Why do men get married?

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

We know that men are conned into marriage but in their own mind, why do you think men usually get married? Because they don’t want to lose her? Because it’s tradition?

Don't care

[Anonymous 42]

Why do men get married?

You’re asking the wrong guy the right question!

Because they’re STUPID!

[bladeParticipant]

Because they beleave they are going to be together forevermore and have a house with a white picket fence , couple of kids like a 1960’s episode of bewitched

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[UntamedParticipant]

I got married because I thought that’s life, that’s what men and women are supposed to do if they want to raise a family together. I thought I find me a woman who lights my fires, make babies, raise a family and work to support it all… three centuries too late I guess.
Now that I look back on it I realize how naive that was given the state of the world.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[joetechParticipant]

Why do men get married today? Stupidity, naievity, or both.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Untamed wrote:

I got married because I thought that’s life, that’s what men and women are supposed to do if they want to raise a family together. I thought I find me a woman who lights my fires, make babies, raise a family and work to support it all… three centuries too late I guess.
Now that I look back on it I realize how naive that was given the state of the world.

Ditto. I would add in my situation that my cupcake was a successful business person. I really thought I was marrying my equal. Yeah, I was wrong….

Order the good wine

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Promise of sex, a home and family.

Like when a sellsman sells you some s~~~ you don’t need.

We are that stupid.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Because I didn’t know any damned better. Because I thought that was life.

Naïve and brainwashed.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

What carnage said, but also because there are a lot of men out there afraid of being alone, and rather than using that solitude to fortify themselves and their place in the world they waste it on some f~~~ing c~~~ who over time will never love him the same way again, deprive him of sex, and make him a miserable debt slave until he dies.

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[UntamedParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

Ditto. I would add in my situation that my cupcake was a successful business person. I really thought I was marrying my equal. Yeah, I was wrong….

I didn’t look for an equal. I didn’t care about whether she’d be at my level, above or below, I only wanted a decent person, starting with common courtesy. Mine worked at a bank. I really thought she was professional, friendly, smart, hard working… Little did I know I was projecting. She only looked smart and friendly.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[AutoliteParticipant]

Why do men get married?

It’s an ego thing. Guys like to think that they’re smarter or better than all those ‘other guys’ who failed at marriage. Also, they will think that they’re a good person and because they’re a good person they won’t get f~~~ed over.

Reality says different but a lot of guys just have a problem with accepting and acknowledging reality because it’s counter what they want to believe to be true. It’s quite common for many guys to accept what they want to be true over reality…

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

Because women are excellent snake oil salesmen.

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Many great answers all correct, one hit a note the ego thing I know a few big heads who married several times and got f~~~ed over several times.

Others its they have seen happy families “Acted ” possibly in theor family , others its what “You think you should do” there are many reasons , but marriage is a poor deal for a man.

I do feel for the guys who have seen successful marriages and had great upbringings, how can they believe its not true ?

The “Knowledge about women ” seems to be gaining traction these days though.

The Blue Pill guys on FB are amazing to see, hard to believe at times.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Buller100 wrote:

Many great answers all correct, one hit a note the ego thing I know a few big heads who married several times and got f~~~ed over several times.

I’ve seen the exact same thing. Guys will get married/divorced multiple times rather than admit that they were wrong about women.

For this type of person, admitting that they are wrong about something is more devastating than get f~~~ed over several times. It’s weird, but there it is…

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Because he believed he was doing the right thing.
Because he didn’t read the fine print.
Because he got tired of chasing ass.
Because he was told he wasn’t a man until he did.
Because she he got her pregnant and wanted to see his child.
Because she lied to him.
Because he felt he wasn’t going to do any better.
Because he wanted to show maturity and responsibility.
Because his parents said it was his duty.
Because society played a dirty trick on him.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[narwhalParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

It’s an ego thing. Guys like to think that they’re smarter or better than all those ‘other guys’ who failed at marriage. Also, they will think that they’re a good person and because they’re a good person they won’t get f~~~ed over.
Reality says different but a lot of guys just have a problem with accepting and acknowledging reality because it’s counter what they want to believe to be true. It’s quite common for many guys to accept what they want to be true over reality…

It’s not quite that straight forward. I absolutely thought it wouldn’t happen to me, but not because I thought I was smarter or ‘more good’ then the next guy. It wasn’t an ego think. I thought I would recognize the signs and be able to make adjustments.

In many ways I was right. Where I was dead wrong was in my assumption that she would be in her level of tolerance in dealing with problems, in how quickly she would bail. I misunderstood how willing she would be to leave for the cash and prizes. Mostly, I misunderstood her ability to interpret reality in such a way to justify whatever she wanted to do.

Ok. Then do it.

[AutoliteParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

I thought I would recognize the signs and be able to make adjustments.

But what about all those ‘other guys’ with failed marriages? Do you not think that they felt the same?

All guys like to think that they’re in control and that they’ve got a handle on the situation. And they’re all deluding themselves…

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Men get married because society requires it. There would be no society if there were no families, no matter how dysfunctional, or any children. The entire world economy is based on you wanting to buy something to attract a mate and/or keep a mate. It is basic biological programming. You buy a house, clothes, car, or meals for this reason.

We get married to ensure that we have constant access to our future children. We get married to ensure fidelity, that these are our children and not someone else’s. We want to instill our beliefs, knowledge, possessions, and history in them. We want to ensure that they survive into adulthood.

To further elaborate,

Today, the biological imperative remains, but is at odds with the societal paradigm. Men still want to have children, but society is making the construct of marriage a toxic ground. From this conflict arose MGTOW.

This is why society is against MGTOW. It offers an alternative to the biological imperative that society is based on. It is sort of an ‘Atlas Shrugged’ style removal of input and participation. Society and the economy stumble when they can’t entice you to buy jewelry, cars, houses, or clothes to impress the opposite sex. “Every kiss my ass begins with K…”

So to answer your question as to why men get married, it’s because we are biologically and socially conditioned to care about the well being of our offspring. We want to ensure that they will be able to perpetuate our lineage.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[jacktores69Participant 0]

for all those men that are commenting negatively about why men get married and say they are stupid? look at your own life and be honest with yourself and ask your self “why didn’t I get married?” you cant, know women will except you, you looks, your attitude, maybe you sit at home all day and play xbox, no car, no job, or maybe you live at home with your mommy lol so don’t sit there and say we are stupid because you cant get no women. Ive seen your type before, short, ugly, no game, big thick ass glasses and obese, bald, don’t get me wrong bald is beautiful but some of ya’ll cant pull it off like others can. I have friends that have never been married. I can see why LOOK AT YOU! no women would want to get with you looking like that. You may have a nice car but you need to work on your looks, go to the gym, go out do something.

[Bob DylanParticipant 1352]

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