Why It’s Awesome To Not Have Friends

[Grim-Participant 454]

I’m not against having friends, but outside of the internet, I don’t have any. I remember having friends between the ages of 14-21 and even when I was in kindergarten. For the most part, it was great. I had people my own age to talk to and do things with. However, I always felt out of place.

After taking the red-pill, I now know why I always felt out of place. Most of my male friends were PUAs while ALL of my female friends were sluts. Also, we were a group of about 50 people that came and hung out every week or so. Everyone except me would sleep around with everyone else. It almost made me want to throw up knowing that all of my friends basically had an orgy together.

This in turn, made me avoid sex. That, and all the fake rape accusations/pregnancy scares.

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The only reason we met up on weekends a couple times a week was because we were doing things like hiking. However, it was a hassle trying to get together outside of those times. I always felt like I was the “odd one out” because all of the other or most of the other people in that group had no problem getting together. Yet, when I suggested we could do something together, they just pretty much ignored it.

Even when they were doing other s~~~ like starting a group to play Dungeons & Dragons, they would never inform me. I’d just find out because of the Facebook posts they had on their personal profiles.

I felt they only wanted me in their group because it meant they had more people in their group and were trying to gain more members every month. Eventually, I left it because i just felt obligated to go to that group. It felt more like a chore than anything else.

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Now, I feel much better. I don’t have to worry about meeting anyone, keeping friendships active, or doing s~~~ for other people. I also know that I wouldn’t even be able to stand being around them now after taking the red-pill.

Personally, I prefer being alone. I’m more or less “anti-social”. I just tried making friends around those ages because I thought it was the normal thing to do. But, during the last months I was with that group, I wasn’t having fun and I felt obligated to do s~~~.

Having friends just causes more drama anyway. The less people you know, the less bulls~~~ you have to deal with.

[RoyDalParticipant]

The older I get, the fewer real friends I have. I have been friendly (not the same thing) with scads of people. What I found out is they are all too willing to drop me if I don’t do all the work of keeping our association active.

The phones, email, and snail mail work in two directions. If I have to do all the reaching out, then the guys on the other end are not my friends.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 11]

Grim- wrote:

Having friends just causes more drama anyway. The less people you know, the less bulls~~~ you have to deal with.

It really depends on the friends. “Drama Queens” are either White Knights or Manginas and should be shunned.

2 to 7 good loyal solid men you can trust are an asset. Most likely they won’t even be red pill, but more men go red with each day.

@roy: I’m notorious for my friends looking me up mostly, because they know I have a chaotic schedule. I still have to reject a few sociopaths every now and then.
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[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I know I’d be put off by not being invited to the neighborhood orgy. /s

True friends are few and far between.

I lived in LA for 25 years and I can say I have one good friend from all that time. It’s better to have one true friend than 1000 superficial ones.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Grim-Participant 454]

@chauvinistpig

What’s funny about that is I’m more likely to make friends with older men than men around my age. I don’t relate to other millennials at all. This is also perfect for me, because most older men are more reliable in general. Blue-pill or red-pill.

Not to mention, they are really good drinking partners.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

The other night I cleared snow until well after midnight. Everything seems so beautifully bright against all the white drifts and snowbanks.
It’s awesome to be all alone and not to have friends around when moving snow at night 🙂

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I’ve only got a few close friends, but you’d be surprised how many “friends” are only there when you have something to give them. I like solitude myself, I guess I’ve just had my fill of the world already, maybe if the world were different then I would be, but it’s not.

Krishnamurti: “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”

That’s how I think of it, not to mention most people are content being s~~~ty ignorant people who don’t want to use their brains.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[mrpropmechParticipant 216]

I remember in highschool and a few years after I had to be surrounded by friends. Come to find out years later now almost 26 I am perfectly content without them around all that much. The group went from 12 or so to down to 2 in person close friends I have. Both are blue pill, and both know my stance with MGTOW I doubt either of them will ever take the red pill. Ive known both of them since elementary school, weve gone through some s~~~ together but idk, friends come and go much like everything else. The rest of the group either started smoking weed everyday, or became drunks, or just flat out disappeared. I can’t be around people who smoke weed all the time due to my job and clearances… so losing them wasn’t all that hard. One of my buds and I shared an apartment together in 2013 for a year, this was just before I went full mgtow but at the time where I had started to fully realize how much I love being alone doing my own thing, he could never figure out why I loved my solitude. Truth is I value my time, I do alot of side projects outside of work; on the cars, bikes, small engine repair “business”, I had gotten to the point that I have so many hobbies that I am always satisfied enough to where I don’t feel the need to be constantly around other people.
I have a few other people that I regularly talk to online and have been playing with them since the 360 came out, met both of them last year when one flew out from florida to meet the other where he is stationed in the bay area. The guy from florida is a good guy, I trust him and consider him a good friend, hes not blue pill more of a purple pill at this point. I don’t think this is exclusive to MGTOW I think alot of it points to maturity maybe. Something which MGTOW is leaps and bounds ahead of everyone else in.

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

One of the criticisms blue pill manginas, white nights and feminazis throw at MGTOW is that we are a bunch of socially maladjusted losers. That we are only going our own way because no one else wants us, we are loners, creeps, losers, potential serial killers.

To me, being MGTOW is about a personal choice, I have had women, I have had many friends, but now at 51 I am choosing to go a different route. I still have a couple of people I can call friends but most of the time I choose to be alone. The operative word is “choose”, it is my will to be alone. Society has not shunned me, I have shunned society.

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[Anonymous 7]

People f~~~ing suck when you get right down to it.

They only care about themselves and will f~~~ you over at the slightest benefit.

[Anonymous 22]

Spacemonkey wrote:

One of the criticisms blue pill manginas, white nights and feminazis throw at MGTOW is that we are a bunch of socially maladjusted losers. That we are only going our own way because no one else wants us, we are loners, creeps, losers, potential serial killers.

That’s what they say. But they certainly do not think that way. If we were just loners or losers they wouldn’t feel any kind of desire to take down this site. They would leave us alone.

There has got to be some reason MGTOW is very much hated although our only ‘crime’ is that we mind our own business and leave women alone. The feminists are P~~~ED! And they are SCARED!

[Anonymous 11]

Grim- wrote:

What’s funny about that is I’m more likely to make friends with older men than men around my age

I’ve always hung out with men 10 to 12 years older than myself too. True on the drinking partner part too. You’ll start losing guys to alcoholism when they get older. I’ve lost more than a few friends to women over the years, but who needs a mangina.

I also have friends my age, late 40s. I only have maybe 3 or 4 friends that I know won’t screw me over out of the hundreds of people I know.

A true friend is so rare.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

well one of the reasons is that “friends” are rare, especialy among men.

Most of us only have “friends” we barely know from our work, from college, etc.

And being mgtow cuts you off from the blue pill men out there.

[lonestar77Participant 406]

I had a close group of 4-5 friends from elementary school up until I hit my early 30’s. We used to say in college “bro’s befo ho’s”. Well all know how that ends up… Once they got swallowed up by their women and had kids, I had no desire to hang with any of them if their wives were around. When I tried to get all the guys together MINUS their stupid bitches, it would never come together. Too much red tape just to get a few guys together.. So I gracefully stopped texting, calling and haven’t heard from any of them in about 10 years. It’s so sad what happens to these blue piller manginas. Anyway no skin off my back less drama to worry about! Anyway all my friends ever did was eat all my food when they came over! F~~~ em!

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[BeerParticipant 11832]

RoyDal wrote:

The older I get, the fewer real friends I have. I have been friendly (not the same thing) with scads of people. What I found out is they are all too willing to drop me if I don’t do all the work of keeping our association active.

The phones, email, and snail mail work in two directions. If I have to do all the reaching out, then the guys on the other end are not my friends.

Its sad how this works. I’ve had people I’ve hung around with for years who I realized if I don’t call/text them first, I simply won’t hear from them. I’ve cut them all out of my life…its like they’ll hang out with you if you call up with a good offer but they’d never think to just call you out of the blue to get together to go fishing or something on a random weekend.

What really bugged me the most about people like that is after you don’t talk to them for like a year, then you cross paths with them at a party or a random restaurant or something, they’ll give you the whole talk about how we haven’t hung out in forever we gotta get together sometime! “Sure, shoot me a text, I’m around” is my standard reply, and naturally you won’t hear from them. I’m cool with growing apart from people in life…it happens…but when people play this game it actually makes me dislike them instead of just thinking of them as an old friend on a different path.

[Grim-Participant 454]

@chauvinistpig

My only problem with having friends my age, is that most people around my age are f~~~ing annoying. I’m 25, and most of my generation only cares about partying, women, and Justin Boober. Not to mention they’re mostly social justice warrior f~~~tards.

I do have a couple friends, but they’re in their mid-30s.

[BONEParticipant 448]

I don’t have many friends either, thing with me is; I hate small talk absolutely HATE it, and another thing is..I don’t know anybody whose life and hobbies isn’t revolved around pussy, nothing but pussy-whipped manginas everywhere I go. It doesn’t help that I’m an hardcore introvert and I hate being around a whole bunch of people at one time and all they’re doing is focused on pussy? Yeah hell on earth for me so I’m like “f~~~ it, don’t want nor need any friends”.

[jasonstylinSpectator 82]

I think friendship with other males is important. In real life preferably, not just the internet. You need to have people to talk with, that you can trust and relate to in life. It is true though that you never want to compromise on your own values or preferences when you’re with friends, so the key is finding friends that you truly get along with and will accept you for you.

I have 1 real good buddy, we’ve been friends for maybe 10 years now. He lives in Toronto, ON, I live in Calgary, AB, but every 3 or so months we fly out and hang out with each other. We’re meeting up in Vancouver, BC in February. He knows almost everything about me. I don’t need to put on an act with him, or anything like that. Its very comfortable and I can be me, and he can be him. Thats how a friendship should be.

I think it’s very important to have some people in your life that you can talk to. I’m close with my father, brother, and my buddy. I also can “chit chat” with the guys I work with, and that’s enjoyable, but it’s more a temporary friendship than a permanent one like the aforementioned three. But even that is fine. People come and go in life, so there’s nothing wrong with enjoying some small talk or temporary friendships.

I also value being independent. I do enjoy making my own decisions, and living my own life, and not seeking validation from anyone (especially females). But at the same time it is also important to have some friendship.

Part of living life is having relationships with other people. You want to experience and live life don’t you?

[RennieParticipant]

The friends I did have all crapped out in the end.

One I knew for the better part of 20 years and was in touch with through the internet and in real life on a regular basis and one I stayed in touch with through the internet for 12 years. In the last 4 years they both stopped putting any effort into maintaining the associations. I decided by Jan 1st 2016 – that they were done. I’m tired of doing all the work.

Grim- wrote:

What’s funny about that is I’m more likely to make friends with older men than men around my age. I don’t relate to other millennials at all.

I don’t relate to people my own age either. I can’t stand being around them. Their lifestyle is completely at odds with my own.

hmskl’d wrote:

The other night I cleared snow until well after midnight. Everything seems so beautifully bright against all the white drifts and snowbanks.
It’s awesome to be all alone and not to have friends around when moving snow at night

I know the feeling. So peaceful, so quiet, so surreal. Nothing compares to it. Some of my fondest memories have been those times.

I used to be afraid of the thought of being alone in the world, but I’m completely at peace with it now.

Grim- wrote:

My only problem with having friends my age, is that most people around my age are f~~~ing annoying. I’m 25, and most of my generation only cares about partying, women, and Justin Boober. Not to mention they’re mostly social justice warrior f~~~tards.

That’s how it is for me too. I hate all that stuff. They are the most depressing bunch.Believes the dumbest stuff. Does not care about anything that’s actually important. Lives on facebook, t~~~ter, instagram and smartphones and so on.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

I rather prefer kindred spirit to the term friend. Even harder to find.

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