Why I feel like this place is important

[Mister Man SmithParticipant 285]

Hello everyone, I’ve just joined MGTOW.com and I wanted to introduce myself to the community by telling a little about myself.

I’ve just turned 30 years old last month, never been married and I don’t have any kids, thankfully, I’ve made this decision back in 2008 when I was just 22 since every girl I slept with around then started to immaterial talk about marriage and kids. Since I had done a lot of sleeping with a lot of women till that point, specially in my teenage years, when I got in my early 20’s I didn’t felt ready to stop the party just yet, I felt like I had time and there was no pointing in rushing myself to a marriage, but I still wanted that down the line.

So the decision I made in 2008 to not get married or have kids, it was just a temporary one, I had no idea about MGTOW and I never considered shutting that door for good.

As years went by I felt more and more that getting married wasn’t for me, for a while I couldn’t quite put my finger on it, why I felt this way? I thought I was just afraid of commitment and “growing up to be an adult with responsibilities” kind of thing.

When I got half way past my mid 20’s I suddenly started to get attention from women older than me, some even well in their 30’s already, at first I thought these were just some horny cougars looking for a young guy that could get it up and keep it up just to have some fun, but I quickly realised these were the most insisting on getting married, I remember one in particular that had what people call “baby rabbis” she really wanted a kid, and it looked like she wanted one right then at all cost, I remember asking her if she wanted me to get her pregnant so she could raise the baby on her own, to which she immaterially said no, she said she wanted to marry then have the kid.
Now a blue pill men at this point would probably just think she wanted to be an “honest woman”, in essence, a throw back to the past since she wasn’t anywhere near a virgin.
Lucky for me I was, what I would call today, a purple pill men. I knew that if I got married to her and made her pregnant she could pretty much retire right there, and I wasn’t going to have that.

When I finally decided getting married and having kids wasn’t for me, not then and not ever, I felt rather lonely, a bit like I was the only guy in the world doing this, I felt excluded, judged by society and in a way left out.
When I found MGTOW at the beginning of this year and started reading about other men experiences I finally come to the conclusion that what I did, by going my own way, was not only a valid move, it was the best move I could have done.

This is why I feel like sharing our experiences online is so important, and that is why I joined and I’m writing this right now, I bet right now in the world there’s no shortage of men tied by hands and feet wishing they could escape, not realising that they can, that they don’t have to let themselves be beaten down by pressures and shaming language.

mistermansmithmgtow.blogspot.com

[Anonymous 42]

Mister Man Smith wrote:

I had no idea about MGTOW and I never considered shutting that door for good

Same here brother, I welded that door shut with seamless bead of logic! Welcome to the welding shop!

[AttonParticipant]

I felt rather lonely, a bit like I was the only guy in the world doing this

You are not alone in that regard many men are just like you. I’ll be sure to check out your blog but I do hope to see you as a regular here.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[OracleSummonParticipant 179]

Welcome home and enjoy your stay.

You have dodged a bullet when it comes to “helping society” by getting married and producing children. Both are just a way to force men to benefit and contribute to society.

Just remember, to walk against society and to establish your own pay for yourself takes an insane amount of courage.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Brother,
Lots of fun stuff here.

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome Mr. Man Smith! You are a wise young Man who has dodged a bullet.

[Mister Man SmithParticipant 285]

Thank you everyone for your welcome.

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome Mr. Man Smith! You are a wise young Man who has dodged a bullet.

The more I think about my past (and I have been thinking a lot these last few weeks) the more I realise I dodged a hail of bullets!
It’s amazing how many things went over my head these past 10 years and I’m only now realizing they were full on frag grenades.

mistermansmithmgtow.blogspot.com

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Welcome, brother!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

This place is important because it is one of the few places a man can be honest without worry of immediate reprisal and censorship.

Keymaster made a good stage for us to talk on.

Also, barring a few crude comments and a some cursing, this is one of the cleanest forums I have been too. No flames, nor drama. Just reading people’s views on topics.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Welcome, man. Many of us feel the same way you do. So do a lot of guys, the public backlash for saying so is just not worth dealing with. Glad you dodged the bullets.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome !
child support is a heavier weight to carry than the pic that code-bunker posted !
enjoy brother !

( p.s. thanks code-bunker for the lovely picture..i’m about to settle down to sleep and if i dream about that…well, i can’t UN see it ..gonna go scrape my eyes a while ..comet or ajax ..hmmmm..decisions,decisions…) Hahahaha!

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Hitman wrote:

child support is a heavier weight to carry than the pic that code-bunker posted !

I dont know Hitman thats a lot of gluten butter grease im seeing there. Maybe a coin flip can decide?

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[VerityPhantomSpectator 263]

Most of my life I was the opposite of you, I was once a complete blue pill man that wanted nothing more than to get married and have kids etc… But one heart break after the other slowly eroded my capacity for love of women. I became bitter, I grew more jaded as time went on… It was like I was being forced upon a torture table and had red pill liquid intravenously pumped through my veins. Luckily for me I was always relatively a poor man so no female wanted to stay with me due to hypergamy. In a sick way, hypergamy saved my life. I am grateful I found MGTOW and I decided months ago that I never want a wife, I however, do want children. But I think ectogenesis is a ways off and surrogates are too costly for me at the moment. In any case, welcome brother! Look forward to seeing you in the forums.

[CrMo43Participant 30]

Welcome, brother – this is the place for understanding.

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