Wonder what's your thought about personal experience of mine

[freedomParticipant 5129]

A while ago I was dating this woman who wasn’t so impressive, but I’d chosen to try anyway.

after one date which was a bit intense, she started to become a bit annoying, whenever we talked on the phone, she asked dumb questions and wasn’t really talking.
Days later we dated and she said “you kinda vanished these passing days” (it was only few days and I was busy).

Anyway, we scheduled another date and on a Friday night, when Friday arrived she completely filtered my calls, so unlike in the past, I simply told myself “oh f~~~ it and stayed at home drinking wine and focus on some work related stuff.

On Monday, she texted me saying that I’m not serious and she was never treated that way before and I simply replayed with “Ok” … what lead to a phone call at the middle of my work day so I just answered with “I’m busy working” and hung up , then she texted “you hung up on me?!” then I told her that if she wants, we can talk at night, as I’m busy.

that night she called and talked to me as if nothing happened and we decided to give it another go.

I did as she asked and called more, needless to say that I got bored talking to her because she is a boring uptight person…
I told her that I might be able to meet her in 2 days but then was busy at work so it took me a little time to approve but thought it was ok since she scheduled with a friend…
so…. I said “ok lets meet on the weekend”

during that weekend, she made up sickness, then day later she was too tired.. again I said “f~~~ it whatever”, and while spending another night alone, I was bored and read some stupid s~~~ on a website where people ask advices from others and noticed a woman there talking about what an ass a guy she is dating and lol it fit my description of that time, she also mentioned something about her which Kinda turned her in – yeah it was her…

on the question she presented, she called me a robot, said that I’m not calling and I don’t show interest, nor that I’m serious and what not.
She said that I’m rude for calling only at night and that I’m suppose to also call her at work, it doesn’t make sense that I’m that busy she said (well I really am)

needless to say that after seeing this, I decided that she can go F herself, a day later she called me and said that I’m not serious.

what do you think guys? some people who heard the story called me a cold hearted bastard, which I replied with “hey don’t expect me to treat you well, after not getting back to me when I call you and you don’t answer”

[Anonymous 43]

You had me at “A while ago I was dating this woman…”

I think ===========> stay the f~~~ away from women.

[Anonymous 6]

Hey Mr. Roy I hate to be the one to break this to you, but you’re a back-up plan pure and simple. You’re the pot on the back burner so that when the dude (or dudes) that she really want’s to see don’t pan out, she’ll call you. At best you’re second in line. My gut tells me that you’re actually the third in line but still the guy she’s going to call just to have somebody around. So she’ll tell you otherwise and try to deflect and make it all about how you didn’t do this or that to take the focus off of her, the fact remains she’s chasing other carrots. So if you do choose to keep it going…. be Chad Thunderc~~~ to the hilt. Report back if you do.

[Anonymous 43]

yep, orbiter, third row.

sorry buddy.

if you were number one in line, she would have been blowing up your phone, facebooking the anticipation, and just all over you.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Anonymous wrote:

yep, orbiter, third row.

sorry buddy.

if you were number one in line, she would have been blowing up your phone, facebooking the anticipation, and just all over you.

Anonymous wrote:

yep, orbiter, third row.

sorry buddy.

if you were number one in line, she would have been blowing up your phone, facebooking the anticipation, and just all over you.

I actually just wanted to bed her , didn’t understand why she was so uptight and bitchy when I was indifferent toward her

[Anonymous 6]

freedom wrote:

may 7 2020 wrote:

yep, orbiter, third row.

sorry buddy.

if you were number one in line, she would have been blowing up your phone, facebooking the anticipation, and just all over you.

may 7 2020 wrote:

yep, orbiter, third row.

sorry buddy.

if you were number one in line, she would have been blowing up your phone, facebooking the anticipation, and just all over you.

I actually just wanted to bed her , didn’t understand why she was so uptight and bitchy when I was indifferent toward her

Simple, she’s got other plates spinning and doesn’t need to be anything other than bitchy to you.

[MarathonManParticipant 77]

I’m not a ‘monk’ at all – but in this case it seems quite clear. Why the f~~~ would you bother?

She’s preaching to a choir of witches cauldron on a forum about to your every move? Time to move on and not give her a second thought.

Far too much hard work!

[Anonymous 18]

Dude when you want to f~~~ a woman the little attention on her part goes a long way in keeping that elusive carrot hanging over you.

I went through similar s~~~test where the woman will message me here and there over the week.

If she is boring, she likely put you in her orbiter category. Cut ties. Live free.

[ResParticipant 542]

I think you said it yourself:
1) You find her boring.
2) She wants you to call her while you’re busy (read: don’t want to talk).

Why put up with the crap?

Mr. Boats: "'Avoid the reeking herd! Shun the polluted flock! Live like that stoic bird, the eagle of the rock!' You know what that means, son?" -American Splendor

[Anonymous 18]

Anonymous wrote:

yep, orbiter, third row.

sorry buddy.

if you were number one in line, she would have been blowing up your phone, facebooking the anticipation, and just all over you.

Heed this advice.

Block her before the drama spills.

[I am SpartacusParticipant 164]

Change your name to Sputnik #2
You’re just a satellite orbiting her

"I am Spartacus!", said Spartacus.................and everyone around him.

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

I’d suggest putting in for your vacation time at work and spending the next two weeks doing nothing but reading the forums here. Then come back and read your original post.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Playing with fire brother…Besides, why would you try to understand women? You cant understand crazy…The next thing you know, you will be in her trap and that is it…The fact that you are still in contact with her and playing with her means that you are slowly orbiting on her life instead of focusing on your life…Your call brother…Just a different perspective…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[OldBillParticipant]

freedom wrote:

A while ago I was dating this woman…

You weren’t dating her. You were being auditioned for a role as one of her many back-ups. That’s why she pulled all the s~~~ tests.

Fortunately, in your naivete you failed her s~~~ tests, thus failing her audition, and she decided you weren’t “good” enough even to be a beta orbiter.

Count your blessings and keep going your own way.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

At this point I’d say your not even a beta orbiter. In her eyes, you are the equivalent of space junk floating around in near-Earth orbit.

You need to not worry about how you are seen in her eyes, and just cut the bitch off. 2 months ago I dumped one of two actual girlfriends, and she was only a fraction of the nuisance level that the woman you are dating is.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 11]

Don’t listen to what she says. Watch what she does.

freedom wrote:

we scheduled another date and on a Friday night, when Friday arrived she completely filtered my calls

In my experience being done like this, there is always another c~~~. She has options. It’s time to leave her orbit.

[WPLParticipant 2390]

Don’t waste your time on anyone who complicates your life.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

freedom wrote:

she asked dumb questions and wasn’t really talking.

Pushes you away

freedom wrote:

you kinda vanished these passing days

Pulls you back

freedom wrote:

filtered my calls

Pushes you away

freedom wrote:

On Monday, she texted me

Pulls you back

freedom wrote:

“you hung up on me?

Pushes you away

If you see any pattern here point it out.

Wait Bill sees it.

OldBill wrote:

You weren’t dating her. You were being auditioned for a role as one of her many back-ups. That’s why she pulled all the s~~~ tests.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Anonymous wrote:

Block her before the drama spills.

Don't care

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Roy,

IMHO, you are way overthinking this one. The only thing I have learned in all my years: STAY COLD

Women will dump you in a heartbeat for ANY reason, and when they do it the rest of the c~~~s say “You go girl!”.

Read up on “maintaining frame”. Also assume the standard corporate “Three Month Probationary Period”, if any red flags or irritating behaviors -> dump her on the spot (just think of how much worse she’ll be, once she has you totally hooked).

Stay cold my friend…STAY COLD.

Sovereignty above all else.

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