Why is the feeling of being used so rewarding ?

[JavelinParticipant 167]

Hi lads. I’m a young man, slowly escaping from that blue world. I’ve been raised all my life to be a servant to the People. A hero Who forgets his own life to save others. All my f~~~ing family is like that. And they are so proud of it ! It makes me sick because they know they are used. But why are they ok with that ? I do not get it. With that in mind, You can understand how I’ve been raised and why sometimes I wanna join a fight and become an irl sjw. There is no rewards in that way of life. Yet, when I cannot resist the urge of helping people, I feel happy. But it is against the way I see life now. (Or wanna see)
My question is simple. Why is this feeling so strong in me ?

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[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

You should try to get your hands on some psychology literature. Siegmund Freud’s (of course a man) imsight of the “me”, the “myself” and the “over-me” will give you quite some idea. I’ll try to make it really short, your personality (the “over-me”) is defined by your very basic experiences in life. The most basic is the relation to your mother/parents. What they have tought you and especially what not, will define your self-recognition (the “myself”) for the rest of your life. All your “instincts” (which are actually basic childhood experiences) tell you (the “me”) acting heroic is good. This even triggers the brains reward Center, so this behaviour has to you the very same effect as heroine has to a drug addict.
That’s (in very general) why “it feels good”. Don’t worry,

MGTOW is not about hating women, it is about hating what feminism has made of them. Man have to change things for the better, as women can’t even see or believe the current ways are neither good for women or men.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[RoyDalParticipant]

@muglintar nailed it. Heed him.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

1st, GREAT TOPIC!

I like your name, I’m kinda partial, she’z been sitting in the garage/shops/ since 1982, a very faithful girl, and her name is Javelin, AMX-Z, 401 4spd posi, air induction, tictoc tac, rebel machine rally wheels with HD suspension pkg. She does wheelies better than I can get it up!

Big welcome Javelin!

The topic, after being a Bluepill in that regard. I have Family that are hypocritical (help all strangers heart and soul) I had the grand tune of being shunned after what equated to buying a building lot for them to build on, like family used to do in days of old.

I was shunned in 2012 over some nothing but emotional s~~~! It lasted 5 years, coinciding with the worst 10 years of my life (economy SLAM!) I went from 6 fig. to less than $100.00 a week, selling my personal property just to pay the credit card debt I accumulated with my back against the wall on a house that needed the entire roof finished, gables, rafters, decking, and shingles. Thousands and thousands in credit card dept to protect it from the elements, had we not (my cool brother) and I, the place would be beyond redemption today, being a Mnt. property subjected to sideways rain.

Busted my ASS 24/7 rebuilding and repairing everything from trucks to generators and snowmobiles plus selling my own inventory. For years I lived hand to mouth with all excesses going to the MOTHERF~~~ING bank and their high interest rates because I wasn’t a gov. C~~~ looking for a loan!
Loans for home equity all but dried up except for the well-to-do, Oh how f~~~ing nice!

The place has been on the market now for the last two years @ 1/2 the OVER ASSESSED value from the GREEDY MOTHERF~~~ING TAX ASSESSORS IN THE LAND OF VANISHING BUSINESS and disappearing homes.

We stopped paying the taxes and plan on burning it to lower our net value that can further be used against in the free lunch line that doesn’t actually exist. Better than living in Tent City I guess. Change sure did happen as promised!

The government has been expanding and gobbling everything up that not bolted down to keep the paychecks flowing for government imperialist workers while taxing the people that have none. They get paid no matter what!

My question to them? what are you going to do with all the rotted homes, or like the one we built that now must be turned to F~~~ING ASHES?

Back on topic if that’s^^^ off topic in any way.

Now I regret EVER BEING KIND AND NICE! Fortunes I once casted before swine that now think they’re a cut above the rest!

Feminism has had a tremendous SUCCESS! Every family now corroded and destroyed in their own narcissism and gleaming hypocrisy!

Family? Honestly? I don’t give a F~~~! Great place to get two faced knives stuck in your BACK!

I don’t even want to open the can of worms I live in where the standing law and order DEMANDS THAT I CEASE & DESIST! I would NUKE THE F~~~ING WORLD IF GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY!

EVERY OUNCE OF NICE-GUY YOU GIVE AWAY WILL COME BACK AS A KNIFE STUCK IN YOUR F~~~ING BACK!

This is the world feminism built and MAKE NO MISTAKE ABOUT IT!

I want a WOMAN like I WANT A KNIFE STUCK IN MY BACK!

As to your thread title “Why is the feeling of being used so rewarding”, my mind SAGS when I think of the fortunes I gave away in the name of family, neighborhood, and government! Now I couldn’t care less if they all turned up DEAD!

They’re getting the 10,000 year ice age from me. In EVERY WAY ALL THANKS TO THEIR NARCISSISTIC HYPOCRISY! THE LAST F~~~ING KNIFE TO EVER PROTRUDE FROM MY BACK!

Christmas ended on 2013. As far as I’m concerned there is no Christmas, Country, or Family. Thanks NARCO NAZI FEMINISM that TRADITION, GOD, FAMILY, AND COUNTRY IS DEAD AND F~~~ING GONE!

With all my heart; Hey Mizz modern strong independent woman, YOU’RE THE QUEEN OF DEATH! TIME TO F~~~ OFF AND DIE!

I have ZERO SYMPATHY for these SPIRITUAL beasts that call themselves women! THEY ARE VILE AND CARRY THE STENCH OF DEATH EVERYWHERE THEY GO!

The ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE IS VERY MUCH UPON US!

TRUST: DEAD
HONOR: DEAD
COMMITMENT:DEAD
MERCY: DEAD
FRIENDSHIP: DEAD
FAITH: DEAD
JOY: DEAD
PEACE: DEAD
TRADITION: DEAD
CHURCH: DEAD
COUNTRY: DEAD
GOD: DEAD
FEMINISM? ALIVE AND DOING WELL DRIVING THE WORLD STRAIGHT TO HELL!

MG-Tower? ALIVE AND DOING FINE IN OBEDIENCE TO WHAT THE SPIRIT IS TELLING ME TO DO.

Mother nature is a bitch, but you c~~~s out there have f~~~ed with FATHER TIME!

They’d have to move heaven and earth to get back into my good graces that no longer even exist!

How about a nice friendly game of Chess?

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Men are “conditioned” to be utility items by the blue pill indoctrination that we all experience being raised in the matrix.

Come here to be “re-conditioned” to be able to live your own life on your own terms.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

Some people just have a giveing heart.It can also give one a sense of porpose. The problem is that women wont appreciat or recipracate your efforts.

Limit who you give help to. Help other Men down on their luck. THEY will appreciate it.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Being used and giving of your free will are different.

If you have no boundaries, or fail to enforce your boundaries you are being used. If I loan a dollar to a co-work I have no intention of waiting to be payed back. I consider it gone when it left my hand. If I agree to help, I help. How I am treated during that help will determine if I help you again or not. If you we’re grateful I’ll do it again, if you were an ass then I won’t, but I was not used.
Compare that to this example.
I had a coworker who was well known for leaving his wallet behind and mooching on others. I was warned he did this so when he pulled that s~~~ with me I made sure we had separate cars. I said nope your problem adios and left him there to figure out his bill.
My life, my rules, my boundaries, I enforce them and I totally expect any MGTOW here to deal with me the same way. .

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

I used to be a ‘nice guy’. Not anymore.

Thanks to the red pill.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Retired librarian here. I suggest the book by Donald G. Smith titled THE JOY OF NEGATIVE THINKING. Smith tells you the necessity of saying “NO” to people who want your time, money and labor. He lists the characteristics of problem people that you should avoid. Amazon.com has copies, sometimes cheaper copies can be gotten by purchasing those that are used. Walgreen drugs sells Amazon gift cards to purchase it. I have no connection to Smith, Amazon, or the publisher.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Badger wrote:

Retired librarian here. I suggest the book by Donald G. Smith titled THE JOY OF NEGATIVE THINKING. Smith tells you the necessity of saying “NO” to people who want your time, money and labor. He lists the characteristics of problem people that you should avoid. Amazon.com has copies, sometimes cheaper copies can be gotten by purchasing those that are used. Walgreen drugs sells Amazon gift cards to purchase it. I have no connection to Smith, Amazon, or the publisher.

Very interesting, thank you.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

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