Where have all the good men gone?

[TaxGuyParticipant]

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/are-divorced-men-over-50-anti-second-marriage_us_58e24940e4b03c2b30f6a85c?section=us_divorce

Gee, why are divorced men over 50 anti second marriage? The guy basically says that he will never get married again and will never tell a woman he loves her again. He calls finding the woman of his dreams “Mission Impossible.”

The analysis:

1. This is a man who has been deeply, deeply hurt and feels so betrayed that he is unsure he can ever trust a woman enough to say I love you or get married.

2. The guy is saying that finding true love is “mission impossible”, because he is very damaged and so for him, it is.

3. He might benefit from therapy, a support group, or doing some type of work to get closure, acceptance and to learn that not every woman cheats.

4. I’m not judging, because I can understand how he might feel.

OK, let’s run this through the mansplainer and help the author out:

1. You have no idea if the guy is that deeply, deeply hurt, or what brought him to that conclusion. Project much? Ever lost a half million dollars in a divorce settlement Judy? Didn’t think so. Then why don’t you shut the f~~~ up about why the guy isn’t going to get married again.

2. Again, he can’t find true love because he is damaged. Did the thought ever occur to you that it’s the women that are damaged? Maybe there’s something very, very right about this guy and he’s just don’t letting women do any further damage.

3. Sounds like he’s already benefited from a little support group called MGTOW. In fact I think I see a certificate of graduation in his hand. Good job buddy!

4. I saved this one for last. Points 1-3 were all making judgments about this guy. You don’t get to judge the s~~~ out of someone and then say I’m not judging. I mean, you can, but you will be talking to an empty chair.

Conclusion: Women still haven’t figured out that they are the problem or are willing to take even 1% of the responsibility for men walking away.

The guy was headed to Mexico and then South America without the chick that’s trying to claim him. Sounds like an A+ grade from MGTOW University Graduate Studies Class.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 11]

I’m fifty and anti first marriage. I get that “You’ve been hurt” blather too.

I’ve been hurt, sure, but I am not hurting now. The good men with any sense are long since gone so now you’ll only have poor little kitties to torment.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Good analysis, Saved me spending too long on that site and increasing my exsposure to cancer causing liberal ideology.

Honestly these do gooding leftist sites nauseate me with their smug selfsatisfied articles. They really think they have all the answers and judge anyone not agreeing with them as being “Damaged” in some way.

If I’m damaged its because I’m resisting the crazy Distopia they are trying to create.

Sounds to me like that guy has awakened and the author is p~~~ed that he and others like him won’t fall for her Disney BS a seccond time around.

“Give them NOTHING”!

Comes to mind 🙂

It's Time to get Wise

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Where have all the good men gone? Well let me give you list of 10 reasons Ladies.
Men left because they realize:
1) that monogamy is unrealistic
2) that dating is a zero sum game
3) that trying to appease a women is a fruitless endeavor
4) that even the notion of rearing a child in this world with a narcissist makes them cringe; Even if they did consider starting a family with a woman, it would essentially be a coin toss to see if it succeeds, and this is a gamble men aren’t willing to take
5) that society see us as nothing more than a dispensable utility
6) that being chivalrious is uncessary; women need men like a fish needs a bicycle
7) that dating a women today fails a Cost-Benefit Analysis every single time
8) that women have unrealistic expectations of men
9) that a virtuous woman is akin to finding a unicorn; NAWALTs don’t exist
10 that most importantly, love is fool’s errand

This is why we are done with you! These stupid t~~~s can’t seem to get this through their thick skulls. I was just shocked back to reality today, and I deviated from this list. I accept responsibility for letting my emotions cloud my judgement. Accountability is something that women lack, and this is why they can’t see why men have left…

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

TaxGuy wrote:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/are-divorced-men-over-50-anti-second-marriage_us_58e24940e4b03c2b30f6a85c?section=us_divorce

Gee, why are divorced men over 50 anti second marriage? The guy basically says that he will never get married again and will never tell a woman he loves her again. He calls finding the woman of his dreams “Mission Impossible.”

The analysis:

1. This is a man who has been deeply, deeply hurt and feels so betrayed that he is unsure he can ever trust a woman enough to say I love you or get married.

2. The guy is saying that finding true love is “mission impossible”, because he is very damaged and so for him, it is.

3. He might benefit from therapy, a support group, or doing some type of work to get closure, acceptance and to learn that not every woman cheats.

4. I’m not judging, because I can understand how he might feel.

OK, let’s run this through the mansplainer and help the author out:

1. You have no idea if the guy is that deeply, deeply hurt, or what brought him to that conclusion. Project much? Ever lost a half million dollars in a divorce settlement Judy? Didn’t think so. Then why don’t you shut the f~~~ up about why the guy isn’t going to get married again.

2. Again, he can’t find true love because he is damaged. Did the thought ever occur to you that it’s the women that are damaged? Maybe there’s something very, very right about this guy and he’s just don’t letting women do any further damage.

3. Sounds like he’s already benefited from a little support group called MGTOW. In fact I think I see a certificate of graduation in his hand. Good job buddy!

4. I saved this one for last. Points 1-3 were all making judgments about this guy. You don’t get to judge the s~~~ out of someone and then say I’m not judging. I mean, you can, but you will be talking to an empty chair.

Conclusion: Women still haven’t figured out that they are the problem or are willing to take even 1% of the responsibility for men walking away.

The guy was headed to Mexico and then South America without the chick that’s trying to claim him. Sounds like an A+ grade from MGTOW University Graduate Studies Class.

Women as a gender command neither reason nor do they own accountability.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Greg Honda wrote:

If I’m damaged its because I’m resisting the crazy Distopia they are trying to create.

That’s a brilliant summary, Greg.

TaxGuy wrote:

1. This is a man who has been deeply, deeply hurt and feels so betrayed that he is unsure he can ever trust a woman enough to say I love you or get married.

That’s right, cupcake, this is the issue. And by the way, he does not “feel” betrayed, he WAS betrayed. And this man is wise to not put his hand on the stove again just because it has healed from the last time it was scorched.

These cupcakes will never understand this one truth; that men are walking away from women — not love, not commitment, not motorcycles, not penguins — WOMEN.

But that’s the beauty of MGTOW, what women think or feel is no longer of consequence to us. We simply turn around and walk away. It’s an immediate solution to the problems woman cause.

And that is what makes all the difference.

[Anonymous 13]

Once men realise they can be destroyed just by snowflake’s phone call, they tend not to hang around.

They f~~~ off and they never come back.

There, is that good enough c~~~s?
Does that answer your stupid f~~~in question?

Arrest my ass for absolutely nothing and put me through needless hell for TWO F~~~ING YEARS and you can all just f~~~ off and die.

What sane man knowing any of this, let alone experienced it, goes back for seconds?

[Anonymous 13]

It doesn’t matter where they’ve gone, c~~~s.

It only matters that YOU know it’s FOREVER.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Sounds like the guy has his s~~~ together and doesn’t want to pick up another parasite after the last one just raked him over the coals. I don’t he wants, nor could she have kids in their 50s, so that aspect is gone. If he travels 4 months out of the year he’s probably retired and financially independent. Its pretty obvious he doesn’t mind an easy lay if she is alright with it but he doesn’t desire a change in lifestyle just to help some post waller out because her life is a wreck.

The way I see it marriage has historically been a trade off…women give men their primes and men take care of them once they hit the wall. If you aren’t getting a young hot woman who will be loyal and not divorce rape you or run off with your kids(which its still super f~~~ing risky these days even if you think are you getting this)…wtf is the point? If I wasn’t tapping it all through her 20s I see no reason to provide for her in her 50s, and that is her problem, not mine.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Only had to go through the first paragraph to find the first femenista meme–“fear of commitment”.

Boy OH Boy they just love that mantra—they cling to it with a tenacity that is frightening—what a shame it is BOGUS. I don’t know of a man who fears commitment—what we fear is the inevitable betrayal of our commitment! DUH SSSSsshhhhheeeessss Figure it out!

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

It is all on the man. Women play no part, or have any culpability in the matter.
As if it is just his interpretation, or fear, and not the actual REALITY that men face.

So shocked. I don’t want to give Huffpo the click, are there comments on the article? All the hateful forever alone bitches should be in good from for something like this.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

PistolPete wrote:

I don’t know of a man who fears commitment—what we fear is the inevitable betrayal of our commitment! DUH SSSSsshhhhheeeessss Figure it out!

@ Pete this is 24k solid gold right there. Women are the ones who can’t commit. Men are loyal only to find a woman that stabs him in the back for CHAD. This bull s~~~ can be through right back into their smug faces.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

Women play no part, or have any culpability in the matter.

Women don’t have to take responsibility for anything. Oh, you had sex out of wedlock, and you now have a child? Oh no problem, let’s suck that little bastard right out. Women don’t even take responsibility for bringing a child into this world. It is truly no wonder why they can’t “man” up to their mistakes. Oh no! I said man up, I’m such a sexist! They can STFU for all I care…

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

I don’t like to give clicks to the c~~~ington post, so thanks for the excellent summary.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

It is all on the man. Women play no part, or have any culpability in the matter.
As if it is just his interpretation, or fear, and not the actual REALITY that men face.

So shocked. I don’t want to give Huffpo the click, are there comments on the article? All the hateful forever alone bitches should be in good from for something like this.

I didn’t see any comments, nor was I going to comment. I can run it through the mansplaner here, but I’m not doing them any favors on their own website. Let them continue to think that there’s something wrong with us. I don’t care. I’m too busy avoiding therapy by living my awesome life.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 42]

All the good men are here, or on their way here!

It’s just like an episode of the Twilight Zone!

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

Being a woman pretty much means not taking responsibility lol. This guy has it figured out, there’s no NEED for you to get married again man. Find happiness alone or seek a companion that understands that it’s just companionship , there is no marriage , co-habitation or talk of love.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

Only had to go through the first paragraph to find the first femenista meme–“fear of commitment”.

Boy OH Boy they just love that mantra—they cling to it with a tenacity that is frightening—what a shame it is BOGUS. I don’t know of a man who fears commitment—what we fear is the inevitable betrayal of our commitment! DUH SSSSsshhhhheeeessss Figure it out!

I read an article on Men’s Health the other day (Huffpo and Men’s Health, I may be gay…) and it said that 55% of married women admitted to cheating on their husband at least once. 55%! Over half that ADMITTED it. So now we have a guy whose already been divorced once, and the author can’t figure out why he doesn’t want a second marriage contract (that’s for you KM).

Now take that 55% number, which is very close to the percentage of divorces. I think it’s safe to assume that most of the faithful women are still married, but there’s probably some overlap. Still, that means that most of the divorce women are cheaters. Based on that, I’m going to guess that around 80% of divorced women cheated on their husband. That leaves about 20% of the 45% that cheated and got away with it. Just a rough guess, but you see where I’m going.

Take a look on one hand and see that 80% of the available women are cheaters, and then look at the other hand holding a marriage contract with the full backing of the state, and then tell me that you surprised at all that the guy throws both hands in the air and walks away. Hell, he’d be stupid not to.

Order the good wine

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

I don’t even think about relationships anymore. Maybe, honestly, a few time a week at most and then it’s just a fleeting thought that rapidly dissapears. I believe I like things just the way they are. My life is so much simpler this way. I believe I’m happy because I don’t notice lonely thoughts. I think I have it pretty good without any ties that bind. Since I have the choice .. I’d rather be alone. Total freedom from relationship commitments is kind of intoxicating. Getting on the relationship bandwagon would not make sense for me. I can’t even realistically imagine it any longer. I’m satisfied with things the way they are and wouldn’t risk change for what few fleeting benefits the alternative could bring. This is just my view .. don’t necessarily do as I do, but, it works for me. Things are really ok.

[Knightz of the RoundSpectator 319]

TaxGuy wrote:

2. Again, he can’t find true love because he is damaged. Did the thought ever occur to you that it’s the women that are damaged? Maybe there’s something very, very right about this guy and he’s just don’t letting women do any further damage.

Im glad that you said that. Women never admit that they are the ones that who have faults and are damaged. Women just blame everything on men. They might not even be aware that they have problems. C~~~s are pretty clueless.

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