Why some betas will remain betas..

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

I am making this post because i had it with a friend of mines who thinks its cool to slave away and give everything to hes mother that doesn’t give a s~~~ about him literally or hes ex wife that she has no right to be asking him for money when the kids have already exceeded 18 of age.

This is a man that i have been giving him a red pill after another, yet he still decides to regress back to blue pill beta provider, it’s almost like a default program for most men that is hard to override, hes family is in venezuela, well not all, hes broke and in hes 60’s, he lives with hes elderly mother that constantly nags him, he also lost hes most recent ex wife to cancer, the best thing that could’ve happened to him since she became a nagging monster, always unhappy around the last few years he had to put up with her.

Hes depressed and doesn’t want to work at least a cash job to save some quick money fast, i have tried everything to try and motivate him to make the move but to no avail. I recently gave up on him and cut out all communications with him, which is a shame since hes a great friend and i often saw him like the father i never had.

The thing that bothered me was when i helped him get an Uber car to drive around town, he kept giving all the money away to hes mother (that he didn’t need to) and hes ex wife when she was in venezuela, he was saving no money, scraping by, bills started to pile up and he decided to let the car go. I guess some Betas will always be betas, trust me when i say that i tried, hes now thinking about f~~~ing women and i keep telling him how much of a problem that is, there’s no solving stupid, i just hope he someday wakes up and realizes that he cannot make anymore mistakes….Not at this stage old dog.

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

There’s an old saying in Spanish that says “Después de vejez, viruela”. It means that even after being old and all as your friend here is, he still makes rookie mistakes that cost him dearly.

I personally really see no fault in him helping out his mother. Maybe he’s exaggerating and pampering her, but in the end it’s his mom. I am sure you also would pamper your mother more or less. As for his wife she is obviously using him as a a walking ATM, and even though he may see this he doesn’t care because for 1.) his self esteem is at a low right now, and 2.) he doesn’t have the necessary alliance from family, he still knows what he’s doing.

I have a friend (or ex-friend depending on the outcome) that is basically a super blue pill with women. Time and again I told him things but sincerely I’m done with him. Don’t worry, I think your friend will listen sooner or later the way things seem to be going.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Can lead a horse to water…

[narwhalParticipant]

People can be resistant to the unknown, what they aren’t comfortable with. Your friend would rather live with the devil he knows then risk losing what he has (or believes he has) without the devil. He also doesn’t want to deal with the guilt and shame that will be thrown his way he doesn’t give in to what they want.

My mother is a good example of this in a general sense. She lives in a 3000 sqft home by herself, and spends so much of her time just trying to keep it together. She should sell and move to a smaller home that fits her needs better, but she’s afraid of making a change, of making a mistake. On top of that, I think she’s afraid of losing her drama. What will be her life be about if she is not spending her time on this house and such?

For a lot of men, they stand to lose quite a bit by going red pill. I don’t blame them for staying as they are. All women are AWALT, but many women are easier to live with than others.

Ok. Then do it.

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