Why some American couples stay married

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  • #155284
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    DeepInThought
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    #155320
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    ILiveAgain
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    Yup agree with BM.

    Just Disney trying to retain its customers and their slaves.

    I have been married. I have the equivalents of several degrees.

    I had LTRs, one nights etc etc.

    I’ve never been happier, richer, fitter, focused than I am now.

    I can state with 100% truth that women take a damn sight more than they give …. which most times is only one thing.

    PR propaganda by the machine. Chocolate rations are up etc

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    RoyDal
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    I have never been married, and I find myself happy and content with my lot, both.

    My married male acquaintances can not say the same thing. They live lives of constant strife.

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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    Klaus Windamier
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    The title from the article itself :

    Why some american couple stay married?

    Means, there is something wrong with the marriage (either it is the sky rocketed number of MGTOW or a divorced couple).

    When something need a justification for the bright side image, that must be something wrong with it.

    For example :

    Why eating a lot of junkfood is not good for your health?

    This article is made because too many people are became obese and unhealthy because too many ate junkfood.

    Etc etc

    #155364
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    DeepInThought
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    Well i feel, if anything, that educated women would be more hypergamous.

    Thoughts?

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    Narwhal
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    While the facts don’t lie, the interpretation of these facts are lacking. It should say, your chances of staying married if you have a college degree then if you don’t, but the odds are extremely s~~~ty in both cases. It’s like saying the odds of winning the lottery are better if you buy 2 tickets instead of 1. In all cases, it is still smarter to not play the game.

    Ok. Then do it.

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    Cap285
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    Uh. What?

    Yeah, because that matters you start fighting about money, chores and doing s~~~ you don’t want to do.

    It’s cheaper to keep her. The end.

    Fuck this planet.
    #155564
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    Teddy
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    Many of my friends are married or will be married. I dont feel sorry for them. Society has brainwashed people into believing that marriage is true happiness. In my opinion, weak men marry. Before marriage, couples dont talk about how health insurance works. They ignore the importance of wealth management. Some stay married because they feel like no one will love them, etc.

    #155586
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    The only people I see clamoring to get married are women, and for good reason. They can try to justify it all the time, but truth be told, men are wising up. And a factor they never consider is happiness. Keep spouting the same ol bulls~~~ about this that and the other, it’s not going to change our minds.

    Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

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    The only people I see clamoring to get married are women

    The fact speaks for itself.
    Women and society in general function and thrive on the “provide and protect” instincts of the vast majority of men who are beta providers.
    We have, and always have been both cannon, industrial and commercial fodder.

    Divorce has made that exploitation more efficient by eliminating the beta provider from the life equation completely.

    On average, the higher the education level, the higher the income but more importantly, the higher the awareness of the short and long term cataclysmic financial repercussions of separation.
    Educated men tend to marry educated women and end up with more to lose and they’re more aware of it.
    It’s now acknowledged that 2 out of 5 couples that stay together (about 5/10) divorce, stay together only for financial, social or religious reasons Yes, condemned to living a lifetime of perpetual resentment.

    I’d bet the reality of the figures this article comments on tend to reflect the very worst end of the spectrum of marital “Bliss”, not the best but they’re free to draw their subjective conclusions, and so am I.

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    K
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    Most marriages are for convenience. .The fun don’t last too long and throw in a few kids and they stay married. .not happily married. .just convenient. I’m glad I’m divorcing. .better than living with a crazy lady. ..

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    MalfunctionNeedInput
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    Most marriages are for convenience. .The fun don’t last too long and throw in a few kids and they stay married. .not happily married. .just convenient. I’m glad I’m divorcing. .better than living with a crazy lady. ..

    It’s sad but that’s how my marriage started after 1 year of dating…It was good until the last 3 years before divorce…well maybe 6 years before divorce as all I did was spend f~~~tons of money on her.

    The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

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    Hollowtips
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    I think most men stay married because it doesn’t seem worth having to battle your way out of marriage. Division of assets, loss of kids, having no real support system to get you through the scenario, not to mention by the time a lot of men wake up they are past their prime and don’t see a point. It’s highly unlikely to amass a vast fortune or two go through a massive amount of attractive woman starting at 40 years of age.

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    Ogre
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    The article in one sentence.

    “If you move your branch higher on the tree, she’s less likely to want to swing off of yours.”

    S~~~, I guess that wouldn’t have gotten any clicks.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #183834
    Experienced
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    Many months ago, 80% of divorces initiated by the wife, unless it was a college educated couple, then it was 90% initiated by the wife.

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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