Why?

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

We are here. Why? We are sick of “The Deal”?

What is “The Deal” to all of you? Let’s spell it out.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

I will start. I am tired of the rebuttal against nature.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

The Force is against me

Peace brothers

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

It is not against you.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I’ve been gmow for just over twenty years. Every guy chooses his own journey so for some this might not even be an issue .. that’s perfectly fine, but for me, after all this time, it’s only logical that I ask myself …. What would I gain? What could I loose? .. by accepting a deal.
1.) Companionship .. all women are awalts so anything that seemed like true companionship would soon fade.
2.) Someone to add some spice and a female touch around the house .. I’d pay not to have her there.
3.) Love? .. I don’t believe in romantic love but rather short term infatuation which always ends bad and often financially disastrous for the guy.
4.) Income? .. maybe she works and two incomes are better than one? .. forget it. I get up early every day, pack my own lunch and have a stable routine.
5.) Kids .. those who want kids, I wish you all the best; I just don’t want to pass my personal traits or genetics on to a future generation.
6.) Cooking? .. I’ll challenge my homemade french bread, scalloped potatoes and ham or pot roast any day.
7.) Just plain old friendship and someone who I care about deeply to spend my life with and travel with and .. ok, the simple answer to this one is that I no longer have any space in my life for this fiction. I enjoy my quiet time; I Keep busy each day and have no regrets and no unfulfilled desires that I can think of.
8.) Not ending up alone .. at the present time I believe life is pretty good. I don’t know how to define happiness .. but, I might possibly be relatively happy because I’m certainly not dwelling on it every hour of every day. Why mess up a fairly good thing?
9.) She might get me out of my shell .. no thanks! I want no part of that slippery slope.
10.) Tonight?? .. I’m a little tired but I’m looking forward to a nice pizza, some fresh fruit on the side and a three layer desert that I made last night. I’m going to hit-the-hay early, but I’ll probably watch a favorite episode of B5 or DS9 prior. Do I want a lady sitting next to me on the couch as I enjoy my early evening? Honestly, truthfully .. not a chance. Someday, maybe a friendly bot to chat with about my tastes in sci-fi .. but right now my life is awalt free and I’m relishing every moment. I plan to keep it this way; I’ll fight to keep it this way. No hate, absolutely none .. and no regrets and zero loneliness.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

It is not against you.

Tell that to the man sitting in jail because he didn’t pay forced alimony payments. Or…or….or….

One can only say that the force is not against us because they have never felt it. You just haven’t been violated well enough yet!

Peace brothers

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

I read your bio and I too have had substance issues. So maybe the answer you are looking for is clearer than you might think.

I look at woman the same way I look at substances. Enticing and desirable but deadly.

Why am I hear because the red pill is self preservation.

As a result of my divorce and child support and alimony I am now forced to work crazy amounts of overtime just to barely survive.

You are not much younger than me although you have been thru your own hell it sounds like you came thru it ok. You don’t have a life situation that me and millions of other men now have.
Victims of this f~~~ed up game women play and slaves to this system.

I love my child to death but I barely get time to see her.
It’s just too destructive and risky for men today.
Stay single, take a red pill tonight and enjoy life.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

DorkShit wrote:

The Force is against me

If you chose to put your tail between your legs, it is still a choice you made. I choose to rise above all this and take accountability for my character, my choices and my life..

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

FrostByte wrote:

Darksith wrote:

The Force is against me

If you chose to put your tail between your legs, it is still a choice you made. I choose to rise above all this and take accountability for my character, my choices and my life..

I choose to understand the playing field of our society and the application of force as it pertains to all men.

The force is against all men. That is the DEAL.

Peace brothers

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I come to this site for one reason. To help other men see how stupid the marriage contract is. I’m not terribly concerned with what all women are like or not like or what the feminists are doing. When I first joined the site, I found those topics interesting, but that is no longer the case. As long as more men are recognizing the risks of marriage, my time here has been worth it. Of course, I come here for a good laugh or conversation sometimes, but that isn’t my purpose here.

Though I find my time here to have been worth it, I have been considering posting a lot less frequently and just focusing on other things. I feel like I’ve said all I’ve had to say and don’t really see how I can be of anymore use to the site. I’m just a 24 year old guy that has never dated, had sex, or anything like that. I’ve dodged every major bullet, so I don’t have many of those experiences to share with our new members. All I can be is like “Hey. I’ve never even kissed a girl, but I’m still happy. Don’t let anyone tell you that you NEED a woman or her approval. Live on your terms and don’t sacrifice your happiness to please a women, or anyone actually.” Maybe its finally time for me to shut up, make more room for the new guys, and hope my post continue to give whoever reads the archives a laugh or a bit of understanding.

Note: I’m just typing as I think. I don’t have any concrete plans or anything. What I posted above is just something that I’ve been thinking about on and off for the past couple of weeks.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Tiga K wrote:

hope my post continue to give whoever reads the archives a laugh or a bit of understanding

Truly enjoy all your posts and I learn from every single thread and point of view on this site. If it works into your schedule, please consider continuing posting. Have a great day.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

It’s 3AM and instead of sleeping Im browsing the site. I registered here as I found the information helpful and there were (and still are) many great MEN posting here. A pleasure to read some things, think of the ideas.

Tiga K wrote:

I’m just a 24 year old guy that has never dated, had sex, or anything like that. I’ve dodged every major bullet, so I don’t have many of those experiences to share with our new members.

28 here, same shtick.

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[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Tiga K wrote:

I feel like I’ve said all I’ve had to say and don’t really see how I can be of anymore use to the site. I’m just a 24 year old guy that has never dated, had sex, or anything like that. I’ve dodged every major bullet, so I don’t have many of those experiences to share with our new members. All I can be is like “Hey. I’ve never even kissed a girl, but I’m still happy.

You’re a young man, and could very easily find yourself with a women someday soon. Sometimes in life, the unexpected happens, and life can change on a dime. If you start getting away from the MGTOW community, it’s possible that one of these young sweethearts could lure you in to their web. You probably are saying never me, but better men then you or I have went down the wedding aisle to their doom on multiple occasions after saying “Never Again !!!” because pussy can turn the most logical man into a man with the reasoning capability of your average crack head. “Love” and a nice piece of tale can really mess with the mind of both the experienced and inexperienced man alike. No one is really immune, but one can become vigilant as well as elusive. Keep reading and keep posting, it’s your best defense.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[,Participant 1301]

DorkShit wrote:

The Force is against me

THE most efficient answer possible.
The Force > No paranoia, its not Forces. Capital F for Feminist-root
is > equals
against > contains: again, angst, aint, inst> for institution
me > humble and simple and natural me. innocent until proven educated.

Thanks Darksith

with joy/without hate

[Anonymous 43]

im going to taco hell, you guys want anything?

oh

why? because I had a big ass serving fork sticking out of my hand through a kitchen counter pinned there all night standing there in my kitchen wondering if the silverware goes in the basket handle up or down is my fault and I loaded the damn dishwasher wrong.

never again bitches. never again.

[Anonymous 24]

Tired of the lies that society and those who influence it are pushing.

To speak up before I die.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Why?

Why not!

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

hmskl’d wrote:

Tiga K wrote:

hope my post continue to give whoever reads the archives a laugh or a bit of understanding

Truly enjoy all your posts and I learn from every single thread and point of view on this site. If it works into your schedule, please consider continuing posting. Have a great day.

Thank you.

[HitmanParticipant]

why do men climb mountains ?
because they are there.
.
why am i here ?
because a place for men is where i need to go to recharge,
reinterpret
and learn more about myself and the world around me.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Tiga K wrote:

Though I find my time here to have been worth it, I have been considering posting a lot less frequently and just focusing on other things. I feel like I’ve said all I’ve had to say and don’t really see how I can be of anymore use to the site. I’m just a 24 year old guy that has never dated, had sex, or anything like that. I’ve dodged every major bullet, so I don’t have many of those experiences to share with our new members.

Tiga K, you and I’s life histories are exact opposites, and that’s what makes your voice so incredibly important on this site — because our dichotomies show two sides to the same coin. At 54 years old, I’ve f~~~ed a variety of women from all walks of life, and have nothing but misery and chaos to show for it.

You, on the other hand, have abstained from integrating with woman and have NO horror stories to tell. Your position, your story, I believe, is the more important one to tell to new men who find this site.

If I may be so bold, please consider posting in the forums when the spirit moves you, because you have perhaps the most valuable story to tell the desperate, broken men who come here.

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