Women Looking In The Wrong Places

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9540]

Women are looking in all the wrong places to find love, while men are not looking anymore. Men, including myself, are saying “NO” to them. Men know of a women’s game and we don’t want to play anymore with them.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

I’m soon to turn 44. Recently had a conversation with a woman, mid fifties. Divorced. Nice enough to me. She was complaining there were just no men available her age for dating. Asked me if I had any idea what the deal was. I wasn’t rude or anything but I answered directly and succinctly. I said a lot of men as we get older, especially if we’ve been divorced we may just say I gave it my best shot, but now I’m going to focus on my kids and myself.’ She said that would be lonely and I said ‘we can live with it.’ I added that there are other risks to consider. Financially a man divorced after forty most likely won’t recover and I’ve seen it plenty of times. And I told her the divorce rate for second and higher marriages keeps going up. The word is out and smart men are cautious. I added health is also an issue. Men don’t live as long and from what I’ve read the health issues for men start to hit in earnest in our fifties. One way or another the dating pool becomes more shallow as you go along. She said but it just seems like there are no single men like they vanished. I said there are technically some men still around. But, men learn early on how to be invisible to women. It isn’t hard.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Looking and seeing are not synonymous.
Besides, the more cynical side of me thinks that if the most effort a woman can put in is “looking for” rather than “working for”…
then I just lose interest in explaining the rest.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[StealthParticipant 5326]

A divorced woman I went on a few dates with in her 50’s volunteered a similar observation; it’s not that men her age don’t exist, it’s that they don’t want to bother anymore with “finding their great love” or relationships (whatever that means). Instead, they view women only as useful for occasional, casual sex when they feel like it. She said men her age are this way because women have burned through all the men, and a lot of those women are terrible, evil people who have done horrible things to them. She whined that this is not what she wanted…and then used to call me up now and then for casual sex (I never took her up on it).

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

@JackHarper. It was nice of you to try to answer her questions. I’m 47 and she’d never even realize I was sharing space with her.

Women aren’t looking in the wrong place, true to their nature they’re looking at the wrong time. Most animals are suited to their environment for either hunting or protection. A woman’s best camouflage is in her youth. Men see a pretty face and get lured in, make promises.

Once the thin veneer of beauty is gone or after her divorce the lure is gone. She can’t find men because she squandered the meal she had for one she thought she could have. Did alone was her choice… too bad, so sad.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Grumpy wrote:

Looking and seeing are not synonymous.Besides, the more cynical side of me thinks that if the most effort a woman can put in is “looking for” rather than “working for”…then I just lose interest in explaining the rest.

Women expect to be pursued.

Old women are still women. They still think vagina trumps all and they have overvalued their crotch their entire lives.

Now as they age men do not pursue them. —> where have all the men gone?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

@ogre true. This lady happens to be a friend of a friend; so while I feel I gave an honest answer I also tried not to be rude or hurtful about it. I imagine she could read between the lines.

[Branched offParticipant 10920]

I like your point ogre, about women not even noticing most men. They are still acting with their default hypergamy setting and they still want top 20% if they can get it or a good fat wallet. Otherwise a man is just a tool with a voice.

How many men over 50 are single and top 20% or single with a fat wallet?

And as Jack Harper says, of those men they would notice, how many are bothered with dried up goods past their use by date?

Enjoy ladies.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Jack Harper wrote:

This lady happens to be a friend of a friend…

Red Flag.

She was complaining there were just no men available her age for dating. Asked me if I had any idea what the deal was.

It was at that point that you should have jumped out of the back window.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3753]

Don’t tell them why. Leave them wondering. Explaining this to them is only more ammunition they can use against us later.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

SpiderHerder wrote:

Don’t tell them why. Leave them wondering. Explaining this to them is only more ammunition they can use against us later.

Agreed.
While it is personally satisfying to tell a woman who sincerely want to know where all of the men went, simply telling them is only doing their thinking for them.

In a way, it’s the guy doing all the work for the woman., as always. That’s how lazy they really are!
How will they learn, and how will they believe us, if we just come right out and tell them that the cause of their troubles is right there in their own, soft-lighted, full-length, magnifying mirror?
I wonder how long it will be before mirrors come with the filters you see on social media?

Anyway. They don’t really want to know the truth.
Let them make up their own truth and enjoy the tiny advantage we still have.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

@ Jack Harper.
I would’ve asked her To describe the type of men that have up and vanished. You see there isn’t a shortage of homeless men to date. There are more of them now than ever. There isn’t a shortage of out-of-work men either. There seems to be more and more of those. I think there are plenty of average, middle aged men available for her to date but she isn’t seeing those either. She is looking for a top tier guy to date. A guy with all the sixes and just ready for her to swoop in and cause problems. It’s nice to see this happening but I honestly cannot wait to see this happening in the lower aged brackets. Women don’t want relationships they want caretakers. They want caretakers who have all the risk and responsibility but none of the power.
I wish her well in finding a suitable candidate for the position.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Yes, The women are looking in the wrong places.
That guy “with all the sixes,” has enough brains to know how to make his money,AND has enough experience to know that older women give horrible sex,are generally lazy,into their own world, and just want a man as a caretaker/billpayer.

Dumb,young,and rich is what they want.

An older “seasoned” male with all the sixes just wants some hot young female to orbit his world. She will be handy for sex and be ready to leave when he says so. Very Rare indeed.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

A divorced woman I went on a few dates with in her 50’s volunteered a similar observation; it’s not that men her age don’t exist, it’s that they don’t want to bother anymore with “finding their great love” or relationships (whatever that means). Instead, they view women only as useful for occasional, casual sex when they feel like it.

So you mean a guy in his 50’s acts like a girl in her 20’s? Well honey, now you know how we felt back then.

They say a pretty woman dies twice. You’ve only died once honey, you’ve still got one to go.

Order the good wine

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Jack Harper wrote:

I said a lot of men as we get older, especially if we’ve been divorced we may just say I gave it my best shot, but now I’m going to focus on my kids and myself.’ She said that would be lonely

WE’VE been there, done that, survived that, and NEVER want to do it again.

I find it so telling that women so often complain of being “lonely” when they’re alone whereas so many men CRAVE to be alone and only find Peace and Contentment in their Solitude….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 3]

Awakened wrote:

I find it so telling that women so often complain of being “lonely” when they’re alone whereas so many men CRAVE to be alone and only find Peace and Contentment in their Solitude….

The two are interconnected. Women need a man to torture emotionally, like some kids like to torture their pets. And men want to avoid being tortured by a woman.

Do you think I am kidding? Someone once said that said that the worst torture is not when someone inflicts pain on you, its when they do it while claiming that they are doing it for your own good, or that its your fault. That is the most cruel thing done by women to men.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Anonymous wrote:

Women need a man to torture emotionally, like some kids like to torture their pets. And men want to avoid being tortured by a woman.

A Women’s “Love” has a lot to do with control, manipulation, and the ability to keep a physically stronger being “under their thumb”….

MOST MEN become conditioned with this type of subservient to master relationship to the point where they will continue to find replacement masters once their current one is gone.

Other Men experience this and then check-out either with or without the MGTOW Label never wanting another “relationship”….We’re the minority.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 3]

Awakened wrote:

MOST MEN become conditioned with this type of subservient to master relationship to the point where they will continue to find replacement masters once their current one is gone.

… and this because they are conditioned to think this way, thanks to their mothers. Mothers do EVERYTHING for their kids, and MAKE SURE that they cannot live without them, and consequently, without a woman.

If a boy was educated to take care of himself, he would grow up self-sufficient and independent. And women would not like that, would they?

In the old days they would convince men that taking care of clothing, food and cleaning was a woman thing and unmanly. Then they became to lazy, and suddenly men had to “share” the workload, but UNDER THEIR RULES. The princess that cannot boil an egg is the expert on what everybody will eat!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Mr. Spock wrote:

@ Jack Harper.I would’ve asked her To describe the type of men that have up and vanished. You see there isn’t a shortage of homeless men to date. There are more of them now than ever. There isn’t a shortage of out-of-work men either. There seems to be more and more of those. I think there are plenty of average, middle aged men available for her to date but she isn’t seeing those either. She is looking for a top tier guy to date. A guy with all the sixes and just ready for her to swoop in and cause problems. It’s nice to see this happening but I honestly cannot wait to see this happening in the lower aged brackets. Women don’t want relationships they want caretakers. They want caretakers who have all the risk and responsibility but none of the power.I wish her well in finding a suitable candidate for the position.

IE they want to be the star of a Lifetime or Hallmark movie. The most god-awful, stupid, boring, not real-life movies ever made.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Anonymous wrote:

In the old days they would convince men that taking care of clothing, food and cleaning was a woman thing and unmanly.

It was considered Women’s Work, and MANY did it well and took pride in DOING THEIR PART AS A WIFE AND MOTHER.

Those days are Long Gone.

Anonymous wrote:

Then they became to lazy, and suddenly men had to “share” the workload, but UNDER THEIR RULES. The princess that cannot boil an egg is the expert on what everybody will eat!

When a man marries a Woman that decides that she doesn’t want to cook, clean, laundry, raise kids, LISTEN TO HER HUSBAND, PROVIDE REGULAR SEX, and instead decides to do everything to be a Daily Bitch then it leaves Many Men asking themselves, “THIS USELESS Parasitic Leech is just destroying MY LIFE without adding ANYTHING TO IT; WHY the hell do I want to keep this “thing” around for???”

Hopefully, He also Learns that AWALT

Anonymous wrote:

The princess that cannot boil an egg is the expert on what everybody will eat!

Fu(kin Useless Women BELIEVE that they actually are the “unquestionable” authority on EVERYTHING.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

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