Women are baffled when you aren’t interested

[AlmostNiceGuyParticipant 210]

I began noticing this a while back, even though it is common knowledge, I didn’t really know before. I never understood, in depth, why this would be incredibly effective when picking up a girl at a bar. As far as I’ve seen it is incredibly brutal to their ego, and in some way extremely sexually driven. My theory on why this is such an effective “pick-up” tactic is because of how contradictory it is to their lifestyle. Picture, for example, a 22 year old college senior who is majoring in liberal arts. Fairly attractive, decent personality, tolerable hygiene. Essentially this chick is the human equivalent to driving a Mustang in 3rd gear, barely entertaining. Now said individual has been showered with misguided approval since birth, being compared to a princess as a small brat, to being labeled “brave” for taking liberal arts courses. Everything she does is showered with approval, and sex-fueled blue-pillers drooling behind her. Then when she goes to a bar/club, and the same blue-pillers call her beautiful and compliment her, her ego remains untarnished. Now when a guy is completely uninterested, it shatters the reality she knew, and so begins the hamster wheel. First is denial, “who cares that dude was ugly”, sometimes it could be anger and yelling about “misogyny” (BEWARE, even though it is extremely funny it is unwise to laugh at that in a room full of manginas), would be the typical response since, even though she is as interesting as watching paint dry, she has been showered with compliments so long. Then comes doubt, she begins to doubt her attractiveness as she realizes that even though 3 guys have hit on her since then, one uninterested person makes her doubt herself. Then comes “bargaining”, which most times it is where this cycle ends, because in said phase she will try to have sex with the man, in order to regain her self-confidence again.

This is as far as I’ve been able to hypothesize, does anyone know the steps following this or have any input?

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

why do women take 10 times more selfies? because they crave attention.

in general……men want women, but women need men.

They need the attention, protection, and resources. All women hit the wall at a certain age, and this is when they become baffled. No more male attention given to them.

Attention gives women the sense of artificial scarcity. When there is scarcity, there is higher value. Since there are so many manginas flooding them with attention, women, especially the young one are overvalued.

life & nature is a cycle. When things are overvalued, they will eventually crash. similar to stock markets. This is where mgtow comes in. I imagine 100 years from now, women will have low value.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

Apparently some women can go as far as fall into depresion after being rejected.
https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/42vvsc/how_do_you_get_over_a_rejection_how_do_you_avoid/

Personally , I think it’s more over the top drama than actual depresion but it’s Hard to objectively tell given how women tend to conflate and rewrite situations inside their heads.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Women are baffled when you aren’t interested

Women are taught that all men think about is sex. This is incorrect for so many reasons.

So, when a man shows no interest in a woman, this confuses the woman in question. And western women clearly do not handle confusion well. They blame the man, while deep down feel that a man not showing interest means there is something wrong with them.

These women don’t understand that sometimes a man is not interested simply because he is not interest.

And in response to disinterest, as a form of personal validation, some women will double down and try harder to bed the man that did not show interest.

Truth be told. If you count average number of sexual partners, sells of romance novels (soft porn), porn, sex toys, women are far, far more interested in sex than men could even hope to be. And to claim otherwise is an insult to everyone’s intelligence.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

It makes them think you’re someone important or maybe a cut above everyone else. If you’re not interested in her, then you probably are into more attractive women, and the more attractive woman they want more resources, and if you are with them that probably means you have something to offer. They’re so used to being chased by drooling manginas they’re surprised when someone doesn’t care at all.

For me, I notice their whole demeanor to me has changed since IDGAF, too bad for them that I really don’t care at all. There’s no mind game with me, I really just don’t give a f~~~.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Sometimes it bothers them so much they get out and out obnoxious trying to prove to themselves that they are irresistible. It makes it hard to even be polite about it.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[Mastah JediParticipant 53]

haha, so true.

There is more to this. Its also genetic, i think. Well, i been a student of history as my favorite hobby since i could read. One of the things i noticed, is how drawn are the woman to the man who is above other common man. Its a prize, they know, that a man who stands his own, is likely to be more successful then other man, and therefore are naturally more interested in such man as potential mating partners. Its also why they have a greater interest in the one rejection then the next 10 manginas. Their instinct tells them, what that one man is superior to the next 10 manginas, even if they don’t consciously realize that. Hence why all woman are more interested in alpha male then all other types…. Well, until the “flaky chick” came to the seen, and she is scared of alpha male… while also having a sexual interest in alphas, as all heterosexual woman do.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Blue Skies wrote:

in general……men want women, but women need men.

Such a true damn statement.

[NEVERGELParticipant 166]

I can totally relate to this. And when she tries to validate herself by having sex with other men of course she’ll blame you for not paying attention to her. It’s always your fault.

I live the life I love and I love the life I live.

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

You’re totally on to something.

I worked with a woman yesterday – very pretty, married 30-something pre-wall young lady. I didn’t give her a second glance, because I don’t know her, and started to chat to the guys there I know.

She doesn’t need my attention (I’m a mid 40’s ugly guy who doesn’t give a s~~~ about women’s attention). But because I walked right past her and ignored her, she had to stop me, stick out her hand and introduce herself.

A day of working with that girl was a whole bottle of red pills, but that’s another story.

[AlmostNiceGuyParticipant 210]

I agree $aver, their SMV (sexual market-place value) would decrease if they are rejected, showing surrounding females that she is not as desirable as them. In this case not only would said female be sexually interested in the male, in order to regain her value, but also other women who witnessed the rejection. This way being disinterested not only causes women to be sexually anxious, but also sparks competition between them. As an example of said competition, would be how women hate when other women wear the same clothes, it is a competitive decision, since another woman is wearing the same outfit as them, her value decreases and is no longer “different” or “unique” in that location, and so is less likely to find a possible mate.

I may be straying of topic, but another instance of sexual anxiety caused by disinterest would be the typical scenario of the boyfriend, girlfriend and her best friend. We have all witnessed this, the male isn’t interested in the girlfriend’s best friend, and so the woman becomes frustrated, and so to regain her SMV she seduces the man, and in doing so blames the man for seducing her. This scenario is malable, could be the husband and the nanny, the CEO and the secretary, etc. Essentially, these schemes are just based on the value of vagina, and the lengths women will go to to keep it high.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Well, women know, on some level anyway, that they are walking cumbuckets, that have nothing to offer to a man other then sex.

when a man doesn´t drool at their presence, they got bats~~~ crazy.

Women are much more interested in sex than men because men have intelectual pursuits, women just want to enslave a workhorse throught sex.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

You forgot to mention how during the angry phase they get REALLY desperate and play the “f~~” card. They try to convince themselves that you must be gay for not noticing them.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

Women get hit on all the time, practically every day some guy is hitting on them. The hotter she is, the more she will get hit on. When she is single and is looking for some guy to come into her life, she doesn’t have time to get to know every guy who is hitting on her, so she will have FILTERs (S~~~ Tests) to filter out the regular guy and find the guy who stands out.

This is a survival mechanism. Looking for the best genes to produce offspring and provides the most resources = highest probability for survival. A woman doesn’t consciously think this, but it is programmed into her hind-brain. The S~~~ Tests just come on the fly…and their are many variations. They way to pass a s~~~ test is to be kind, but be dismissive and uninterested and not pay any attention. and DO NOT Compliment them or buy them anything.

Do NOT do them any favors, change their tire, buy them drinks or anything.

Just be polite, barely acknowledge their existence and IGNORE them.

If you want a hot girl and she is with a group of friends…approach the group and do some small talk with all of her uglier friends but IGNORE the hot girl…be polite, but barely acknowledge her existence, and her insecurities will compel her to try to chase you.

When you chase a woman…unless she is particularly ugly…and gets NO attention from guys, she will ignore you.

For an ugly girl, give them a little attention then withdraw – walk away, turn your back, stop calling her or texting her or emailing her. Just cut her out. When she contacts you and wants to go out, decline and say that you have plans that night. When she asks you what you did over the weekend (this is a s~~~ test) – Do NOT tell her you had a quiet weekend, tell her you were out with a friend. (she will assume you were out dating some other girl and her competition anxiety will kick in and she will pursue you).

Whenever a girl appears to not communicate very much…stop communicating with her, never contact her first, it might be 1 month, 4 months or even a year. And when she does contact you…just say “Oh Hey! Great to hear from you!” Been really busying doing stuff and seeing friends…only use phone calls, texting or emails to set up a date. NEVER chat, this denies them attention, and so they will want to see you.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Women are baffled when you aren’t interested

They teach little girls “men only want one thing” and by the time a girl is 6 and she sees a Disney movie, she is already indoctrinated with that nonsense. This is from the movie Enchanted and it is a great example of where this crap comes from.

That’s why women are dumbfounded when you aren’t trying to bang her. Ever since the first grade, she has had this idea in her head, and she doesn’t even know what it means. They spend half their lives being brainwashed and buying into it, and when a guy doesn’t want her, she loses her mind.

Women will even ask “are you gay?” because “he is not interested” is inconceivable.

[kizellParticipant 368]

I might disagree a little here.

Women get turned down at bars too, just at a far lower rate. Hell I turned down an offering from a pretty hot girl on friday because I wanted to play darts with my pals instead. She did not look baffled or surprised at all.

And there’s a reason for it. You see most women have indeed been turned down somewhere in their lives and realized that I aroused them.

Women at bars love coming back for seconds and trying to “get inside you.”

This is why you should never accept a woman’s first pass unless it is very late in the night. If she really wants to f~~~ you, trust me she’ll be back.

But what DOES baffle them is when they are hot (they know it) and you pass on their BEST attempt (at this point they are practically promising you the night of your life). This is when she gets confused because she has rarely, if ever, lost a CHASE. She may even resort to anger and calling you a f~~.

At least this is what I have experienced in the large amount of time I have frequented bars in my youth.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

A couple of weeks ago, this one woman who is SMOKING HOT actually asked me out in a Facebook group. I didn’t hesitate to say, “Nope! I’m not interested in dating you.” Of course, she got all f~~~ing p~~~ed and raged on that I’m nothing but a F~~~~~ and that I’m “not that handsome anyway”. I laughed at that, and then I blocked her the moment she began sending hate-filled messages to me in my message box.
Yeah, like the fact that this bitch lives like 12,000 miles away in f~~~ing SINGAPORE isn’t the issue. Because to her, I’m automatically a “f~~~~~”, and an UGLY one at that, because I’m not going to hop on a plane that costs like $1,000 roundtrip just for the opportunity to go on one date with her.
Closer to home, one woman at my work asked me out on a date at work two months ago. She’s actually the shy type, doesn’t really talk that much, and I saw that she was looking a little nervous, but eager to try and ask if we could go out together that weekend. Automatically, I said, “I don’t date people from work. It’s completely unprofessional, and I’m just here for a paycheck, not to play the dating game.”
Her smile fell faster than a rock and she stared at the ground without saying a word as I walked away. Don’t get me wrong, she’s a nice girl, pretty and everything, but I’m not stupid enough to do something that might affect my future at having a job there just because I might be a sucker for a pretty face, and plenty of men have been divorce-raped by “nice girls” who weren’t so nice anymore following the honeymoon. One coworker who overheard my rejection said to me, “That was mean”.
“Perhaps, but it would be unprofessional of me to date a coworker when I’m not on the payroll just to find dates in the first place.” I replied.
And that was that.

[OldBillParticipant]

Because validation is almost wholly external for women, rejection of any type strikes at the heart of their self worth.

Women can only value themselves when others value them. A woman’s self worth is completely dependent on factors beyond her individual self. Because she cannot make herself feel good, she has to beg, wheedle, nag, or seduce others into making her feel good. This is one reason why women are so addicted to social media. Such media provides the “fix” female “validation junkies” so desperately need.

I had the misfortune to deal with such a validation junkie over the holidays. While visiting a sibling on West Coast, I had the “pleasure” of meeting the same divorced, post-wall, harridan over nearly a week of parties, dinners, and so forth. Because we were both unattached and of roughly the same age, she thought I would automatically be interested in her.

My usual “polite, terse, and dismissive” attitude towards drove her crazy, so much so that other people in the extended group noticed and commented on her increasingly nasty behavior over the week. One person told my sibling “I hope X doesn’t act too badly tonight” and “I don’t know how your brother puts up with it.”

Let women stay baffled and keep going your own way. There’s no need to explain anything to anyone.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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