Women Who Complain About Their Ex-Boyfriends

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Throughout my life, I’ve listen to women complain about their ex-boyfriends—voluntarily or involuntarily—and many of them have nothing but NEGATIVE stuff to say about them. They go on & on about what he did and what he neglected to do. It sounds as if they met they guy at their local prison or homeless shelter. I’ve always wanted to ask these women this:

“If he was such horrible person, why did you spread your legs for him to f~~~ you?”

If I was bold, I would slap the hornet’s nest, so to speak, but I don’t want to be in the middle of a bitch storm.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[TuneoutParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

Throughout my life, I’ve listen to women complain

Why?

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[HitmanParticipant]

iv’e encountered it.
and if they complain about their ex ,
they are not over the ex.
also,
they LOVE to complain.
GIANT red flag.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

FunInTheSun wrote:

nothing but NEGATIVE stuff to say

I became hip to that very quickly, but I understand why they do it. They can’t live with themselves knowing they made a mistake or a s~~~ty choice. Because “women are perfect”, don’t cha know. I s~~~ you not. They actually believe that.

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So every ex is ALWAYS going to be an asshole, jerk, player, and she’s just –>> “perfect”.

FunInTheSun wrote:

“If he was such horrible person, why did you spread your legs for him to f~~~ you?”

He wasn’t. She could go out with you/me/him and have a really great time, good sex and all of that…. and if you simply choose to date someone ELSE, she will pretend that’s the same as “treating her badly”.

FunInTheSun wrote:

If I was bold, I would slap the hornet’s nest, so to speak, but I don’t want to be in the middle of a bitch storm.

Why not? Call her out.

“My ex was such an asshole.”

“Oh yeah? What did he do?”.

“Right now, he’s probably slow dancing With a bleached-blond tramp. And she’s probably getting frisky. Right now, he’s probably buying Her some fruity little drink ‘Cause she can’t shoot whiskey. Right now, he’s probably up behind her With a pool-stick Showing her how to shoot a combo. And he don’t know……I dug my key into the side Of his pretty little souped-up four-wheel drive. Carved my name into his leather seats. I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights. I slashed a hole in all four tires….”

“PROBABLY? How is that the same as treating you badly,. He’s not your husband. He can shoot pool and drink with anyone he wants…..you f~~~ing psychotic C~~~.”

Go ahead, slap that whore’s nest, and reminder she’s not all that. When she’s got nothing but negative things to say, you can bet he did SOMETHING right. Including dumping her.

“Asshole” isn’t a negative review.
It’s the best compliment he can possibly get from your basic bitch.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

FunInTheSun wrote:

Throughout my life, I’ve listen to women complain about their ex-boyfriends—voluntarily or involuntarily—and many of them have nothing but NEGATIVE stuff to say about them. They go on & on about what he did and what he neglected to do. It sounds as if they met they guy at their local prison or homeless shelter. I’ve always wanted to ask these women this:

“If he was such horrible person, why did you spread your legs for him to f~~~ you?”

If I was bold, I would slap the hornet’s nest, so to speak, but I don’t want to be in the middle of a bitch storm.

The reason is most are with a guy for money, so they don’t like him to start with.

No matter how much money you are given you can’t respect or like a person if you don’t feel that way,it’s not even your choice to respect or like someone.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Keymaster wrote:

When she’s got nothing but negative things to say, you can bet he did SOMETHING right.

Good point. Why else would she allow him to f~~~ her if he didn’t have some redeeming value? These ladies seem to forget the reason why they chose these particular guys out of the pool of guys who asked them out on dates. If they’re choosing men with bad character traits, it says a lot about them. A bit of (gasp) self-reflection would help them reach this realization.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

You are not their emotional tampon. They can’t live with the stupid choice they made. They don’t hold themselves accountable because even after all of those mixed drinks and riding the c~~~ carousel, they have it in their delusional mind that they are special snowflakes.

Just nod, smile, and walk away.

[Anonymous 18]

Glad to see Jerry Liu being referenced on here, he’s a likeable fella and one of few mgtow youtubers who includes himself in his videos (other being Mgtow Is Freedom).

To @op, women live in the present. It is not as sinister but simply her incapability of shouldering the burden of past mistakes and implementing those in her current state of affairs to prevent such mishaps to repeat. However, without any accountability she doesn’t have any incentive to ‘improve’.

Delusion thy name is woman.

[Anonymous 42]

Women will never complain about me again because there’s no interaction to complain about! Problem f~~~ing solved!

[Anonymous 5]

So basically they can go on and have a s~~~ fit about their ex and they think there justified to f~~~ up some one’s truck I hated that song came out my ex wife would play that horrible song all the time.it’s always the man’s fault no matter to them their perfect gotta blame it on the man .

[BeerParticipant 11832]

FunInTheSun wrote:

If they’re choosing men with bad character traits, it says a lot about them.

That is how I always looked at it. Its no different than picking your friends. How many relatively sober people other than maybe a casual drink or a bit of weed on a special occasion are going to hang out with people who are drunk and/or f~~~ed up on illegal drugs constantly? How many law abiding citizens are going to hang out with people who have a criminal record 10+ pages long?

Anytime I meet someone that hangs with a whole bunch of sketchy people, I just assume they too are sketchy and just hide it well. When I meet a chick that has f~~~ed a whole bunch of sketchy people…well…guess what assumption I’ve come to. In either case if I’m wrong with my assumption 1 out of 10 times that is good enough odds for me to continue on with what I’ve been doing. Additionally if its one you are considering f~~~ing…your standards should be even higher than just someone as a potential friend…and well…even if she isn’t massively f~~~ed up herself(slim chance) she has still f~~~ed a bunch of thugs and druggies…do you even want that dirty pussy anymore?

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Shes guilty by association.

Shes guilty by bad judgement.

So put her on the…dont bother list.

Thats what complaining about their ex means to me.

Their like divorce women.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

When they complain about ex-boyfriends, the are attempting to give the new guy an idealized starting point from which to begin the new relationship.

Basically, letting the new guy / c~~~ think that if he plays by all of her subjective rules and accommodates her terms & conditions that he will not end up like the prior guys.

It’s clitoral based mind f~~~ing 101.

But it always ends the same. The new guy is eventually devalued and discarded when she gets bored and/or he no longer serves a purpose. And she continues transitioning to new relationships until she ‘settles down’ with the last possible guy she can find because she is out of any and all new options.

And, seriously. No man with a functioning brain would ever want to be the guy she finally decides to sort of settle down with when she only gives the appearance of doing it because she lacks any other alternatives.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

That is a s~~~ test right there to see what kind of guy you are (asshole or nice guy).

If you say you feel sorry for her and that you are not like those guys then you fall the test and go lower on her list and get less respect.

If you state you do not give a s~~~ because you are like those boyfriends or possibly even more crazy you pass the test and get higher on her list and more respect.

FunInTheSun wrote:

“If he was such horrible person, why did you spread your legs for him to f~~~ you?”

You are under the implication that women are rational beings which is not the case for most of the time unless she is using the cops/the courts to f~~~ you over then she knows damn well what she is doing.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Because they just do.
The one constant is themselves. As long as there is someone else that can be cited as the source of whatever their displeasure/disappointment/dissatisfaction is at that particular point in time, they will take that option.
If you hook up with a woman who bitches about her ex(s), sooner or later you to will end up being bitched about.

Cause and effect, as long as it is negative it is never her fault. /sarc

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

I could simply shorten the title to women who complain.
I dont want negativity and nagging in my life.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

FunInTheSun wrote:

If I was bold, I would slap the hornet’s nest, so to speak, but I don’t want to be in the middle of a bitch storm.

Why not?

Bitch storms are hilarious once you stop giving a f~~~.

Hitman wrote:

and if they complain about their ex ,
they are not over the ex.

And you will definitely be the next ex they complain about (defame). Why would you want that?

Accusing, demeaning, and blaming her ex only shows that she refuses to accept any responsibility for her failed relationship with him. And she will refuse to accept any responsibility in any potential relationship she might have with you.

Why would any man want to have anything to do with any woman who refuses to accept her responsibility?

The moment she starts bitching about her ex, get up and walk the f~~~ away, no f~~~s given.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Every girl I’ve ever spoken to for more than 20 minutes has complained about an ex. They rarely get over their first crush/boyfriend. I’ve had 32 year old girls talk about a guy they dated in High School.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

FunInTheSun wrote:

Throughout my life, I’ve listen to women complain about their ex-boyfriends—voluntarily or involuntarily—and many of them have nothing but NEGATIVE stuff to say about them.

The second I hear “My ex was an asshole/dick/jerk/abuser/loser/ect…”,
I interrupt and say “That’s exactly what he said about YOU.”

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