Why Are Women So F*ucking Hard To Understand? Is There A Perfect Answer To This?

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

I have been married to my ex wife for 12 years before I got divorced.  I tried to understand why she acted the way she acted.  I always wished some one gave me a perfect answer why women act the way they act.  What is the core cause that makes them act so crazy, emotional, needy, selfish, untrustworthy…..list goes on.  Is there some one on this forum that once in for all answer this question.  Why do women act the way they act?  Is there a good explanation for their irrational personalities.  I hope I can get an answer that I can print it and post in on my wall so I never forget.

Here are some quotes I found online.

“I agree. It seems to me that the “Women is hard to understand” stems from them thinking more emotionally than logically about things, where as men are much more logical. This means a woman will be more illogical and therefore erratic.”

But once you understand this, together with their higher levels of narcissism/attention seeking and hypergamy, you have mapped the general women quite well.

But of course women remain a mystery because what I said is uncomfortable for women to hear, and therefore politically incorrect.
“first we should destroy the manginas whom always look in a females perspective.so for sex only we have to give all the rights and get s~~~ on our heads.why women dont need sex?look how well they act and get what they want. we gotta play the same game.what ever u prioritize u dont get.what ever u dont care much u get.think guys.women cant live without attention.they will come to u.dont go for them.make them come to u.”

“Women have been going their own way for the past 40 years or so. They have sex with whom they want, they marry and divorce whenever they want and they let their partners and husbands dance to their tune if they want. So MGTOW is just catching up with them.”

“Comments seem to push the idea men should just keep working themselves to death. Sure that’s right.. Be successful according to female standards so you can pay taxes and support chicks that hate you. Oh wait, that’s still going their way.”

“Here’s another thought to chew on. Who does all the hard and dirty jobs in society – street cleaner, dustmen, farmworker, firefighter, pest controller, builder’s labourer? Who cleans up the s~~~ and rescues people after natural disasters? How many women are in the ranks of these workers? Another MGTOW tenet. MGTOW guys should REFUSE TO DO THESE JOBS, TOO. As well as refusing the military and refusing to sav e anyone. Except where the payoff is huge (financially, that is.)”

“Funny, as the govt is making more women work harder for more taxation, us men are leaving in droves. Not only are we not getting into relationships, but we are only working EXACTLY as much as we need to get by, AKA less taxes. Can’t wait to see what happens!”

“get into a relationship with a woman and say/do one wrong thing: you pay (false rape accusations)”

“imagine how much men could achieve if they disregarded women entirely”

[SamMGTOWParticipant 95]

Your ex wife was like that for 12 years for a simple reason. You allowed it. Women are only as irrational, emotional, selfish, untrustworthy, and needy as you allow them to be. When you say no thanks, you’ll find that they’ll come crawling back to you.

Doesn’t matter why though. All that matters is that they all do, and when they do its time to eject that bitch from your life.
Absolutely, I remember when I was considering going into professions like the military, policing, and the law. Not anymore thanks. More than happy with what I make now, better than be a tax slave to the government and ATM for a woman.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Wow, great answer @sammgtow, thanks for sharing.  Yes, I agree, I have allowed it to happen for 12 years because I was blinded by the pussy and the looks but now I can see.  I am never ever going to be blind again.  I am happy being single forever.  What does not kill you make you stronger.  I am stronger then ever.  Have a fantastic day.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Just to clarify, I SHOULD NEVER EVER TRY TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN, IT’S POINT LESS WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY.  Did I get this right?  Please advise.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Sam’s answer the first thing I thought of , but there another answer: There’s nothing to understand.

Nothing to figure out.

Women are no mystery. They’re an algorithm.

Why would you even want to try and understand the sex that changes it’s mind of a whim? Based on that alone, the “why” is silly. A woman will flip a situation around to suit her entirely. She will convince herself of anything and BELIEVE it. They are a mass of inconsistency. Do you care to understand “why” you like pizza? No you just order it. There is no “why”. Particularly when the reasons change on a dime.

You can ask yourself “why do leaves change colors?” because that is an annual occurrence and a sure thing. There is a reason every time and it is consistent. But understanding women is like trying to understand why water is wet.

It’s just wet. The End.

Now if all of that was as funny to you as it was to me, lets get serious for a moment. Women are not a vast ocean which runs so deep you can’t ever find the bottom. They are more like a children’s wading pool without any real depth. It’s extremely shallow. There is nothing to explore. One of the reasons people (especially women) like to have “women’s studies” is to make them sound “complex” but this is all a ploy to get you to “try and figure them out”. As soon as you realize they are as shallow as a children’s wading pool, your curiosity stops and you will lose interest. They really don’t want you to figure that out.

… like a dog that chases cars.

What would a dog that chases after a car DO if it ever caught up to it?
It would LOSE INTEREST completely.

Thats’s why women would prefer to keep you running around in circles trying to “figure them out” as if they are complex. She says one thing and you pursue it. Then you find out she was misleading to you all along. So you pursue that. Then you find out that was a misrepresentation too. This is all just mumbo jumbo camouflage to keep you chasing something that wasn’t ever that interesting to begin with. Women really don’t want you to figure this out. So they mislead you into thinking their heads are a great ocean of secrets. But there is really nothing there.

Look at this endless list of s~~~ women call “just girly things”

https://www.tumblr.com/tagged/just-girl-things

A mile long list of s~~~ and empty-headed nonsense. Those creatures are going to grow up and try to create dating profiles to try and make themselves sound “interesting”. But her dating profile will be exactly the same as the one before and after her. She’s not interesting at all. Her head has been filled with nonsense like photographing beverage holders. Wanting. Wishing. Dreaming. Hoping. Emoting. … and very little DOING.

I actually heard a woman say “Just because that’s what I wanted doesn’t mean that’s what I wanted. I mean….. that may be what I said I wanted but it doesn’t necessarily mean I’m ready for it”. Then I got blamed for that too. There will never be a need to understand that s~~~. Because even if you did, it would accomplish nothing. She doesn’t even understand it herself. It’s just pure s~~~.

I also went to an all female forum once and found HUNDREDS of pages that were almost totally empty. Countless posts with just one sentence. “Bored. Gonna start a new thread. What are you looking at right now?”…. followed by pages of responses “my cat”… “my arm”… “my ceiling”… “my computer”. It was like in the SHINING when Shelly Duval uncovers Jack Nicholson has been typing the same sentence over and over again – on hundreds of sheets of paper – for months.

“All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.”…… In that moment, she realized he wasn’t working or concentrating. Or thinking. She discovered he was f~~~ing nuts.

Horrifying.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SamMGTOWParticipant 95]

Knowledge is power. Understanding how and why women do things will give you an edge. However, the gist of the message I was trying to articulate was that it doesn’t matter much to the high level MGTOW anyways. Do you ask the kangaroo why it hops instead of walks and get angry when it doesn’t answer? Nature is just nature. MGTOW’s don’t take s~~~ from women. So if a woman is being (list adjectives), put her in her place and tell her to f~~~ off. You’re more than welcome to try searching for answers about why women are the way they are. From your comment I can tell you’re already on the way there. Women are hypergamous by nature, emotional and therefore erratic, and narcissists. They would like alphas to f~~~ as determined by biology, and betas to provide for them later in life. This information MAY help you. You can search for more. But the main point is that the most important thing for you to do is not give in to the female entitlement and privileges, as well as slavery that is marriage and the traditional provider/protector/chivalrous workhorse role. Once you protect your freedom and self respect the reasons are no longer as important. This is because you don’t entertain women in your life anymore that think they can walk all over you.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Wow @keymaster, you have put a final nail in the coffin.  YouR explanation was out this world, that’s you are THE KEYMASTER.  Thank you for answering my question.  Also thank you @sammgtow for your amazing answer.  Both of you have enlightened me today in a very important way, I appreciate your help.  I may have known the answer in a subconscious way but I did not know how to put into right words.  Now I know.

Being married for 12 years and losing almost every thing in my divorce teaches me a lot about a woman but I never stop learning.  Normally they say “More I learn about some thing, I realize I don’t know any thing.”  When it comes to women, what I learned is: MORE I LEARN ABOUT WOMEN MORE I REALIZE I DON’T NEED TO LEARN ANY THING ABOUT WOMEN, WOMEN ARE IRRELEVANT TO MY HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS AS A MAN.   Amen.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I have been married to my ex wife for 12 years before I got divorced. 

So was I ray. Maybe we’re brothers or something.

@sammgtow

Yes, what you said!

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Fuck this planet.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

The problem is in the question.

You are incorrectly assuming that there is “some-thing” to understand when there really isn’t anything there at all.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

@cap285 the image you posted cracked me up.  It’s so funny.  Thanks everyone for sharing your wisdom.  Yes, @johndoe you are right, my question is the problem, there is nothing there to even ask that question.  I am done thinking or understanding women, it’s pointless and waste of my time and energy.  It’s like asking why there is not light in darkness, it’s just the way it is.  No need for me ever ask why women are the way they are, they just are and it’s not my problem what they do, or what kind of trouble they cause them selves.  They are meaning less to my existence.  I am happy staying far way for women.

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[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Women, in general, are spoiled rotten brats that are accustomed to getting their way.  The big difference is these spoiled brats have a legal framework and the wherewithal to unilaterally strip you of all your assets as well as your legal and God given rights (including parental rights).  Bear these few facts in mind when dealing with any female and you know all you need to know to exercise the prudent precautions.  Aside from that it is impossible to comprehend what fuels insanity.

Simple as that bro!

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[JohnnyWayneParticipant 70]

As Esther Vilar pointed out in her famous book, “women are nothing more than grown up children”. To a man, women SEEM to be hard to figure out because the man attempts to project his emotional intelligence on to the woman. The average man cannot fathom the practical uselessness of the human female. You see, the woman has evolved only to procreate and to find a suitable mate. At a base level there is nothing inside her that is more sophisticated than this goal. In other words, “the lights are on, but nobody’s home”. So when men ask about why women are so hard to understand, he is asking the wrong question. The proper question would be….”Why is there nothing to understand about women”?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

John Doe put into 1 sentence what I was trying to say in 100. ( Damn, I really need to learn to condense that s~~~. )

But it’s the right attitude.
I would make a hybrid quote together with something TBowden1 said….

Understanding women is like…. “trying to smell the color 9”. Pointless. BUT necessary I’m afraid. We don’t have to understand WHY they are that way. Only that they are. Then prepare yourself accordingly.

Look at cats and dogs. When does a dog freak out and go psycho for no apparent reason? The craziest s~~~ you’ll see a dog do is run after a car or porcupine. But cats get their backs up, make these f~~~ed up noises , cough up hairb~~~~ and climb trees they can’t come down from …. crawl into shoes , fall head first into vases, freak out when they get wet, jump way up on shelves and hide for days – then they pretend to be your best friend when its time to eat. Just f~~~ing NUTS.

Do you care to understand why cats are like that? Of course not. There’s nothing to understand.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Women are emotional creatures,

Everything they Do, buy, steal, f~~~, kill. Is based purely on an emotional level. They Cry like babies when they can’t have what they want, and when they finally have it, bitch, or complain and nag they hate it.

 

“Just because that’s what I wanted doesn’t mean that’s what I wanted. I mean.. that may be what I said I wanted but it doesn’t necessarily mean I’m ready for it”.

 

Absolutely goddamn right!. The female logic of it self is so borderline stupid. I can personally attest to that quote. This one time, My friend came to visit some family, I live just a few miles away from Her folks, so She called Me up (we were friends in College)  asking to hang out and grab a nice dinner and catch up.

So She called again re reconfirm when and where we were going to eat. I picked a good Italian restaurant I know, nothing fancy, just good old Italian food with great prices. She Agreed, sounded pretty excited, the day came when I met Her at the Italian restaurant. I greet Her, and She has this smug look of disappointment on Her face, totally obvious She’s not in a good mood for whatever reason. Being the helpless Mangina I use to be, I asked “what was wrong”, “is everything okay?”.

She did the same bulls~~~ females do when they don’t want to share what’s on their f~~~ing mind, and expect us to read their mind.  just like Superman can see through Lois Lane’s dress. We sit down, chit chat, then order our food. We start eating and a good 20 mins go by until She slams Her fork on Her Plate and Says:

“You know a Girl enjoys some spontaneity sometimes, something out of the blue, a little pinch of excitement”

Puzzled by this, I had no fricken clue what She was talking about, So I just flat out asked Her:

“I honestly don’t know what You mean?, do You mind clarifying?”

Her Reply:

“Well I know We planned to come here and all, and don’t get Me wrong I loooooove Italian food, but just because I say wanted Italian, I didn’t really mean I wanted Italian, You know what I mean?. like I was kinda hoping We’d go back to Your place and You’d cook Me something, and We could drink some Wine and just chat in a Home setting”.

 

For the life of Me, I could not process what She just said. I mean, it was f~~~ing mind blowing logic!. It’s as if an Alien came down to Earth and spoke to Me in it’s own Native Tongue. It would’ve been better off if she spoke f~~~ing Swahili to Me, then explained what She just said.

 

We BOTH agreed to meet at this Italian place, She’s a huge fan of Italian (She even cooks it pretty well). Then She says it would be a good idea if I cooked and we went to My Place?. Yeah, the Female Logic is something that is not only dumb, but oxymoronic  as well. Needless to say after that dinner, I never spoke to Her again.  Women don’t even know what they want for themselves. It’s even been documented that Lesbian couples are the most miserable couples and the most violent towards each other.

 

Not even WOMEN can understand WOMEN.

 

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

I worked with a very attractive Russian chick a few years back and she was more honest and to the point than her Western sisters. In no uncertain terms she would tell me that the competition between womin IS between womin-us men come second. So it is like two guys working out in the gym just to see who can get the most jacked-with no other reward.

Like dogs and small children, womin crave attention, so they try to get it more often than their sisters thus validating them. They are not interested in sex ,that is most young mens mistake when they encounter a provocatively dressed fetard at a club. All they want is attention & free drinks,then they will go home alone and brag about all the game they COULD have got.

You see womin have the ideal man in their heads (Brad Pitt/Ryan Gosling) because this is what most of their sisters think is hot,so like sheep they follow. Look at what they end up with though,guys that look like Homer Simpson. Why?

They feel SAFE and can CONTROL these types, where the other type may cheat ,this type will feel lucky to have her and worship the ground she walks on.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Always enjoy DeusEx’s personal anecdotes. The extreme danger with giving a s~~~ about trying to “understand” women is when they think you care. Look at this s~~~ called: “For guys a guide to girl talk”

http://www.match.com/magazine/article/4670/For-Guys-A-Guide-To-Girl-Talk/

Now, most guys will see that horses~~~ and think “oh ok, I’m gonna learn something new about how women communicate today. Thanks for the tips ladies!” and that’s how you just f~~~ed yourself. Because you thought that s~~~ was going to bring you closer to something you’re not even supposed to give f~~~ about in the first place.

A MGHOW looks at that, laughs and turns the page.

“For guys a guide to girl talk” are you f~~~ing kidding me? WTF is “girl talk”? Grown women who still don’t f~~~ing understand how to communicate directly (or properly) in their own native language….. so they expect MEN – the creators of ALL languages, music, programming, and morse code – to f~~~ing give a s~~~ about how it translates into Manglish?? A women will now tell you “no doesn’t really mean no” and thinks she needs to translate that – from chick speak into Manglish – using multiple sentences and lengthy paragraphs as if “no” was ever open for interpretation.

LOL, No.

For guys, here is a guide to girl talk: Don’t pay any f~~~ing attention to it.

Mystery solved.

As soon as you make an attempt to understand women by listening to women, you just f~~~ed yourself. Worst mistake you can make. If you want to understand women, talk to other men and they will tell you the same s~~~. Don’t bother and don’t listen. That’s why women (and feminists) hate it when men get together and discuss women without them. Because eventually, Men are going to figure out there is really nothing to figuring a woman out. On that day, it’s GAME OVER for her.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Wow, amazing wise words from all of you.  I am getting so much clarity on this matter.  You guys are so right, there is nothing I need to understand about women because there is nothing there in the first place to understand.  So wise.  Thank you ever one for your wisdom, I am feeling liberated from never ever thinking about women again(want a waste of time trying to understand or think about women, no more wasting time on any thing related to women).

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@ray that’s a little unrealistic too. You can’t go too far in the other direction because women make that impossible. You can’t go through life *totally ignoring women* (or never thinking about them) because that would be like ignoring trees.

You can’t ignore trees. But you don’t ask them for advice, either. There is no need to “understand” them.

And trees don’t p~~~ you off. This conversation started from a p~~~ed-off place. You began very irritated, and that comes from listening and trying to figure them out (like the frustrating women in your social media example) when you shouldn’t. That’s the only point I’m trying to make.

Whatever you have to do to never allow women to live in your head rent free.

So the next time a woman says “here is how men can understand women better!”,
you can do what Cap does, and give no f~~~s.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

@keymaster, thanks for the advice, some time I have to go the extreme and then come back to a perfect balance.  We all have our unique ways to find the perfect balance.  Right now I so p~~~ed of about women, I may sound a little extreme which is ok for now.  I am sure I will find the perfect balance soon.  I am just sick of being a nice guy trying to understand and cater to women all my life.  I am done with women.  I know I still have to deal with my mother and few women in business dealings, I am ok with that.  I am at a point in my life I don’t give a F*ck about women, they did enough damage to my life, I won’t ever let that happen to me.  It’s my fault for trying to take care of women and get F*cked by them at every turn.  I had enough of this women bullshut.  I will find the right balance soon.  I won’t go to the extreme.  I still have live making movie, running a business, so I am ready to deal with women in that aspect, I will even have fun with it.  I am done paying attention to women, the are insignificant to me now, women are just a necessary business transaction, that’s they are to me now.  Their problems are no longer my problems, they can suck it up and fix it on their own, I don’t give a F*ck about women, I have done enough for them for 38 years of my life.  It’s my time to focus on me and what I love doing.

[Anonymous 42]

Hello fellow MGHOW’S, My new User profile picture says it all! You want answers to the multiplex paradox of understanding women? Lets look at the word “understand” or to “stand under”, it’s out of natural order to stand beneath, or “under” a woman. It’s that simple, or do you need more s~~~ dropped on your head? All because you allowed yourself to be manipulated into the wrong position. It’s all about the laws of gravity, position, and s~~~.

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