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  • #233822
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    Narwhal
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    Besides the BBC myth (or reality), there is also the stereotype that black guys like big asses. So there is also the possibility that she wants to be appreciated for her fat ass or something like that. There is also the saying ‘once you go black, you never come back’. Generally speaking, I consider stereotypes as areas I need to pay special attention to when getting to know someone. Does she seem proud of her ass? Does she like to talk like a thug? Is she frequently looking at guy’s packages? Add up the evidence.

    I don’t see dating guys outside your race as much different then the stereotypes of single moms, beautiful women, fat/lazy women, Hispanic women, etc. They are stereotypes because there is a strong element of truth to them. There certainly are stereotypes that people assume about me that aren’t true, so I prefer to give people a chance to prove the stereotype wrong.

    Also, as I guy who tends to be attracted to white and Hispanic women, rarely Asian or Indian women, and never black women (subjectively speaking), I completely understand that people have their preferences.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #233858
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    Goadsaid
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    I think some people may have mistaken “caring about interracial dating” with the more self-minded question I proposed of “does the idea of a “bbc” having been in a woman scare you away sexually from her?” Maybe that is my fault. I absolutely don’t care about interracial dating. In fact, I hope every girl I don’t have sex with dates the most thuggest of thugs of any color and gets left with an un-fathered child for being a dumb, daddy-hating, kardashian-worshiping media sponge.
    However, given those facts, I feel funny about putting my penis in a place where I know a “bbc” was. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want any penises to precede mine if possible but, for some reason, I can’t bring myself to get past the famed “bbc” being there first. An Asian guy I can forget about temporarily.
    Is it antiquated tribalism? Maybe. My own insecurities? Maybe. Or maybe a combination? I basically asked the question because I don’t think I have a conscious answer for myself.
    At this point, I just basically feel like… “well chick. Your ex-boyfriend genuinely looks like a nice guy. The type guy I would probably go to the gym with to be spotted by/ be a spotter for. However, I can’t touch you because his penis touched you. I know. I don’t get it either. You just seem a bit tainted now.”

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    Anonymous
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    Given some women have put all kinds of huge things in themselves and that some non black men are also huge (as well as some black men not being big at all).

    The size thing doesn’t come into it for me at all.

    #234025
    Eric Lauder
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    First. Let’s get this out of the way. I am not “racist” in my day to day life. I have nothing against black people. This is purely from the tribal/instinctual part of my uncontrollable subconscious brain.

    ..would you sleep with a woman who has slept with black guys? I feel funny about this and I sort of feel like my answer is no. I’m not even sure why.

    Of course. It’s very likely I even did it, but I cannot know, since I’m not interested about sexual histories of the women I f~~~.

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    #234109
    Narwhal
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    I generally don’t care what her past is, who and how many she’s slept with and all, except how it may effect the present. If she’s all stretched out or something, then yea not good. But at the same time, if she just lays there like a dead fish, flat chested with no ass, that’s not good either. If she isn’t what I’m looking for, then I’m not interested.

    At the same point, if she only wants a huge c~~~, or is into weird s~~~ that I won’t do to her, then she’s free to move on too.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #234508
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    Mr_Options
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    ..would you sleep with a woman who has slept with black guys? I feel funny about this and I sort of feel like my answer is no. I’m not even sure why.

    My fleshlight is only loyal to me. No interest in a meat hole with a mouth that won’t shut up.

    A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

    #234518
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    Bigboy83
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    C~~~s that bother me, are the ones who have one preference, their also the most dull.

    “I only date tall guys.”

    The real reason is the porn fantasy of bbc, most end up being disappointed.

    I happen to run across a interview with some porn slut talking about bbc, says it’s untrue and only in porn industry, which men take pills.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

    #234749
    Beer
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    The real reason is the porn fantasy of bbc, most end up being disappointed.

    I had a girl one time tell me I was hung like a black guy…kinda the most awkward compliment I ever got. But…since your saying they’re just average I guess it wasn’t even a compliment:(

    #234974
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    OldBill
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    Thug, Chad, or Papi, there’s no real difference.

    Spending years only f~~~ing men who treat you like a “piece of meat and collection of holes” is just another indication of underlying psychiatric issues.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #236010
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    Bomwa
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    However, given those facts, I feel funny about putting my penis in a place where I know a “bbc” was. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want any penises to precede mine if possible but, for some reason, I can’t bring myself to get past the famed “bbc” being there first. An Asian guy I can forget about temporarily.
    Is it antiquated tribalism? Maybe. My own insecurities? Maybe. Or maybe a combination? I basically asked the question because I don’t think I have a conscious answer for myself.
    At this point, I just basically feel like… “well chick. Your ex-boyfriend genuinely looks like a nice guy. The type guy I would probably go to the gym with to be spotted by/ be a spotter for. However, I can’t touch you because his penis touched you. I know. I don’t get it either. You just seem a bit tainted now.”

    I think that you’ve asked a really good question. Finding the answers will take you very deep. I’ve thought about this quite a bit so I shall share my ideas.

    1. What class/type of woman happily divulges details of her past sex-life to potential partners? Your question can only arise out of knowing about her BBC adventures. So, how have you come to obtain this knowledge?

    Try to objectively describe the various characteristics of the woman. Note,
    a) her speech (elocution, breadth of vocabulary, frequency of coarse language, use of sarcasm etc.),
    b) her dress, personal hygiene, and fitness/health
    c) her level of education (try to estimate her general IQ)
    d) her financial position (i.e., how much debt she is in)
    e) her living conditions (living with parents, living with housemates, home owner, etc.)
    f) her skill levels in cookery and housekeeping (does she eat well and keep her place clean?)
    g) her relationship with her father: does she speak well of him and make an effort to see him?
    h) prevalence of plastic surgery (e.g., fake boobs, nose job, lip enhancements, arse implants, etc)

    You need to determine a profile of the type of women who advertises details of their sexual past. And the advertisement need not be verbal. It includes women who keep photos of exes, stay ‘friends’ with them on facebook, etc. If you have worked out who her ex is through something that she controls, then she is advertising this fact.

    If you find out because you actually saw her with her ex while they were dating, or you were told through the grapevine who her ex was, this falls in to a different category.

    But let’s assume that this knowledge originated with her. Now, create the profile. I think that once you create that profile you will reach the deeper question. Which is, why am I associating with this woman at all? That question is much more important than the colour of the penis she last rode.

    A woman who, without you asking her, provides any details of her past sexual adventures has ZERO respect for you. Either that, or she is simply unintelligent. A smarter woman might not respect you but at least she knows that it’s a bad idea to tell you about her past lovers.

    Smart women know that their sexual value is inversely related to their age*number of sexual partners. And, so, will try to keep this information to themselves.

    Therefore, you’re either dealing with a c~~~, or a stupid c~~~.

    2. Now, let’s talk about the case where you obtained the information from a source outside of the woman’s control.

    In this scenario you are concerned with comparing yourself to another man. The woman is a trivial detail in this equation. You’re saying that you could handle it if it was an Asian man because you think that his dick is not going to be massive, but you couldn’t handle it if it was a black man because you think that his dick is massive.

    Here’s a question to contemplate. Which would you find more disturbing? a) your girlfriend had slept with 10 asian guys before you, or b) she had slept with two BBCs before you, or c) she had slept with just one white guy who she totally fell in love with (on some soulmate level), but he had unexpectedly died just before they got married.

    My investigations have led me to understand that all scenarios are identical. The common theme is that the female’s motivations are almost irrelevant to your actions. Your focus must always be on being the best person you can be.

    In the first instance you could say, f~~~ this girl obviously loves Asian men. The Asians have probably turned her off white guys and she’s just with me for a rebound. In the second you could say, she obviously loves BBC and that really challenges my sense of manliness. I can’t handle it. Or third, this girl’s love is always going to be with her dead-ex. She’ll never mentally commit to me on the same level.

    But there are countless of these type of scenarios we can think of.

    The solution, as I see it, is to massively diminish the value you place in women. I do not mean to make them second class citizens or diminish them of human value. What I mean is to diminish the extent to which they contribute to the sense of value you have in your own life.

    If she wants to f~~~ you, and you want to f~~~ her then don’t think about anything else. It is irrelevant who or what came before you. It’s not like you’re going to make her your long-term girlfriend, and you’re certainly not going to marry her. So live in the moment, YOUR moment.

    #236992
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    Jim01
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    Ok I’m a black guy. I’m not offended and do agree with what you are saying that some women do it because it’s fashionable.

    However, how about the myth about penis size???? Now I know Eddie Murphy said in Delirious or Raw about a black man’s penis saying, “our dicks are this big.” I think women assume that most black men are over average.

    Me, I’m average plus I used to be bigger by a half an inch but then you count meds and now my age I’m about 6 inches now. So the fact most black guys are packing is not always the case.

    Don’t get me wrong I really don’t care about the size matter to myself. I’m done with dating anyways.

    Until evolution does its job and women evolve, I take a pass on them.

    I was first told about that myth by a black woman. BBC (Big Black C~~~) is almost a generic term for Black C~~~, I have seen porn with average and even small black men and the title will still have BBC in it.

    I do think that black men have that “Cool Ghetto” image that a lot of women get excited over as it’s fashionable, add the big dick myth and well I am sure I don’t have to tell you that women are shallow.

    definitely think a lot is to do with that.

    in every single advert there is a mixed race relationship with a white woman and black man. I am starting to think that where white men have been strung out in adverts as complete idiots (and still happens), it is the black man’s turn.

    We will soon start seeing them in dumb situations being rescued by their women rather than the happy family scenes they are getting at the moment. Maybe not the case but wouldn’t surprise me if it starts happening

    #237425
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    Nero
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    I am white (Italian/German). I married a woman who has slept with a black guy. I have also slept with a black girl. She was very cool. What is your concern, subconsciously? I’m white but I find Latino women to be the most attractive for me, personally. Are you worried you are not the favored race?

    #238401
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    Goadsaid
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    I am white (Italian/German). I married a woman who has slept with a black guy. I have also slept with a black girl. She was very cool. What is your concern, subconsciously? I’m white but I find Latino women to be the most attractive for me, personally. Are you worried you are not the favored race?

    No. I really don’t care about anything except maybe screwing and staying disease free. I think I probably harbor some suspicion that, even if a black guy is smart and successful and careful with his reproductive system now; there may have been a time in the past when he was young and was just trying to ramp up his confidence in a poor black neighborhood of hopelessness by banging every city hooker to impress his friends and that there may be unrealized consequences of that today.

    If you find out because you actually saw her with her ex while they were dating, or you were told through the grapevine who her ex was, this falls in to a different category.

    That’s one thing that I suspect also has a lot to do with my “concern.” I found out through social media and let’s just say this – she was/is CLEARLY trying to hide him even though he appears quite successful. I saw her page and thought, “she is on here as little as I am.”
    Turns out I was wrong. She just hides/makes private herself and untags herself in every picture apparently to hide this guy. I actually feel pretty bad for him because it looks like he spent a TON of money on her and she doesn’t even want people to know about him. I would never (in blue pill days) date a chick who kept me completely off of her “page.”
    I am probably thinking “if she is ashamed of him, there must be something wrong with him which means that there will now be something wrong with her.” Probably 110% false but I am already skeptical and I am not going to pursue something I will worry about later.

    Basically – she’s apparently and even worse person than I thought. Big surprise.

    #260917
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    Keymaster
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    Would you sleep with a woman who has slept with black guys? I feel funny about this and I sort of feel like my answer is no. I’m not even sure why.

    No. But not for the reason you might think.

    It’s not because she slept with a black guy….
    It’s because she felt a need to SAY “I once slept with a black guy”

    I am more put off by a woman who says something emphasizes his race as a reason for spreading her legs before anything else.

    She could have said…

    • “I slept with a HOT guy”…
    • or “I slept with a MUSCULAR guy”….
    • or “I slept with a TALL guy”.
    • or “I slept with a GREAT guy”.
    • or “I slept with a FUN guy”.

    But she doesn’t say that. She says “black”. And that’s why I wouldn’t sleep with her, because she decides to spread her legs — or not — for the wrong and stupid reasons.

    White women actually sleep with black guys BECAUSE they are black — which is “racist” in itself. Some do it as a way of “getting back at daddy” for not buying her a pony on her 16th birthday, and behave like they are doing something “naughty” which is just silly.

    “Last night I slept with a black guy”.

    “OMG REALLY?? YOU DID??? HOW WAS IT!!!”

    Crazy.

    The justifications and reasons women give for f~~~ing (or withholding) are crazy. I actually heard women admit they would never sleep with a guy who wears white tennis shoes – like Adidas Stan Smiths. Stan Smiths haven’t changed in, like, +50 years and are often sold out everywhere, but a woman will say “uh no I won’t have sex with a guy who wears white tennis shoes”.

    That’s the same kind of bitch who says “I slept with a black guy” for emphasis.

    How insane would you need to be to make a personal rule that you would — or would not — sleep with a woman BASED ON THE COLOR OF HER SHOES. Never mind her skin.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #260928
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    Bobphilo
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    Personally, I don’t need to hear about any guy she slept with – black, white, big, small. I once had a girlfriend who took delight in telling me about her previous sex life to make me jealous. I lost all respect for her.
    Yes, I can accept the fact that she had previous boyfriends but I don’t want to hear about her sex life and describing details about his color, physique and c~~~ size. Way too much information.

    #261090
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    Sidecar
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    would you sleep with a woman who has slept with black guys?

    Only if I feel like having her a second time.

    Seriously, though, this is a question that isn’t an option for some of us here. Be aware of that.

    Could it have anything to do with Asians being stereotyped as educated and hard working, where as blacks are stereotyped as thuggy gang bangers?

    Probably. Look at it this way: even I would think it a little f~~~ed up if a woman just blurted out that she’d slept with other black men. I mean what is it with those black men that she felt the need to tell me about them?

    Now compare that to the far less likely scenario where a woman might volunteer that she’d f~~~ed Neil deGrasse Tyson. That’s also a pretty strange thing for her to volunteer, but it’s a completely different scenario, now isn’t it?

    Besides the BBC myth (or reality), there is also the stereotype that black guys like big asses.

    Despite the musical stylings of Sir Mix-a-Lot, that’s just a stereotype, and has little basis in fact.

    The reality is that most black women have fat asses whether black men want them to or not. And, admittedly, far too many black men are ready to compromise their standards to get laid.

    here is also the saying ‘once you go black, you never come back’.

    Now that is true, at least as applies to black women, but going the other way. With all the low down ratchet black women out there, once you’ve had a black woman you will never want to go back to black women ever again either. There’s a reason why MGTOW was pioneered by black men. Go back to black women or Go Your Own Way? The answer is clear. Sorry laydeez.

    I generally don’t care what her past is, who and how many she’s slept with and all, except how it may effect the present.

    Pretty much this. I mean it’s only a test drive, after all. It’s not like I’m going to keep her, so what do I care about her maintenance history?

    #261755
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    If she said “I had sex with ………” and it was a black dude who was a decent human being I wouldn’t care…but when there is a history of chasing after thugs, whether they be white or black, its a red flag, so just move along.

    There’s a new book “Eat, Love, Pray and have sex with Ben Carson”. 🙂

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

    #262792
    DJKevgeez
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    it is racist but i dont care.

    like who u like.

    #262804
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    Rennie
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    It’s just a thing done for notoriety. Take away the notoriety factor and they will probably lose interest and move onto the next perceived controversial thing.

    If she’s doing stuff like that, she’s probably a hoe and should be avoided.

    #262905
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    Didn’t Queen Elizabeth ask, “Is it bigger than a breadbox?”

    “Yes”

    And she responded, “Then it must be….black c~~~!”

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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