Why go MGTOW?

[DDJParticipant 1880]

This post is for those who are newer to the MGTOW philosophy or interested in learning about it. I felt since these forums show up on Google searches and are public, providing some public information might be useful.

Why go MGTOW?

Good Judgment advises against investing time or money in a liar, a cheat, or a thief.

The divorce rate is somewhere around 40%-50% and women initiate it 70%-80% of the time. Even if you’re a caring, considerate, and compassionate man, the odds are she will falsely accuse you of the crimes of Domestic Violence or Rape. However, because she accused you in civil court…you won’t get your constitutional right to an attorney, to remain silent, a jury trial of your peers, nor will anyone investigate the veracity of her allegation to determine whether or not criminal charges should be pressed. Most of the time…a police report is never filed.

But if you are accused in civil court, you will likely be found guilty. You will be required to pay your ex’s attorneys fees, be prevented from parenting your children and your personal and professional reputation will be forever be destroyed…because this goes on your permanent court record.

Speaking of your children…studies have found paternity fraud to up to 50%. This means that there’s a possibility the child your ex tells you is yours…isn’t. However, even though your woman committed fraud…which in every other type of law allows you to vacate any judgment or contract associated with it…you’ll still be considered the child’s father and you will still have to support the child created by your woman’s infidelity.

If the woman refuses to get a job…or if she makes significantly less than you…the court will order you to financially support her. In fact, they will give her the majority of your assets. She will be banging her new boyfriend in the home you bought; driving him around in the car you bought; and spending the retirement you earned on him.

Many men after divorce are left in poverty. Men make up the majority of America’s homeless.

Once men go through this, many fall into depression and commit suicide. The suicide risk for men rises 40% after a break up.

The above risks are real. Men are crucified and die every day because of lying, cheating, and stealing women.

So with this in mind, what’s a man to do?

Good Judgment tells to avoid investing our time or money in a liar, a cheat, or a thief.

Good judgment tells us to stop playing a rigged game.

Good Judgment tells us to go MGTOW.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Why go MGTOW?

Does it bother anyone else here that in this day and age this question still needs to be asked and the answer explained???

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Autolite wrote:

Does it bother anyone else here that in this day and age this question still needs to be asked and the answer explained???

It does seem like he is preaching to the choir–BUT remember we get a lot of guys ghosting the site–if might be useful to them. (And I might add to any tuna checking out the site—not that they would have the sense to act on intelligent advice, but you never know)

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Our posts are public and show up on Google searches. Further, even if someone doesn’t join the site or log in, they can still see what’s posted.

This post is directed at them.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Excellent post!

[AutoliteParticipant]

DDJ wrote:

Our posts are public and show up on Google searches. Further, even if someone doesn’t join the site or log in, they can still see what’s posted.

This post is directed at them.

Yeah, I understand that. I’m not saying that this stuff need not be posted. I’m just saying that it’s bothers me that it still needs to be posted.

With the internet and the social media, we are all the time hearing today about guys getting severely screwed in divorces and the profound anti-male biases of our legal system and society in general.

I was kinda hoping that by now, “marriage is a really bad idea for men” would be a universally acknowledged axiom…

[Anonymous 43]

stay the f~~~ away from women.

the woman I married was certifiably inf~~~ingsane.

starting with holes in the condoms and “forgot” to take her pill to daily accusation of f~~~ing every woman in the northern hemisphere, to stabbing me, beating me and the verbal assaults. police laughed at me, courts ignored me. pfft courts f~~~ed me raw. kids are poisoned, spent $200,000 on divorce, and I pay the c~~~ $650 a month. I make $32K she makes $150K. thanks mandatory 28% child support. she makes in 1 month gross as much as my yearly net pay.

yes read that again…she makes $13,000 a month gross. I make net 1200 a month, 14400 a year net. what I have left, 700 is rent. lol. I am so f~~~ed. I survive. I am allowed to live. last spring and summer I lived in a tent. then my net was $900 a month. a new cs ruling f~~~ed me and I was homeless, again. new job, making $300 a month more allows me to live in an apartment.

you still want to get married? you think divorce is so wonderful? f~~~ that.

$650 a month is a car payment for a Miata or a nice Honda Accord. $650 plus what I pay in rent now is a $130,000 house. the house the cops ordered me out of, 130 K, 1350 a month. 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage slice of suburban heaven.

I wish I never met the c~~~ that f~~~ed me up. I paid her bills, college debt, bought her a nice car, my parents helped with the house, I helped her with her mba, and raised the kids, I got f~~~ed by this bitch and the bitch judge. I refuse to pay more than I have to. I refuse to start another family, I refuse to participate in dating. f~~~ all of that straight to hell.

I refuse to help any woman do her job, defend her from physical attack, or even open a door. I will not be alone with a woman for more than 3 seconds. I keep furniture plus 3 feet between me and women. stay the f~~~ away from women, even in the same room.

women wonder where the nice men went? I was a nice man. I hear you coming, and I am gone the other way. I refuse to put up with the s~~~ tests, the insanity, the expenses and the accusations of infidelity, rape, domestic violence and incompetence. I was a nice man, I can’t sleep at night because the s~~~ I endured comes back when I close my eyes. I can’t sleep, I will be killed in my dreams, the c~~~ will finally kill me or I kill myself to escape this existence. every day I go to work expecting to be fired and arrested because the c~~~ makes something up. I have a court order ordering me to be employed.

yeah the sexy side of marriage and divorce. I am $300 away from being homeless. c~~~ can have me arrested whenever, and my kids were conditioned to hate me. some chad is sitting his ass on my couch watching s~~~ on my tv. f~~~ you you f~~~ing c~~~.

im not happy get out. last civil words she said to me.

she lied her ass off in court, my evidence was thrown out. she put 3 tracking devices on my car, chased me through town, almost ran me over 3 times. three private detectives that I caught, chad driving by my place 200 miles out of his way, listening devices in the kids stuff and stupid court complaints she didn’t show up for.

your special snowflake will do all this to you. wake the f~~~ up!

I moved 900 miles away from this s~~~, and it isn’t far enough away.

I strongly encourage you to dtb today dump that bitch. now. before you get the 18 year jackpot. get out now. marrying up your special snowflake is like giving yourself stage 4 cancer of 12 organs at the same time. you will be a dead man walking. like me, until may 7 2020, my younger daughter’s 18th birthday.

[UntamedParticipant]

Preach it, brother!
Had I known about MGTOW 25yrs ago I’d certainly wouldn’t have confused women with compassionate and nurturing human beings!
Why go MGTOW?
Because you owe it to yourself!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[WallyParticipant]

I think it’s good to keep posting this idea, some young man with questions will see this and it could save his life, I have seen a good mix in the forums of late, men talking about the joys of going their own way, hobbies, philosophy, some men posting in the mist of the red pill rage, and reminders such as this. The truth needs to be talked about often, because in other places it won’t.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

PistolPete wrote:

It does seem like he is preaching to the choir–BUT remember we get a lot of guys ghosting the site–if might be useful to them.

I think when you are just discovering MGTOW and starting to adopt some of it’s precepts, you need to say it out loud just to hear yourself say it. You are starting some soul searching with a new enlightenment. The enlightenment is like turning on light switch, it is sudden and abrupt, but navigating what it means to you and it’s effect on your life requires some deeper thinking and reflection. I have seen similar posts through-out the forum. I don’t think they are directed at others as much as they are meant for the OP who posted them. No harm here and if it helps others to hear someone think out-loud; it has value.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

FrostByte wrote:

PistolPete wrote:

It does seem like he is preaching to the choir–BUT remember we get a lot of guys ghosting the site–if might be useful to them.

I think when you are just discovering MGTOW and starting to adopt some of it’s precepts, you need to say it out loud just to hear yourself say it. You are starting some soul searching with a new enlightenment. The enlightenment is like turning on light switch, it is sudden and abrupt, but navigating what it means to you and it’s effect on your life requires some deeper thinking and reflection. I have seen similar posts through-out the forum. I don’t think they are directed at others as much as they are meant for the OP who posted them. No harm here and if it helps others to hear someone think out-loud; it has value.

I think we all post our thoughts. However, in this case, I’m not projecting. I’m describing most men’s experience after working in the family law industry for over 10 years.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

DDJ wrote:

I’m describing most men’s experience after working in the family law industry for over 10 years.

Such knowledge is in demand here.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Anonymous wrote:

I strongly encourage you to dtb today dump that bitch. now. before you get the 18 year jackpot. get out now. marrying up your special snowflake is like giving yourself stage 4 cancer of 12 organs at the same time. you will be a dead man walking. like me, until may 7 2020, my younger daughter’s 18th birthday.

I hope that ill be on the internet on this form on that day.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[bladeParticipant]

I have no heart because it was torn out threw my arsehole in family court . Lurkers have a think about whats in a marriage contract/slave contract for you . Perjury is allowed by woman and lawyers in family court . The family court don’t run by the law they run on what suits them . Don’t get your hopes up when you think you have good evidence or think the judge is on your side . These motherf~~~ers have get togethers for the best way they can suck the most money out of you . Example …. Australian. … Family law practitioners association. …i tell every man not to get there hopes up due to the fall that hits you when you get your order in the mail after your trail .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Anonymous wrote:

stay the f~~~ away from women.

the woman I married was certifiably inf~~~ingsane.

starting with holes in the condoms and “forgot” to take her pill to daily accusation of f~~~ing every woman in the northern hemisphere, to stabbing me, beating me and the verbal assaults. police laughed at me, courts ignored me. pfft courts f~~~ed me raw. kids are poisoned, spent $200,000 on divorce, and I pay the c~~~ $650 a month. I make $32K she makes $150K. thanks mandatory 28% child support. she makes in 1 month gross as much as my yearly net pay.

yes read that again…she makes $13,000 a month gross. I make net 1200 a month, 14400 a year net. what I have left, 700 is rent. lol. I am so f~~~ed. I survive. I am allowed to live. last spring and summer I lived in a tent. then my net was $900 a month. a new cs ruling f~~~ed me and I was homeless, again. new job, making $300 a month more allows me to live in an apartment.

you still want to get married? you think divorce is so wonderful? f~~~ that.

$650 a month is a car payment for a Miata or a nice Honda Accord. $650 plus what I pay in rent now is a $130,000 house. the house the cops ordered me out of, 130 K, 1350 a month. 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage slice of suburban heaven.

I wish I never met the c~~~ that f~~~ed me up. I paid her bills, college debt, bought her a nice car, my parents helped with the house, I helped her with her mba, and raised the kids, I got f~~~ed by this bitch and the bitch judge. I refuse to pay more than I have to. I refuse to start another family, I refuse to participate in dating. f~~~ all of that straight to hell.

I refuse to help any woman do her job, defend her from physical attack, or even open a door. I will not be alone with a woman for more than 3 seconds. I keep furniture plus 3 feet between me and women. stay the f~~~ away from women, even in the same room.

women wonder where the nice men went? I was a nice man. I hear you coming, and I am gone the other way. I refuse to put up with the s~~~ tests, the insanity, the expenses and the accusations of infidelity, rape, domestic violence and incompetence. I was a nice man, I can’t sleep at night because the s~~~ I endured comes back when I close my eyes. I can’t sleep, I will be killed in my dreams, the c~~~ will finally kill me or I kill myself to escape this existence. every day I go to work expecting to be fired and arrested because the c~~~ makes something up. I have a court order ordering me to be employed.

yeah the sexy side of marriage and divorce. I am $300 away from being homeless. c~~~ can have me arrested whenever, and my kids were conditioned to hate me. some chad is sitting his ass on my couch watching s~~~ on my tv. f~~~ you you f~~~ing c~~~.

im not happy get out. last civil words she said to me.

she lied her ass off in court, my evidence was thrown out. she put 3 tracking devices on my car, chased me through town, almost ran me over 3 times. three private detectives that I caught, chad driving by my place 200 miles out of his way, listening devices in the kids stuff and stupid court complaints she didn’t show up for.

your special snowflake will do all this to you. wake the f~~~ up!

I moved 900 miles away from this s~~~, and it isn’t far enough away.

I strongly encourage you to dtb today dump that bitch. now. before you get the 18 year jackpot. get out now. marrying up your special snowflake is like giving yourself stage 4 cancer of 12 organs at the same time. you will be a dead man walking. like me, until may 7 2020, my younger daughter’s 18th birthday.

This needs to be on some red pill front page, you Sir roasted this post and because of it my red pill meter is off the charts.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 5]

Anonymous wrote:

stay the f~~~ away from women.

the woman I married was certifiably inf~~~ingsane.

starting with holes in the condoms and “forgot” to take her pill to daily accusation of f~~~ing every woman in the northern hemisphere, to stabbing me, beating me and the verbal assaults. police laughed at me, courts ignored me. pfft courts f~~~ed me raw. kids are poisoned, spent $200,000 on divorce, and I pay the c~~~ $650 a month. I make $32K she makes $150K. thanks mandatory 28% child support. she makes in 1 month gross as much as my yearly net pay.

yes read that again…she makes $13,000 a month gross. I make net 1200 a month, 14400 a year net. what I have left, 700 is rent. lol. I am so f~~~ed. I survive. I am allowed to live. last spring and summer I lived in a tent. then my net was $900 a month. a new cs ruling f~~~ed me and I was homeless, again. new job, making $300 a month more allows me to live in an apartment.

you still want to get married? you think divorce is so wonderful? f~~~ that.

$650 a month is a car payment for a Miata or a nice Honda Accord. $650 plus what I pay in rent now is a $130,000 house. the house the cops ordered me out of, 130 K, 1350 a month. 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage slice of suburban heaven.

I wish I never met the c~~~ that f~~~ed me up. I paid her bills, college debt, bought her a nice car, my parents helped with the house, I helped her with her mba, and raised the kids, I got f~~~ed by this bitch and the bitch judge. I refuse to pay more than I have to. I refuse to start another family, I refuse to participate in dating. f~~~ all of that straight to hell.

I refuse to help any woman do her job, defend her from physical attack, or even open a door. I will not be alone with a woman for more than 3 seconds. I keep furniture plus 3 feet between me and women. stay the f~~~ away from women, even in the same room.

women wonder where the nice men went? I was a nice man. I hear you coming, and I am gone the other way. I refuse to put up with the s~~~ tests, the insanity, the expenses and the accusations of infidelity, rape, domestic violence and incompetence. I was a nice man, I can’t sleep at night because the s~~~ I endured comes back when I close my eyes. I can’t sleep, I will be killed in my dreams, the c~~~ will finally kill me or I kill myself to escape this existence. every day I go to work expecting to be fired and arrested because the c~~~ makes something up. I have a court order ordering me to be employed.

yeah the sexy side of marriage and divorce. I am $300 away from being homeless. c~~~ can have me arrested whenever, and my kids were conditioned to hate me. some chad is sitting his ass on my couch watching s~~~ on my tv. f~~~ you you f~~~ing c~~~.

im not happy get out. last civil words she said to me.

she lied her ass off in court, my evidence was thrown out. she put 3 tracking devices on my car, chased me through town, almost ran me over 3 times. three private detectives that I caught, chad driving by my place 200 miles out of his way, listening devices in the kids stuff and stupid court complaints she didn’t show up for.

your special snowflake will do all this to you. wake the f~~~ up!

I moved 900 miles away from this s~~~, and it isn’t far enough away.

I strongly encourage you to dtb today dump that bitch. now. before you get the 18 year jackpot. get out now. marrying up your special snowflake is like giving yourself stage 4 cancer of 12 organs at the same time. you will be a dead man walking. like me, until may 7 2020, my younger daughter’s 18th birthday.

Dude, what the f~~~ing f~~~! When I read your post, I literally had to stop, and take a breath. How can a person be so ungrateful, and evil? Your story is THE worst, I’ve ever read.

Thank God, at only 23, I’ve discovered MGTOW.

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