Women as friends

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

The majority of my friends in my almost 32 years of living have been male. And almost all of my super close friends have been male. Even so I have retained female friends throughout my life, as well as a few close ones. I have always known that guys tend to make better friends though, and even most women can admit that. However, a recent incident has made me question things. I was pretty good friends with a woman the past 3 years. Let’s call her T. I also befriended her husband along the way. We used to have bbq’s together, have nature outings, talk on the phone (even though I’m not a phone person) and generally the 3 of us just got along. About a week or so ago though, T and her husband abruptly unfriended me on facebook and cute me out of their lives. I mean abruptly. They even removed themselves from a social group we helped run. I know it is nothing I said or did because a couple others have told me that T has cut others out of her life for the most minimal of slights. My guess is that she made her husband unfriend me as well.. Facebook is drama. We all know that. But I was close friends with this woman for a while.

My question is, is it worth befriending women? I have a few female friends still but they are not close. More like friendly acquaintances. Next time I start to become friends with a woman should I nip it in the bud before I get hurt?

[HitmanParticipant]

women are for sex . men are for friends . women can act friendly but it’s not their nature to be a friend to ANYONE , even other women.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Men and women can’t be friends. Women operate on Briffault’s Law. Friendship is difficult for them to understand. A friend will lay down their life for you, a woman will almost never do this, unless you are her offspring(even that is debatable).

[sidecarParticipant 35842]

Friendship is not a binary thing. It’s a spectrum. There are friends you occasionally meet out on the street who are little more than mere acquaintances. There are friends you’ll intentionally meet for drinks or a movie or whatever. There are friends who will help you move a couch. There are friends who will help you move a corpse. There are friends who will bail your ass out of jail. And there are friends who will be in jail right there next to you saying, “Well, that was totally worth it.”

Women generally occupy one end of the spectrum. Guess which end. By their own choice, While generally expecting you to be at the other end of the spectrum towards them. Don’t be. If she is just a casual friend with you, then you should be nothing more than a casual friend with her.

[Anonymous 18]

Why would a man ever want a woman as a friend?

She is my friend if she does my laundry and cooks and cleans. I can then forgo any sexual tensions. But she must be nice to the girl I am with to take care of my ‘love’ needs.

I don’t like drama.

[Anonymous 29]

MIKETOW wrote:

Women as friends

At best, only as acquaintance’s.
Men have to understand that it is impossible for men and whores to be friends. Too much sexual tension. Nuff said.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Basically I think the reasons why a woman wants a guy friend are:

1. To help her do things that her boyfriend doesn’t or can’t do
2. You are out of her league, she hopes that one day you will screw her when you get drunk.
3. She doesn’t find you attractive but wants to see how much she can get you to pump out.
4. She’s a just a slut and probably has STDs and wants to give them to you as a holy gift.
5. She’s ugly as f~~~, but she thinks she’s intelligent and hopes you will find her beauty inside, but believe you me, you don’t want to get in there.
6. She wants a better deal, but is unsure about your true potential, so she’s testing the water.

In other words, don’t do it. Unless you are like me, I keep a couple of female “friends” around, so that I can laugh at their stupidity and constantly remind me of female nature, it’s a great way to learn about your enemy..

[Anonymous 11]

I have a couple of female friends. They have to at least offer me something in reciprocity otherwise they are gone from my life.

One thing you do have to watch out for is being used as a prop to manipulate their husbands and boyfriends. Not all do it it, but some do. Overall, they generally make for marginal friends at best,

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Not once a so called female friend has ever done anything for me what so ever. Their selfishness is worst in friendship, then in romance.

Spank The Misandrists wrote:

Basically I think the reasons why a woman wants a guy friend are:
1. To help her do things that her boyfriend doesn’t or can’t do2. You are out of her league, she hopes that one day you will screw her when you get drunk.3. She doesn’t find you attractive but wants to see how much she can get you to pump out.4. She’s a just a slut and probably has STDs and wants to give them to you as a holy gift.5. She’s ugly as f~~~, but she thinks she’s intelligent and hopes you will find her beauty inside, but believe you me, you don’t want to get in there.6. She wants a better deal, but is unsure about your true potential, so she’s testing the water.
In other words, don’t do it. Unless you are like me, I keep a couple of female “friends” around, so that I can laugh at their stupidity and constantly remind me of female nature, it’s a great way to learn about your enemy..

Number 3, is always the closes to the truth.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[RennieParticipant]

Rennie does not recommend it. They generally make lousy friends.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

MIKETOW wrote:

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My question is, is it worth befriending women?

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[Anonymous 3]

It’s not like male friends are any better. Maybe things are changing for you younger folk, but if you’re older then you probably know pretty much every male friend is going to just get married and then disappear. Heck, even while you’re young, the pattern is the same with girlfriends. These dudes disappear and can’t be arsed to honor any commitment, until of course the woman dumps him (he’ll pretend he dumped her, whine a bit about it, then find a new lady to run off with and ignore his male friends again for).

Marriage is a pretty s~~~ty idea, but if I wanted any type of serious commitment and actual expectation of someone being around, I’d just get married. At least that way you know when it’s over, you get the official divorce papers.

I think people in general suck. Maybe it’s different in other countries, but this is how the West works. I don’t know why this woman unfriended you, I don’t use facebook anyway, but it may not even have been her idea. Oftentimes men just don’t like other men and use their women as an excuse, because they know naive male friends will accept it and let them just take advantage on convenience.

When I was really young there were still gentleman’s clubs around, or at least they hadn’t been gone long enough for nobody to know about them. This is how and where male brotherhood was forged. The women knew their place and would be at home. All of that is gone now in the West, the State blew it up, refusing to allow any male spaces. Women tried to blow these places up back in the 20s, but a combination of some women refusing to do it, and men being more masculine (as well as more poverty) kept it from happening. But since the 70s onwards feminism has been on an unchecked rampage, and quite frankly there is even more to it than that but people get all weird when you mention these types of decade long social engineering schemes, so I digress.

Just know and understand that in the West it’s extremely rare to find quality, lifelong companionship with either men or women. The vast, vast majority of people are selfish, inconsiderate and are incapable of having any honor whatsoever. Remember there was always a clear difference in aristocracy and the peasantry. The West we are kind of a hybrid, some of us have aristocrat/noble belief in honor, but the vast majority and the dominant culture is that of the selfish and mindless peasantry. It would probably have been better to be born stupid and dumb and just ignorant. Although from some reading I’ve done there have always been some in the peasantry that were disgusted with that behavior.

Sorry for the long post. Tried to limit everything to basic points and not get too verbose, but I felt some things needed a bit of exposition and historical reference, to better give my MGTOW brethren an idea of why things are the way they are and why so many of us feel this disconnect and identity issue.

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Anonymous wrote:

It’s not like male friends are any better. Maybe things are changing for you younger folk, but if you’re older then you probably know pretty much every male friend is going to just get married and then disappear.

Stop there. Male friends *are* better. Don’t even try to say male friends are no better than female. Are you f~~~ing retarded? Yes, half of my friends got married and got a ball and chain on now, but a couple of them have been single the entire time I have known them. I called up a friend of mine for 22 years and chit chatted with him and told him to look up MGTOW. He said, “What the f~~~ is that dude?” I said “Guys that think like us and don’t see the point of marrying these whores.” He’s like “Hell, I have been that for 20 years.”

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Male humans needed to cooperate in order to survive. Female humans never needed that.
Males were primed for friendship, and females weren’t
Some might call evopsych – baloney, and it might be, but it still explains A LOT

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[HitmanParticipant]

i got two best friends since childhood .both men .1 married , 1 divorcing .both solid guys .NO woman has ever kept the promises to “love you forever ” or to ” die during childbirth just to have your child ” or ..one of my favorites ” till death do us part ” ..experience is the greatest teacher ..women are not friends ..you F~~~ women . you do NOT f~~~ your friends >…….

[Anonymous 3]

Snake wrote:

phoenix wrote:

It’s not like male friends are any better. Maybe things are changing for you younger folk, but if you’re older then you probably know pretty much every male friend is going to just get married and then disappear.

Stop there. Male friends *are* better. Don’t even try to say male friends are no better than female. Are you f~~~ing retarded? Yes, half of my friends got married and got a ball and chain on now, but a couple of them have been single the entire time I have known them. I called up a friend of mine for 22 years and chit chatted with him and told him to look up MGTOW. He said, “What the f~~~ is that dude?” I said “Guys that think like us and don’t see the point of marrying these whores.” He’s like “Hell, I have been that for 20 years.”

What is the point of your post? Either discuss like a man or shut the f~~~ up. You don’t impress me calling me a name on the internet. In real life you’d p~~~ your pants if I looked at you. You are no better than a woman, they have to use name calling too because they can’t discuss rationally and get all emotional.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

I don’t friend women ever, I’ve learned my lesson from that s~~~, women will abruptly just like you said find a reason to stir up some drama for no apparent reason. Then turn around run their trap to everyone in an attempt to turn everyone against you, while she wears a smile on her face. Just F~~~ em, literally.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

women generally make terrible friends and will give you the worst advice possible unless your goal is to be a huge mangina/white knight/martyr. get a dog and thank me later. most women don’t have female friends since childhood or for a very long time. why? they don’t trust each other or they have constantly stabbed each other in the back. Men and dogs on the other hand understand loyalty. i have 4 friends i’ve had since childhood and keep in touch with 3 others. women don’t understand true friendship. they only understand using and manipulating people for their own benefit.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

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