Why PUA is for failures in life

[Anonymous 18]

A man who knows his value and worth will reject women that fall beneath him. She might get dick, but she won’t get a call or text the morning after.

PUA strive to earn pussy. Which given the high rate of turn downs become a vicious cycle where low-caliber pussy is conflated with the pussy-on-pedestal they strive to achieve.

A PUA can never reject a pussy. A woman attached to it is secondary gains. At the core its male devaluation.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“Game” is a stifling worthless expenditure of male vitality.

I won’t deny there are certain advantages to being “game” AWARE, but I would understand and apply it only amuse and entertain myself – instead of trying to get the bang. I also concluded if a man has to “game” his wife ( or girlfriend ) just to make it not fail . . . . he has to constantly be operating on a higher plane than she, and that means he’s completely alone in that relationship anyway.

“does this dress make me look fat?”

If a man has to be able to see that for the manipulation that it is, study it, understand it as a s~~~ test, then calculate 2 or 3 possible alternate responses to “game” her into sticking around longer… well he may as well just pack it in.

I always knew EXACTLY how to “talk to women”, how to approach women, what I had to do to be more charming, make the girls laugh, how to get more tail, create more anticipation, be more exciting, give her that fix for drama . . . . but it’s just not worth it.

None of that was a “challenge” that I needed to practice.

What I needed to practice — >> was being able to say “no”.
Do they teach any courses in that?

Anonymous wrote:

At the core its male devaluation.

Or female over-inflation.

“PUAs attempt to convince you that after studying what women want ( as opposed to what they SAY they want ) that game isn’t about – and SOLELY about – giving women what they want ( as opposed to what they SAY they want ).”

End quote.

I’m not passing it along to others – JUST to parrot what he said.
He’s absolutely right.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[lod9Participant 10]

PUA is a waste of time, it focuses on being attractive to women, but the truth is that women will find you attractive regardless of your behavior, if they want to. Instead of focusing on “what women think/how to deal with women” following the PUA philosophy, self-improvement and learning to say “no” leads to better results and a happier life.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

The most common advice I heard from men concerning dating apps like Tinder is to swipe right practically anything with a vagina and these same men wonder why even landwhales act so bloody entitled.

If way more men could just reign in their thirst and have some f~~~ing standards for a change, it just might improve their actual chances at scoring and as a bonus, they can avoid the mega fuglies and other boner-killers.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

PUA’s PLAY with Fire THINKIN they will NEVER get burned, and that works out well for them until the day they are sitting in the back of a cruiser or facing paternity charges in family court.

The more HO’s you attempt to Play, the more CRAZY HO’s that you will encounter that are just waiting to Play YOU.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 3]

I am new & I don’t know what PUA stands for.
I did read all the replies & all I can say if it means something like being a shapeshifter intellectually & morally in order to get laid.I have already compromised myself enough behind pussy.

[Anonymous 11]

Pickup Artist

[Anonymous 3]

Thanks!

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Running game to get pussy is like operating a cattle farm to eat steak.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Stargazer wrote:

Running game to get pussy is like operating a cattle farm to eat steak.

Thanks for the laugh Doc! I needed that.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Gone GhostSpectator 222]

Keymaster wrote:

I always knew EXACTLY how to “talk to women”, how to approach women, what I had to do to be more charming, make the girls laugh, how to get more tail, create more anticipation, be more exciting, give her that fix for drama . . . . but it’s just not worth it.

Definitely agree with this sentiment. Would much rather spend my time acquiring skills which will build my resources, than the number of notches on my bedpost.

For me it’s like a never ending tunnel. Phase 1, start convo, Phase 2 qualify, Phase 3 build attraction ( or whatever the sequence is ) lol …point being once you pop you just can’t stop. You be forever going through the next stage with this bunny boiler you have hooked and then you gotta remove yourself from that tunnel when it ( she ) caves in on you and turns into an emotional wreck. Was all of that worth an hour to get your rocks off?

~ Were you listening to me, Neo? Or were you looking at the woman in the red dress? ~

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

Awakened wrote:

PUA’s PLAY with Fire THINKIN they will NEVER get burned, and that works out well for them until the day they are sitting in the back of a cruiser or facing paternity charges in family court.

The more HO’s you attempt to Play, the more CRAZY HO’s that you will encounter that are just waiting to Play YOU.

So bloody true!

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Jim01Participant 6678]

I see them as the ultimate simps

Sure, they get 100 times more fanny than I will in ten lifetimes but at what cost? They might “play” women and boast about it to their mates but in reality they are pussy beggars.

f~~~ playing those pathetic games plus they run a big risk of rape charges so good luck….

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Anonymous wrote:

A man who knows his value and worth will reject women that fall beneath him. She might get dick, but she won’t get a call or text the morning after.

PUA strive to earn pussy. Which given the high rate of turn downs become a vicious cycle where low-caliber pussy is conflated with the pussy-on-pedestal they strive to achieve.

A PUA can never reject a pussy. A woman attached to it is secondary gains. At the core its male devaluation.

Let’s not be extremist.
PUA is a natural state for men when we are young: 16 yo, 18 yo, 20 yo…
PUA are young and proud, they get more pussy than the average guy and that make them to think that they’re special.
There’s nothing bad in young men being proud, it’s normal.
When they’ll grow up, they’ll realize that they can be much more.

However I suspect that sometimes the label “PUA” it’s even a cover for betas – check this test
Dating Market Value Test For Men
Some questions are very telling about the insecurities behind many PUAs:

6. How much money do you make?
This is a question that can be relevant just only/mainly for betas looking for a long-term relationship. In one-night stands/casual sex/short-term “relationships” the money you make isn’t important, often (not always) you need some money but the difference between someone who earn 60K (55k-90k range) and someone who earn 100k (90k-200k range) is practically ZERO.

9. Have you ever played a leading role in a team sport?
Irrelevant at best, likely to be even hurting.
When you pick up a female the first thing is isolating her from her group, it requires VERY different skills from managing a group, it’s the opposite in many ways.

11. How many friends do you have?
Again: it smells beta.
Best answer is 4-20, NOT “over 20”.
Over 20 mean that you’re wasting time in unproductive ways (from the viewpoint of picking up as much as females as you can).

18. Have you ever been arrested?
It lacks the best option: how many times have you avoided being arrested even if you severely infringed the law?

19. You are on a second date with a girl. You go to kiss her. She turns her cheek to you and says “Slow down, I’m not that kind of girl.” You reply:
Huge red flag. Kiss MUST happen at the first date. There’s no such thing as a second date without nor even a kiss. It’s just a kiss, for God’s sake!

20. You’re chatting up a pretty girl you just met in a bar. After a few minutes she asks you to buy her a drink. You reply:
(A) “Sure.”
(B) “I’m not an ATM.”
(C) “No, but you can buy me one.”
Ludicrous. Never happened to me. Sometimes they asked to taste what I was drinking, from my glass.
However my answer would be:
“Okay, but I have money for just only one drink, we’ll have to share it.”

22. The pickup has been going well. Later in the night she leans in and begins making out with you passionately. You feel like a king and your jeans suddenly feel much tighter. Do you:
(A) immediately grope her boob in return.
(B) continue making out with her for as long as she wishes.
(C) kiss for a little bit then push her gently away and look distracted for a second.
Huge red flag.
You don’t “feel like a king”: you’re focused on f~~~ing her, and the right answer is A (they say it’s the worst) while C is the worst and B is still horrible because it includes “she wishes” that is nonsensical. Her “wishes” doesn’t exist.

26. In the middle of the conversation you have to pee. You say:
(A) “I have to go to the bathroom. I’ll be right back.”
(B) “Excuse me.”
(C) nothing. Just go.
Wrong, C is needlessly rude, stupid. This is a major proof that they’re trying to overcome their weakness and insecurities, by being rude.

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[AttonParticipant]

Pua’s are one swift away from freedom, many of them simply never learn.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 3]

Eric Lauder wrote:

Let’s not be extremist.
PUA is a natural state for men when we are young: 16 yo, 18 yo, 20 yo…
PUA are young and proud, they get more pussy than the average guy and that make them to think that they’re special.
There’s nothing bad in young men being proud, it’s normal.
When they’ll grow up, they’ll realize that they can be much more

I am in total agreement with this. being young is a time for that & a fun time.Until your heart gets broken & reality sets in. Its not all rainbows, flowers & unicorns. then you grow up a little as the scales start falling away from your eyes. the problem I see today is no one wants to Grow UP. A world full of gamers who sit on Mommy & Daddys couch eating snacks & waiting for their ” allowance ” at 30, 40, and so it goes. The question is WHEN will they grow up.

[narwhalParticipant]

I think it can be useful to study PUA a bit, but from outside view. Some of the things they follow are useful for every day life that we never think about.

For example:
How you sit, how you carry yourself reflex confidence. It will make both men and women think more highly of you.

What you wear can make an impression. It’s not even what you wear, but that you are confident and comfortable with how you are.

Although, I wouldn’t recommend hitting on every woman, PUA also teach to not take rejection personally. That woman isn’t special, has no special judgment powers, and her reason for rejection probably has little to do with you. Her problem, not yours.

Where I dislike it is in the investing loads of time and money into creating an image just to appeal to women, investing in you. You become just an empty shell.

Ok. Then do it.

[Force of Nature 225Participant 93]

Game requires way too much energy and why waste that energy on a woman?

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

PUA community is declining like the dollar.

Mgtow is the safe haven. (Like bitcoin, gold, or silver)

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

PUA is a laughable clown act, scamming the male spirit.
I ain’t trying to ‘impress’ women anymore.

Did you notice how the guy always has to ‘win the girl over’ in this society?
For WHAT? Hahahahahaha
WHAT THE F~~~ CAN A GIRL IN 2017 OFFER A MAN?
Nothing but headache and hyper spending his hard earned cash (as soon as she sees the chance)!
One mistake from the man and she’s suddenly not ‘in love’ anymore!
Why the F~~~ would I try to ‘impress’ that??!

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