Women, Stress and Arrhythmia

[InTheCountryParticipant 199]

I grew up with a single mother who was borderline and psychotic, mixed with nice little moments of love that made you wonder what the hell was going on. If I tried to use reason or logic, she would see my father in me and then get rabid. She also used me as the pawn to accuse my father of child rape to express dominance over him after their divorce.

I also tried repeatedly like many of us, to make a relationship with a woman “right” after running into their demon self repeatedly over the years.

My question men is this, did any of you develop stress related illness or symptoms of such, temporarily or permanently as a result of your interactions with women? I have developed an arrhythmia where I get sudden jolts of heartbeats and adrenaline with a sense of impending doom. I am quite certain that the stress of having women use lies to defeat truth by consensus and manipulation has caused physical damage to my heart. I think this is because I hated it so much that they could win with lies and deceit that the hate and anger at the deceit caused my actual heart to malfunction.

There was nothing more horrible than having to swallow the black sewer sludge reality of the fact that women were able to masquerade as love while essentially working with satan himself.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Life sure is SIMPLER, EASIER, PEACEFUL, MORE ENJOYABLE, etc. etc. etc. when women are taken out of the equation.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[foolsgoldParticipant 5649]

I have believed for a long time that women cause bad health in men. Such as strokes, heart attacks, etc. All stress related from having one around. I also believe that a study on this subject will NEVER be considered out of fear of what would be found.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

You want REAL PROBLEMS try living with one as she gets a lil more bat s~~~ CRAZY DAILY !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Branched offParticipant 10932]

My life with my first wife (only ever legal wife) was hell. She was a really nasty thing who had fallen out with all the neighbours and all the local mothers by the time I finally used her anger problem against herself to make her stay back at her parents when she had gone for a visit and so generate a split where I got to remain in the house. I then divorced her as fast as I could accepting the loss of almost all I owned as being a small price to pay to keep my sanity. However before this moment of victory, she had treated me very badly for some years and I had not known what to do except take it. She was violent, she was a shop lifter, I think she took a lover and I doubt the paternity of one of our children, she was always angry with me for “ruining her life” by feeding her and housing her while she never bothered to get a job. Her anger was the controlling factor in the house. She was nearly a decade younger than me and did not finish school, while I and all my brothers came top of our classes at university, yet it was her opinions that ruled in the house because she could not cope with being told she was wrong. With my blue pill conditioning I simply assumed that I had to accept I had done something wrong for her to be unhappy and I had to just take it when she was angry. I knew only too well that she was manipulative and that if I ever had ever been so stupid as to even slap her, it would have been big legal trouble for me as she was full of the doctrine that men were bad and oppressing women.

As might be expected her controlling behaviour continued after the split with me almost never getting to see the kids and her going into a rant against me for having the temerity to ask her if I could drive 100 miles each way to see them. She knew she had all the power and she knew all the buttons she could press to upset me while again I just had to take it if I wanted to be in with a chance of seeing the kids again. One day I realised that every time I spoke to her or even thought of speaking to her my heart got a huge shot of adrenaline and I started to sweat and my sweat smelt bad. Sometimes my vision even began to shift and get more tunnel like. I realised that I had a conditioned response to my ex wife. I realised I simply had to stop putting myself through this. Something had happened to me over the years and I was somehow damaged psychologically by the experience. This had to stop as it might even be dangerous for me if it happened when I was driving or very stressed already.

The next time I called her and she went off on one as usual I finally let myself snap and simply said “You are a nasty angry little woman, goodbye”. I have never spoken to her since and I often wonder if I would still get that fast heart beat and sweat thing if I did. I fear I still would.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[L. EulerParticipant 343]

Dear Branched Off,
You are dealing with a classic Narcissist. No contact is the only way to go whether or not you are even MGTOW or not.
Throw in choild abuse by the woman to the young male children and you have my situation a cauldron of seething hate and a recipe for social disaster. One of my children moved away within thirty days of my separation and said “3200 kms helps dad!!” . He was 20 so no young kids, but still. I had to put up with more s~~~ than shoud be legal and if I reported it they’d go off to a foster home even if dad wanted custody.
Courts always favour the woman (child abuser) so that’s like allowing the fox to guard the henhouse ( we know where that’ll end up…dead kids)
Never have contact other than a civil text like Merry Xmas or Happy Birthday. Limit 20 words. Visits always for a short reason say zip a 5 minutes of being civil ; any more is a guaranteed argument that can escalate to lawyers.
I took me 9 years to get a divorce and I couldn’t write a will till divorce was finalized. My will lawyer when she heard my divorce tale proposed going to the legislature back-bencher (MP) to propose changes to the Family Law Reform Act to stop the male suicide carnage rate!
My story is so bad, I never wrote about it in Introductions because it is gruesome. My will lawyer charged me ZERO for my will….have you ever heard of that!!!
No contact I’m serious — the life you save is your own!!!
disregard my comments and joins the masses of men that have “offed” themselves ; Oh and by the way: a 60 year old man going through divorce has a 60% increase in chance of a heart attack in the next 24 months. (massive financial stress)

Stay MGTOW stay healthier.

L.Euler

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Branched off wrote:

My life with my first wife (only ever legal wife) was hell. She was a really nasty thing who had fallen out with all the neighbours and all the local mothers by the time I finally used her anger problem against herself to make her stay back at her parents when she had gone for a visit and so generate a split where I got to remain in the house. I then divorced her as fast as I could accepting the loss of almost all I owned as being a small price to pay to keep my sanity. However before this moment of victory, she had treated me very badly for some years and I had not known what to do except take it. She was violent, she was a shop lifter, I think she took a lover and I doubt the paternity of one of our children, she was always angry with me for “ruining her life” by feeding her and housing her while she never bothered to get a job. Her anger was the controlling factor in the house. She was nearly a decade younger than me and did not finish school, while I and all my brothers came top of our classes at university, yet it was her opinions that ruled in the house because she could not cope with being told she was wrong. With my blue pill conditioning I simply assumed that I had to accept I had done something wrong for her to be unhappy and I had to just take it when she was angry. I knew only too well that she was manipulative and that if I ever had ever been so stupid as to even slap her, it would have been big legal trouble for me as she was full of the doctrine that men were bad and oppressing women.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

InTheCountry wrote:

My question men is this, did any of you develop stress related illness or symptoms of such, temporarily or permanently as a result of your interactions with women?

Yes.

It is only in the last decade that I have come to understand just how much damage – both mental and physical – that my mother did to me.

I have developed an arrhythmia where I get sudden jolts of heartbeats and adrenaline with a sense of impending doom.

Classic symptoms. Get it checked out.

I am quite certain that the stress of having women use lies to defeat truth by consensus and manipulation has caused physical damage to my heart. I think this is because I hated it so much that they could win with lies and deceit that the hate and anger at the deceit caused my actual heart to malfunction.

Quite possibly.

Constant adrenaline stimulation is extremely bad for both the heart and the adrenal glands themselves. Again, get it checked out.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

foolsgold wrote:

I have believed for a long time that women cause bad health in men. Such as strokes, heart attacks, etc. All stress related from having one around. I also believe that a study on this subject will NEVER be considered out of fear of what would be found.

Yes.

It could justifiably be called a hidden epidemic.

As Awakened points out, the only real cure is to get away, and stay away.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

PTSD symptoms and triggering of seizures under high stress. I also have a!most zero trust for women. They are all potential cheaters in my book.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

Yes
Her relentless nagging used to elevate my blood pressure- for sure.
When she wasn’t nagging, she was complaining.
And frequently angry for no good reason.
I remember one particular example, we were driving back from the inlaws. I had to pull off the highway for a 1/2 hour, just to chill. Hours of her nagging and back seat driving were causing chest pain and making it unsafe to drive.
It is not good for the body to be in a fight or flight response all the time.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

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