Why do women perfer assholes/bad boys

[EskimospyParticipant 841]

Women tend to assume that a man who is nice to her is hiding something, that he is nice to her not because he’s simply a nice person and raised well, but because he has a secret agenda in his mind, particularly for sex. Women tend to believe that the only reason a guy is nice and polite to her is because he’s trying to get into her pants. Now while that is true of many men, there are also many men who are simply nice people. It’s just in their nature to be nice. But women assume that men are all the same and because some men have been nice to get laid then ALL men are being nice just to get laid. To her him being nice is living a lie.
That bad boy in her eyes when he’s being a bad ass, he’s being the most honest. He makes no apologies, does what he wants, says what he wants and doesn’t give a damn what anyone thinks. If he likes her curves, her ass, her t~~~, he’ll tell her. He won’t cover it with euphemisms such as “you’re beautiful”. To her when it comes to bad boys he hides nothing of himself and to her it’s a show of strength and confidence and a chance for some added drama. Perfect for a woman.
The downside for the woman is that these bad boys are self interested and would rather look after themselves then her. Eventually it leads to him betraying her in some way or another. She takes one bad boy after another in her lifetime until she becomes fed up with men entirely. And of course who does she lash out at? Why the ordinary everyday nice guy of course. It’s stuff like this that drove me to become MGTOW.

[sidecarParticipant 35854]

Bad boys are not really a thing. “Bad boy” is just a label women apply to men to whom they are attracted but who don’t do the things those women want them to.

The only difference between a “bad boy” and a “loser” is whether or not the woman calling him that wants to f~~~ him. It has nothing to do with the man himself.

[DarkThunder30Participant 201]

Eskimospy wrote:

Women tend to assume that a man who is nice to her is hiding something, that he is nice to her not because he’s simply a nice person and raised well, but because he has a secret agenda in his mind, particularly for sex. Women tend to believe that the only reason a guy is nice and polite to her is because he’s trying to get into her pants. Now while that is true of many men, there are also many men who are simply nice people. It’s just in their nature to be nice. But women assume that men are all the same and because some men have been nice to get laid then ALL men are being nice just to get laid. To her him being nice is living a lie.
That bad boy in her eyes when he’s being a bad ass, he’s being the most honest. He makes no apologies, does what he wants, says what he wants and doesn’t give a damn what anyone thinks. If he likes her curves, her ass, her t~~~, he’ll tell her. He won’t cover it with euphemisms such as “you’re beautiful”. To her when it comes to bad boys he hides nothing of himself and to her it’s a show of strength and confidence and a chance for some added drama. Perfect for a woman.
The downside for the woman is that these bad boys are self interested and would rather look after themselves then her. Eventually it leads to him betraying her in some way or another. She takes one bad boy after another in her lifetime until she becomes fed up with men entirely. And of course who does she lash out at? Why the ordinary everyday nice guy of course. It’s stuff like this that drove me to become MGTOW.

This is true these bad boys usually end up cheating on them and then are single with a kid and expect a good man to save them.

These Women deserve nothing for their stupid decisions.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Like many others have said, it’s hard wired into their brains. The bad boy is a challenge – someone they can try to “tame”. He projects an attitude of “I don’t give a s~~~”- I have more pussy elsewhere – I don’t need you. The ladies feel if they can get him to pay attention to only her – she’s “special”. These same t~~~s cry foul later when the bad boy asshole dumps her ass.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Kaido-

I have seen the same thing. When I was a nice guy, I was a human doormat. Once I began ignoring ladies, they suddenly were everywhere.
I initially was very surprised by their behavior.

I came to understand that Hypergamy is real. Hybristophilia is real.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

Women like [assholes,dicks and bad boys] because they know what there real worth is deep down inside.

When a man is being a nice guy to them they feel that they are being lied to and deceived by someone that can not see reality; and therefor the nice guy is worth only very little to their self esteem. Simple.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

FrostByte wrote:

A simp doesn’t overreact if they react at all. No tears, no screaming in the phone, no stalking their email. Manginas are boring to woman.

This is were you are wrong the manginas are the ones who go and cry tears over chicks the assholes are the ones who do cause drama however they have better things to do then call women unless they need something.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Anonymous 3]

Eh, I’m a nice guy and I’ve always had an easy time with women. I don’t want anything to do with them whatsoever, but I primarily hooked up with models when I did. A bunch of my friends are married or dating models and actresses now, and they are all really good dudes. Not a one could be considered an “asshole” or “bad boy”. Incomes also range from the low end to the high end.

I really don’t think that’s it. I think this is excuse making by men that have poor self esteem, are secretly blue pill men that pedestal women, or are physically unattractive to the point that women are repelled by them.

Women are easy. The vast majority of MGTOW do not have a problem attracting women.

If you do, then you need to figure out what your problem is, and why you’re obsessing over women. In fact, the two things are most likely directly related.

[Anonymous 22]

Eskimospy wrote:

Women tend to believe that the only reason a guy is nice and polite to her is because he’s trying to get into her pants.

That is their own problem. I’m sure it must p~~~ them off that they can’t trust anyone (even other women), but I don’t care because the whole problem was created by women anyway.

[experiencedParticipant]

StandUpGuy wrote:

someone that can not see reality

Great angle! Only a moron would not see thru to the real deal at hand.

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