Why am I here?

[AstroParticipant 2045]

I wanted to check out all MGTOW Forums as I have been a member since February, separated from my wife at Christmas. I know not all MGTOW members live the life of a monk so I wanted to check this out. I read a few posts and I am glad to see it is not what I expected. For me, dating anyone is like an addict telling himself “Just one more time. It will be different THIS time!” If you can “Pump and Dump”, I envy you and I truly mean that. I have lost all pity for females in a relationship, do what you wish. For this romantic old fool, dating would be a death sentence. I would get attached and I know where that road leads so well that I don’t even want to go down it.

It’s like harnessing a dog to a sleigh, putting a steak on a stick in front of it and screaming “MUSH” day after day. When you finally give the dog the steak, it is rotten and makes him sick. Sooner or later, the dog will just lie down in the snow. He says: “Keep you f~~~ing steak! Go find a younger dog who is stupid enough to pull your fat ass for it!” The master is named “Modern Society” and it seems to enjoy abusing us dogs but this old dog has had enough. Put a bullet in my head if you wish but I will never pull that f~~~ing sleigh again!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Astro wrote:

Put a bullet in my head if you wish but I will never pull that f~~~ing sleigh again!

It’s funny… because @cap285 is a very esteemed long time MGHOW – even from another forum many years back. He said a quote for all time . . .

“I would rather play Russian Roulette with a fully-loaded cylinder than play those stupid mental gymnastics ever again.”
– @cap285

And he really wasn’t saying it to be funny.

Personally, I have such a low tolerance for female bulls~~~, I doubt any woman could last 15 minutes on a first date without me getting up and pushing my chair in — based SOLELY on her inability to not look at her goddam phone for 5 minutes.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MACHOParticipant]

Astro wrote:

I know not all MGTOW members live the life of a monk so I wanted to check this out. I read a few posts and I am glad to see it is not what I expected

Got to pick the Survivor lifestyle, whatever style suits you brother. I’m the same as you are.. so I remain totally by myself.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[bladeParticipant]

I don’t even see woman in a sexual way . Don’t even perve on them . There is nothing and it is freedom . Not thursting for money or material things has given me freedom .

Everything of value is free provided by god . Love nature

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 42]

Astro wrote:

If you can “Pump and Dump”, I envy you and I truly mean that.

Me too brother, can-no-do, that’s why I’m monk, I adhere to a higher order that has been all but completely decimated, From experience I’ve realized each woman takes a little piece of your soul. What’s left is mine and no more pieces shall be torn off, ever!

Astro wrote:

Put a bullet in my head if you wish but I will never pull that f~~~ing sleigh again!

I’m partial to sledgehammers, act like sheep and be destroyed like a sheep!

Keymaster wrote:

Personally, I have such a low tolerance for female bulls~~~, I doubt any woman could last 15 minutes on a first date without me getting up and pushing my chair in — based SOLELY on her inability to not look at her goddam phone for 5 minutes.

You got me beat by 15 minutes!

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Astro wrote:

I wanted to check out all MGTOW Forums as I have been a member since February, separated from my wife at Christmas. I know not all MGTOW members live the life of a monk so I wanted to check this out. I read a few posts and I am glad to see it is not what I expected. For me, dating anyone is like an addict telling himself “Just one more time. It will be different THIS time!” If you can “Pump and Dump”, I envy you and I truly mean that. I have lost all pity for females in a relationship, do what you wish. For this romantic old fool, dating would be a death sentence. I would get attached and I know where that road leads so well that I don’t even want to go down it.

It’s like harnessing a dog to a sleigh, putting a steak on a stick in front of it and screaming “MUSH” day after day. When you finally give the dog the steak, it is rotten and makes him sick. Sooner or later, the dog will just lie down in the snow. He says: “Keep you f~~~ing steak! Go find a younger dog who is stupid enough to pull your fat ass for it!” The master is named “Modern Society” and it seems to enjoy abusing us dogs but this old dog has had enough. Put a bullet in my head if you wish but I will never pull that f~~~ing sleigh again!

There’s nothing wrong with being a “romantic fool”. It’s part of being a HUMAN BEING. Inside, deep, we really want some kind of companionship. We WANT to forge a bond. Unfortunately, society, and modern women have ruined it for us. So what do we do? Many of us turn to places like this, where we can relate to our fellow man.

You can have engagements with women, even relations~~~s if you so choose. It simply requires you to be on guard at all times, and have the discipline to have rules that women must abide by. You have to be strong enough to set up walls, and prevent women from crossing the thresholds of s~~~ you will tolerate. You have to be willing to call out women you’re with when their s~~~ surfaces, and be willing to kick them to the curb. It’s hard work, that’s why most guys on here choose not to do it, and I don’t blame them.

[OldBillParticipant]

blade wrote:

I don’t even see woman in a sexual way . Don’t even perve on them . There is nothing and it is freedom .

You know, brother, I think I’ve also finally reached that wonderful state of being. Not to say I’ve been chasing skirts all these years. I wasn’t much of a pussy beggar in my teens and only really engaged in constant “pump & dumps” during my navy days. I still noticed them, however, even if I couldn’t be bothered to follow my eyes into action.

Last summer I hooked up with a grad student nearly 30 years younger than myself and experienced boredom more than anything else. Even when she bouncing away on top of me, I was thinking how much longer it would be until it was over and I could leave. I could have repeated with her and with little effort on my part, but it simply wasn’t worth the effort it would take responding to her texts.

I spent two weeks this last holiday season visiting a sibling in southern California, a region which along with Miami is ground zero for “hot chicks” in the US. I can seriously say I didn’t notice any of them. More importantly, I wasn’t even aware of myself not noticing them.

After one brunch out, my sister remarked on the beautiful women who’d been seated near us. (My sister isn’t a lesbian, she was commenting on the other women’s blouses.) When I honestly said I hadn’t noticed any of them, my sister laughed saying I wasn’t that old yet.

Old or not, I think I may have finally gained the serenity of no longer caring enough to care. It’s a wonderful feeling.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

OldBill wrote:

blade wrote:

I don’t even see woman in a sexual way . Don’t even perve on them . There is nothing and it is freedom .

You know, brother, I think I’ve also finally reached that wonderful state of being. Not to say I’ve been chasing skirts all these years. I wasn’t much of a pussy beggar in my teens and only really engaged in constant “pump & dumps” during my navy days. I still noticed them, however, even if I couldn’t be bothered to follow my eyes into action.

Last summer I hooked up with a grad student nearly 30 years younger than myself and experienced boredom more than anything else. Even when she bouncing away on top of me, I was thinking how much longer it would be until it was over and I could leave. I could have repeated with her and with little effort on my part, but it simply wasn’t worth the effort it would take responding to her texts.

I spent two weeks this last holiday season visiting a sibling in southern California, a region which along with Miami is ground zero for “hot chicks” in the US. I can seriously say I didn’t notice any of them. More importantly, I wasn’t even aware of myself not noticing them.

After one brunch out, my sister remarked on the beautiful women who’d been seated near us. (My sister isn’t a lesbian, she was commenting on the other women’s blouses.) When I honestly said I hadn’t noticed any of them, my sister laughed saying I wasn’t that old yet.

Old or not, I think I may have finally gained the serenity of no longer caring enough to care. It’s a wonderful feeling.

I do still perve but it is getting less and less. There is a woman who gets the train before mine in the morning and she has really nice legs so as she gets on I always have a long look. I only do this though because she is literally right in front of me…

when I am out and about, I hardly notice the attractive ones and if I do then they just get a second’s glance off of me and then I carry on looking ahead. I am caring less and less (even porn is losing its effect on me these days and my wank count is down from once/twice every day to once every few days now)

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