Why female flirting disgusts me

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

When women flirt it is just a device to build their fragile egos at the expense of the poor guy who falls for it. The truth is that that the definition of flirting is to sexually arouse men with the impression that she wants to have sex with them by dressing like whores and acting like a slut. This inflates her female ego. The cruelty is the fact that after getting the man’s attention is that she denies his advances and moves onto her next victim. The classical definition of c~~~ teasing.
The tragedy beyond the pain this causes men is the fact that some angry men go beyond the pain of being played and will perpetrate violence, such as rape, on the their female tormentor. This is not in any way a justification of rape or violence against women but the media and movies that reports on such cases never warns women that women who are engaging in such behavior are in part responsible for the consequences. If you mess with the bull, you get the horns.

[Anonymous 3]

The mixed signals and leading men on are the most toxic thing modern women do, and I think a major reason why good men are repelled and become MGTOW.

It is impossible to tell the difference between a women that is uninterested and is leading a man on, a woman that is interested but isn’t going to make a move, a woman that is interested and will seek a relationship over time but again will not do that herself but expects to be pursued, and a woman that is uninterested and is completely unreceptive to any pursuing by a man.

So what happens after time is a lot of men do drop out and don’t waste their time flirting or pursuing, especially with today’s legal climate. Hence why online began to take off, and online is very poor compared to meeting a person first, having an attraction and getting to know a little but about them first.

Traditionally most relationships sprung from social circles and from in-person. Sometimes at work, usually during college. But most women today don’t even seek anything in college. Personally I found the most success through parties, and a little bit with women approaching me while I was around, but again mostly while I was younger. As I got older I refused to take any of these risks. And even with my “success” I had had many, many, many instances of women just playing games and just looking for attention. When my sex drive diminished in my 30s I didn’t care anymore to filter through it, I only cared enough in my 20s because of my sex drive and the fact that there were enough women that had raw sexual attraction to me to not just bulls~~~ that way.

I may or may not have posted this, but I’ve found that the more serious women approach in groups. Usually of 3-4 or so. Those are the women that actually want sex. Sometimes 2, sometimes 5. It gets a bit troublesome with more, but hey when you’re young you’re young and you can pull it off. Individually, most women aren’t interested, although there are some rare exceptions.

[CUNTHATERParticipant 324]

“dressing like whores and acting like a slut.”

C~~~: “Why do men just see women as sex objects?”…..”I’m more than a trophy wife.”……..”Why is he staring at me?”…..”I’m more interested in a guy’s sense of humor and personality.” (after the c~~~ spends hours looking at herself on the mirror)

American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Anonymous wrote:

The mixed signals and leading men on are the most toxic thing modern women do, and I think a <nobr>major reason</nobr> why good men are repelled and become MGTOW.

It is impossible to tell the difference between a women that is uninterested and is leading a man on, a woman that is interested but isn’t going to make a move, a woman that is interested and will seek a relationship over time but again will not do that herself but expects to be pursued, and a woman that is uninterested and is completely unreceptive to any pursuing by a man.

Phoenix, we don’t often agree but we are in complete agreement on the toxicity of female flirting.

[Anonymous 1]

Women flirt for many reasons and there is no way of knowing what those reasons are unless you reciprocate.

Most of the time it is has absolutely nothing to do with You, but your average blue pill will allow it to go straight to his head and covet it like some sort of trophy.

Some blue pills take a female being polite as sexual interest, but that’s only because so many women these days are rude and obnoxious towards them.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I used to let my XW dress sexy and flirt when I was around (as long as it doesn’t involve any touching) because were were clubbing a lot and I know she craved attention and missed flirting, so I thought it could be a safe way for her to channel her slut. And it was. I even liked it, since men envied me for having a somewhat hot and feisty russian wife.
But that obviously didn’t stop there in the end. But what can you do? Lock her at home and make her wear a burka? Nothing much really. IF there is no penalty – an inner slut will always find a way to actualize one day or the other.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 42]

Flirting can lead to f~~~ing, in a moment of weakness you could be f~~~ing some flirtatious dude’s wife.

Best to shut that s~~~ down before it even starts.

Chicks that flirt can find themselves being tempted back and pulled into something they never planned.

I think they do it to get excited, like a fisherman jerking his line to get the fish to bite.

A woman flirting is a woman that’s gone fishing for a man…

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Russky wrote:

I used to let my XW dress sexy and flirt when I was around (as long as it doesn’t involve any touching) because were were clubbing a lot and I know she craved attention and missed flirting, so I thought it could be a safe way for her to channel her slut. And it was. I even liked it, since men envied me for having a somewhat hot and feisty russian wife.
But that obviously didn’t stop there in the end. But what can you do? Lock her at home and make her wear a burka? Nothing much really. IF there is no penalty – an inner slut will always find a way to actualize one day or the other.

Accepting a spouse flirting is just another form of blue pill behavior. I want no part of a woman who requires male attention other than own my by c~~~ teasing other men. It sends a signal that I am not enough man for her.
No I do not advocate “locking her up in the cellar” as their is no way to stop a woman from stopping her slutty behavior. The only thing a man can do is to just walk away from such sluts or not get involved with them to begin with.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Flirting has three potential purposes:

1) to boost one’s ego and increase one’s market value

2) to secure favorable treatment

3) to indicate sexual attraction or lure someone into making a pass

Most of the time we flirt for the first two reasons… to attract attention and boost our ego or to receive (or avoid) something through the hint of the promise of sexual availability. Men and women both do this… it sort of greases the wheels of polite society and can be fun and healthy.

It’s the third purpose that can be problematic and it’s here I think the real gender difference lies. When men flirt for the purpose of indicating sexual desire, it’s usually direct, honest and unmistakable. If a guy wants to f~~~ he’s going to flirt with his target and try to get them in the mood to get it on… and if it works, it’s on.

Of course some women flirt to get sex. Women, however, will often use the ssme level of flirting the way a matador uses a red cape… to lure a man into committing to an unmistakable pass and then denying him a hit on target.

And why do they do this? To fulfill the first two objectives I mentioned earlier. Women either do not realize or do not care that they have crossed the line from casual social flirting into direct sexual flirting and they appear to have no compunction about using the more powerful version for those same goals.

This is weaponized flirting. A woman will lead a man right up to the point of intercourse with no intention of committing to the act then sweep the cape aside to reveal a spear… and men fall for it over and over and over again until those spears result in his destruction.

This level of cruelty associated with getting what one wants is unique to women. I can think of no man who would ever treat a woman like this in order to boost his own ego or get her to expend resources on him. It just doesn’t happen. But we’ve all experienced women using sex as a weapon.

So why do we still fall for it? Again, I have to blame the “poor fool” who gets hurt by such an obvious and common scam. Women are what they are and we certainly aren’t going to be able to change them… but we can change ourselves and help each other to recognize and avoid these behaviors so as to save themselves.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Anonymous wrote:

But most women today don’t even seek anything in college.

Haha…if I had a dollar for every time I heard some woman say something to the effect of “But that was when I was in college” trying to justify past sluttery…I’d be quite wealthy.

I don’t think they get it…you can’t just go from spending pretty much a solid decade acting like a complete slut to all of the sudden just converting into wifey material…it doesn’t work that way. You aren’t who you say you are…you are a sum of how you lived your life.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I wish people would just be honest.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Women are fundamentally insecure and need constant affirmation of their (perceived) value. When women try to get your attention, it’s for her, not for you.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

bobphilo wrote:

This inflates her female ego.

Only if the man responds to it.

I find female attempts at flirting amusing. They’re all so bad at it. And the growing frustration they feel as I continue to fail to respond is hilarious.

Anonymous wrote:

in a moment of weakness you could be f~~~ing some flirtatious dude’s wife.

I’ve seen a LOT of already attached women flirt with other men just to start jealous fights between that poor unsuspecting chump and their overly aggressive blue pill thug boyfriends or husbands. They get off on being fought over.

Ignoring flirting from women is ALWAYS the correct response. And it’s amusing as hell. See above.

[Anonymous 22]

sidecar wrote:

I’ve seen a LOT of already attached women flirt with other men just to start jealous fights between that poor unsuspecting chump and their overly aggressive blue pill thug boyfriends or husbands. They get off on being fought over.

Ignoring flirting from women is ALWAYS the correct response. And it’s amusing as hell. See above.

100% agree with this. I’ve seen this a million plus one times. The funny thing is that the men the bitches are with don’t seem to notice or care about the c~~~s behavior in any way.

That is what puzzles me.

[Anonymous 42]

What would happen in Derka Derkastan if a wife flirted with another man?

I’ll give you one guess…

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

sidecar wrote:

I’ve seen a LOT of already attached women flirt with other men just to start jealous fights between that poor unsuspecting chump and their overly aggressive blue pill thug boyfriends or husbands. They get off on being fought over.

Ignoring flirting from women is ALWAYS the correct response. And it’s amusing as hell. See above.

100% agree with this. I’ve seen this a million plus one times. The funny thing is that the men the bitches are with don’t seem to notice or care about the c~~~s behavior in any way.

That is what puzzles me.

Yeah, funny what a constant intake of blue pills can do to a guy.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Anonymous wrote:

100% agree with this. I’ve seen this a million plus one times. The funny thing is that the men the bitches are with don’t seem to notice or care about the c~~~s behavior in any way.

That is what puzzles me.

I’ve mentioned before how I’ve moved home and I’m back in school to learn to take over a family business my parents started. Good opportunity for me. the other night a friend sent me an article from Huffpost (of all places) about how most second marriages end in divorce. I was talking with my mom about it and I also mentioned that he had sent another article to me a while back about how 72% of married women cheat. Now I’m not claiming my mom is a NAWALT but after a life time I can honestly say she’s at least the closest I’ve seen. And when I was younger she did try to warn me about the true nature of women. anyway, in her business she’s dealt with many wealthy clients and she was telling me that her impression is that wealthy men who have trophy wives often are fully aware that the wife is unfaithful and consciously turn a blind eye to it. In the end what is important to them is having the arm candy to take to parties and business dinners. And I said, well if they can live like that I guess that is their choice but I don’t think I could live that way.

[Anonymous 22]

Point Of No Return wrote:

Yeah, funny what a constant intake of blue pills can do to a guy.

Pussy is more important to them than anything else. If those idiots had a functional brain, they would realize they could get what they want for a few bucks.

Here in Thailand, literally 10 US dollars. Never been into paying for sex myself, but getting laid is easier than snapping a f~~~ing finger. They’re deluded. F~~~ing assholes. They’re so desperate they’re making all men look bad.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Women like to flirt with men that they secretly want nothing to do with.

There c~~~s.

How defused it, is to ask for her number, she freaks out, and gets awkward, then the bulls~~~ will stop. It works perfectly.

C~~~ that was flirting with me, i sent a friend requests, she rejected it, so now her bulls~~~ should stop. Hopefully.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 22]

Jack Harper wrote:

Now I’m not claiming my mom is a NAWALT but after a life time I can honestly say she’s at least the closest I’ve seen.

There are NAWALTS. Personally, I have never believed in that f~~~ing AWALT bulls~~~. How the hell can anyone know all 3 BILLION+ women? It’s not possible.

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