Who pays for dates?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

The Internet is filled with crap articles about women who want to pay half or all, yet the evil men will never let them.

Has anyone ever been on a date were the female paid, half or more?

I havent.

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[foolsgoldParticipant 5643]

Yes, but she knew I was better than what she could get. If she thought her smv was even close to mine there would be noway she would pay. I haven’t dated in almost 7years. Best 7 years of my life.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Never

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Yes, and I hear it is standard practice in some European countries.
It makes rational sense and avoids a lot of problems.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[WallyParticipant]

Haven’t dated in awhile, separate checks no splitting.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Yes, but she didn’t seem happy about it. I told a few about it, but basically, she paid for the popcorn and drinks, and she reminded me of it later, like it was a favor to pay half.

[Anonymous 14]

Yes, when I was younger, better looking, and had a body like a Greek God I did date a few women who paid for things like expensive meals to entire vacations… I didn’t think it was a big deal at the time, I really didn’t need/want those things it just so happened that they had money and I did not and they wanted to go do those things… No big deal, and I would actually rather date a woman who was like this than one who chased wallets all day long as so many of them do…

If they want equality they should at least pretend to represent it from time to time… In my experience a woman with money can sometimes be a bit of a different creature than those without in the sense that most women are gold diggers who want to marry/date up, but when they have money it can free them up a bit and allow them to date men based more on personality and physical attraction rather than paper. The problem is most women just want MORE and are never satisfied…

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Has anyone ever been on a date were the female paid, half or more

Yes, but only once and the woman was Laotian. Different culture I guess.

[UntamedParticipant]

I had dates where I paid for everything and I had some who paid for everything.
I like to go out with someone who doesn’t start counting every penny of who pays or not or not enough… If it starts like that I don’t even want to go.
I think a woeman who wants me to go out with her nowadays will have to pay for everything because I’d do her the favor of enjoying my uparalleled company, lol
But seriously, why go out and suffer an interminable self-centered monologue from a deluded hoe who thinks, throughout the whole evening, that everything you say or do is aimed at getting in her pants? C’mon, it’s not like I can’t pay for a Lady already, get over yourself and your banale pussy, will ya?!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

The legend that is Marc Rudov on the subject:

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I’ve paid for most first dates, but to be fair I’ve never minded because first date for me has generally resulted in spending 15 dollars or less on them…not a huge deal. I’ve had a couple that insisted on 50/50 and almost all of them said they’d pay for the next time we go out, and made good on it if there was a next time.

Dating doesn’t have to be that expensive…something like a hike and an ice cream cost you about 5 bucks even if you treat, and if you have a miserable date, you still got to go for a hike an have ice cream. Unless you are just volunteering yourself up as a sacrificial wallet, dating isn’t the expensive part, its the following relations~~~, marriage, and divorce where you will get bled dry.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Not dated in a while, but anyone who didn’t go dutch didn’t get a second date.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Who dates?

One of the most important things you can tell a woman is: “This is not a date.”

[BushidoParticipant 637]

I’ve seen a date go half/half before – it’s a very infrequent occurrence.

Personally, if I feel I am adequately amused/satisfied from a date, I might humor paying the full check. A fair exchange for good company or conversation, though a situation I do not one I make a habit of. (see entitlement.)

Generally I just wait for that moment the waiter/waitress asks for a “one/split” and request a split. If she cannot afford her own appetite, that’s a red flag waving you adieu tout de suite, mon ami. (e.g. GTFO)

Logic guides your actions, emotion guides your morals. Only you may decide how you use them.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

sidecar wrote:

Who dates?

One of the most important things you can tell a woman is: “This is not a date.”

Haha I remember when I was younger a chick saying “This is not a date” was like a kick in the nuts…instant trip to the friend zone. Funny how the roles reverse later in life.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

I’ve had women buy me drinks hoping it would turn into a date. Hoping I would play the fool and in the end pay for far more than a meal and drinks.

They all got MGHOW’d.

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