Blue-pill bulls~~~ 24/7. They loathe your opinion and, indeed, your very existence so why would you do them the favor of your wisdom? That’s Pearls before swine, brother.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #464571
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    Anonymous
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    It is just hard to let illogical overly emotional tyranny think it is right.

    What’s hard about letting a moron think she’s right? It all happens in her head and has no consequences to you whatsoever besides the fact that you’ll be able to work without having s~~~ty a relationship with co-workers. At the end of the day you go home and purge all the bulls~~~ from work, no sweat and No F~~~s Given.

    When put that way, I have no reasonable answer other than it is a skill I must work on.

    You’ll get the hang of it once you realize that to these bitches you’re wrong when you’re wrong and you’re wrong when you’re right so what’s the point of wasting your breath and getting s~~~ for it?
    The Blue Pill is potent and the delusion of it a strong one, reinforced by TV, Radio, magazines, the schools, the Courts, the Laws and the myriad of websites dishing out Blue-pill bulls~~~ 24/7. They loathe your opinion and, indeed, your very existence so why would you do them the favor of your wisdom? That’s Pearls before swine, brother.

    Thanks for that, brother. Excellent advice and quite a poetic truth. I appreciate it very much. I’ll be making progress. Today went well, avoided all sensitive topics, and had an excellent day.

    #464599
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    It is just hard to let illogical overly emotional tyranny think it is right.

    What’s hard about letting a moron think she’s right? It all happens in her head and has no consequences to you whatsoever besides the fact that you’ll be able to work without having s~~~ty a relationship with co-workers. At the end of the day you go home and purge all the bulls~~~ from work, no sweat and No F~~~s Given.

    When put that way, I have no reasonable answer other than it is a skill I must work on.

    You’ll get the hang of it once you realize that to these bitches you’re wrong when you’re wrong and you’re wrong when you’re right so what’s the point of wasting your breath and getting s~~~ for it?
    The Blue Pill is potent and the delusion of it a strong one, reinforced by TV, Radio, magazines, the schools, the Courts, the Laws and the myriad of websites dishing out Blue-pill bulls~~~ 24/7. They loathe your opinion and, indeed, your very existence so why would you do them the favor of your wisdom? That’s Pearls before swine, brother.

    Thanks for that, brother. Excellent advice and quite a poetic truth. I appreciate it very much. I’ll be making progress. Today went well, avoided all sensitive topics, and had an excellent day.

    Glad to hear it

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

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