Women's Happiness Levels Increase After Divorce, According To New Research

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  • #28488
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    Puffin Stuff
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    I read this recently and had never heard this. It seems to be common knowledge in the fem-collective. Maybe this is why women initiate 70% of divorces.

    “In the study we took into account the fact that divorce can sometimes have a negative financial impact on women, but despite that it still makes them much happier than men” said lead author Yannis Georgellis, director of the Centre for Research in Employment, Skills and Society at the Kingston Business School in London, England.

    That kinda explains a lot. When I looked for men it said that men weren’t as happy as women. I think the fem-science doth lie it’s freakin ass off.

    I for one am very happy there is no fault divorce because when I’m down, really down and out, nothing is going right. The car breaks, the internet goes down. When ever I experience this pit of despair I remember…I could still be married.

    The realization that I am free of that prison of the soul lifts my spirits and gives me a will to go on. Good days are ahead, and they come.

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    #icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

    #28495
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    Sky-O
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    This is just my opinion on the matter – not even sure if any statistical research has been done to confirm my theory:

     

    However – The type of women that are ‘happier’ after a divorce are the women who when they were married, were expected by their husbands to be in a mutually reciprocating relationship where both partners work towards maintaining the marriage (emotionally, physically and financially) and they were married to men that had reasonable and mature expectations of the woman they were with in terms of the woman/wife being an actual partner in the marriage and conducting herself like a responsible adult. Then women like that who are not grown up and/or mature enough to handle being in a marriage, eventually see a divorce as a way out rather than focus on being in a committed and intimate relationship that requires they actually exert a significant amount of time, effort and energy into the marriage. They see divorce as a way out of having to have any responsibility with and/or for another person and after calculating the total costs of staying in the marriage with terms and conditions that are to be expected of a spouse: they opt for a way out and what they consider to be getting their freedom back.

    The remaining women that are not in that group and stay married while also being ‘happy’ are the ones that have in their own eyes properly trained their husband to handle any and all adult responsibilities within the parameters of the marriage, pay most or all of the bills (since at that point the guy has been convinced that it is his job) while she still works but uses her money for herself. And there are no reasonable expectations or demands put on her to reciprocate within the marriage and/or conduct herself in a way that would be consistent with what a woman who is in an intimate and committed relationship would do. Basically: securing the benefits of a husband financially while still enjoying the advantages of essentially being single. Relationships like that work out only as long as the guy is content with being a human wallet, de facto father and in some cases where the woman is cheating, a willing cuckold.

     

     

     

    #28531
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    AussieBloke
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    I can only comment on my situation, My ex still “Occasionally” says she wishes we were still together, she had it pretty f~~~ing good too. I took care of all the important stuff, she didn’t even work for most of the time together, now she is broke, unemployed and downright miserable. we have a daughter together so I can’t just never speak to her again, but every time she starts in with that get back together s~~~, I just get up an walk away. I am now approximately 100 thousand times happier than when I was with her.

    The harder the fight the sweeter the victory

    #28542
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    Stargazer
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    Show me a female who leaves a marriage ten yers older and with no more than she came into it with and I will show you a very unhappy female.

    They’re only “happier” when they win big divorce settlements and then get to go play cougar with the ex-husband’s money. Take that ability away from them and you’d see a lot fewer divorces, I’d wager.

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    AFT
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    Show me a female who leaves a marriage ten yers older and with no more than she came into it with and I will show you a very unhappy female.

    They’re only “happier” when they win big divorce settlements and then get to go play cougar with the ex-husband’s money. Take that ability away from them and you’d see a lot fewer divorces, I’d wager.

    You stole my thunder Doc, that’s what I was going to say, if men got the lions share of the settlement, and custody with maintenance, see how happy the men would be, and I bet women wouldn’t be quite as pleased with themselves.
    Where do these studies come from? Women are happier after a big fat divorce settlement, NO I’d never had guessed.
    Whats the next mind blowing revelation? Women prefer rich men? Women prefer to have feminist rights without responsibilities? I’m so over it.

    When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

    #28618
    Ned Trent
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    “Wedding bands are the smallest handcuffs in the world”

    That’s what reads on a metal sign which I have hanging in my very kitchen for years as a constant reminder. I’m not kidding you guys, (save it only sais it in German), so by the time we will have this website in English and German and a few other languages I shall gladly take a picture of that sign and post it over to you to be put on our wall…   …and that’s a promise!

    Ned T.

    I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

    #28619
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    TYE
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    If I could take half of someones property whenever I felt like it, and destroy their lives in a biased court system I would be happy as well. Studies show that men are happier when married (LMFAO), and next studies will show that black people were happier as slaves >.> get the f~~~ out of here ! I mean seriously who do they think is actually buying this crap other than feminist, and complete Manginas.

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    Bigboy83
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    This could be just feminist propaganda. It’s a cash in type of thing, but when money runs out, their 10 yrs older and can’t find a white knight, their not so happy, BELIEVE ME WOMENS HAPPINESS NEVER LASTS!

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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    KingOfTheSea
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    I wonder at what stage of the divorce they did the interview. To me, it seems pretty obvious that the girls are going to enjoy it more. As stated above, they pretty much have alimony on lock, more money if they have kids, and they can just get a new sap to pay any bills once they decide that’s the way. Seems like a pretty sweet gig to me.

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    I wonder at what stage of the divorce they did the interview. To me, it seems pretty obvious that the girls are going to enjoy it more. As stated above, they pretty much have alimony on lock, more money if they have kids, and they can just get a new sap to pay any bills once they decide that’s the way. Seems like a pretty sweet gig to me.

    Not to mention they get to tart up and get back on the c~~~ carousel. Most men fresh out of divorce are devastated, and with good reason, feeling not only fleeced but betrayed as well. So guys don’t usually celebrate divorces by getting dressed up and going to chase teenaged pussy but recently divorced women’s first urge is to go find some young stud to plug their pleasure hole while they gloat over their new ownership of the formerly family residence.

    I saw a group of these last night… three very visibly aging females dressed up like they were 20-something drinking cosmos at a hip bar/lounge… and they drifted away when it became clear that nobody was interested in them. So I’m sure they trundled off to the nearest college beer and shots bar to get their fix of being treated like sex objects.

    I am sure they were very happy.

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    Burgundy
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    I would also happily marry and divorce, if it was like getting free lottery tickets and chance for big cash, for  no work, if I were a woman.  Would be like those RNG games, set up the trap, fishing pole, and wait for big fishes.

     

    I already saw marriage as a death trap to men but this just adds some more blinking alarm lights and honking horns, to the already obvious and very visible trap, but hey, it might wake up more blue pill men.

     

     

    #28808
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    Sidecar
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    I’m willing to bet this is a short term study of a short term effect immediately after divorce.

    Is there any study of the same people ten years after divorce?  Twenty years?  Because I know a lot of happy divorced middle age gents and even more unhappy divorced middle age harpies who have blown through their first, second, and sometimes third husband’s money and can’t line up a new chump.

    #28836
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    Now, I can’t say exactly how “happy” my ex-wife is, but here’s what I’ve observed.

    Within 5 months after we separated, she’d moved in with this guy who’d been married once, no kids.  She put on a LOT of weight.  She got grey- really grey.  The guy works 3rd shift, she works 1st, so she rarely sees him.  Her only friend that she hangs out with is our daughter (I know this from my kid’s accounting).  Fat, grey and alone in a house that’s not hers hanging out with only her child? Doesn’t sound happy to me.

    Me? I moved 2 hrs away, got a good job that I like, a girlfriend that gets the whole MGTOW philosophy and has a kid that’s cool (MGTOW up-and-comer, if I can work it!) and I get to live my life on my terms.  That, to me, is the better arrangement.  Seems I won on that, despite going through all that hassle.

    #28837
    Albert
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    I couldn’t give a rats left tit whether divorced women are happy or not.

    I just hope the ex-husband learns from his mistakes and manages to find happiness in his own life.

    E=MC² Bitch

    #28958
    Divergent62
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    No man comes away from the fairy tale of modern Union with a female filling  Happy. Women Have a way of reinventing themselves. After all they are quit disordered. Men hurt! Screw how they feel!

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    <p style=”text-align: left;”><b>No man comes away from the fairy tale of modern Union with a female filling  Happy. Women Have a way of reinventing themselves. After all they are quit disordered. Men hurt! Screw how they feel!</b></p>

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