When She Says…."All My Exes Were Psychos"

[narwhalParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

<i class=”fas fa-female”></i>: “All my exes were psychos!”<i class=”fas fa-male”></i>: “Really? They sound fun. Do you still have their phone numbers? I’d love to meet them.”
A woman talking about her past relationships AT ALL is an immediate disqualify. You do not want to be the next one for her to talk about. There might be an exception for widows, but I’ve never tested it.

When this has come up in the past, I usually ask them questions like:

So once you figured out he was an ass, why did you continue to say with him?
If he didn’t start out that way, what changed to cause him to act this way?
What did you learn about yourself from that relationship? What lesson can you apply to future relationships?

All questions women will say you shouldn’t ask, but all questions I have no problem answering myself.

As for widowed women, I find myself avoiding them. I don’t want to be constantly compared to her memory of a dead man.

Ok. Then do it.

[MonkParticipant 16983]

NoLongerBlind wrote:

HER PAST ALWAYS MATTERS … never forget this

This should be a meme. Suitable artwork please.

Pictures of Christine Blasey Ford will not be accepted as that would simply be too easy.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

narwhal wrote:

All questions women will say you shouldn’t ask, but all questions I have no problem answering myself.

Even though you can answer them yourself, ask them anyways.

By bringing up her exes, she’s disqualified herself. She has no future with you. So why the f~~~ would you care how she feels about your asking? Use your questions to either educate or (most likely) f~~~ with her. Lay on the cognitive dissonance HARD. Then immediately next the bitch. She was done before she even started.

: “I have no intention of being you next quote-unquote ‘asshole’ ex. Goodbye. Naw. On second thought, just bye.”

[narwhalParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

narwhal wrote:

All questions women will say you shouldn’t ask, but all questions I have no problem answering myself.

Even though you can answer them yourself, ask them anyways.
By bringing up her exes, she’s disqualified herself. She has no future with you. So why the f~~~ would you care how she feels about your asking? Use your questions to either educate or (most likely) f~~~ with her. Lay on the cognitive dissonance HARD. Then immediately next the bitch. She was done before she even started.
<i class=”fas fa-male”></i>: “I have no intention of being you next quote-unquote ‘asshole’ ex. Goodbye. Naw. On second thought, just bye.”

I met questions I have no problem answering if they were directed to me. I know what mistakes I made in the past and what steps I’m taking to make sure I don’t repeat them. Maybe more importantly, I’m much more willing to ask questions I won’t necessarily like the answers to.

I wasn’t suggesting that I know what she’s going to say before she asks them. I try and give them a fair chance. However, in most cases, they do answer my questions without saying a word. A woman who is satisfied with her low paying job, not looking for a promotion, but is unhappy with her student loan debt, doesn’t need to answer questions about being financially responsible. She’s already answered that question. Sure I could point out the contradiction in her life, but that’s not my problem to fix, it’s my problem to avoid.

Ok. Then do it.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

narwhal wrote:

Sure I could point out the contradiction in her life, but that’s not my problem to fix, it’s my problem to avoid.

You don’t point out her contradictions to fix her problems.

You point and laugh.

And then walk away.

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

It’s called projection. She’s the psycho.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[NoLongerBlindParticipant 530]

Her Past Always Matters

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

As many posters have pointed out, she is the only common denominator in her past relationships. They gaslight their men and the day he tells her not to be a bitch he is a psycho abusive bastard.
Men only get crazy when they have f~~~ed with crazy long enough. After a man has been around a psycho bitch long enough he is bound to become perturbed on occasion. Just as in the case where a woman feels that a man’s disagreement with her is abuse if you demonstrate agitation at their insanity you are a “psycho”.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

Maybe a guy needs to be a psycho to enter a relationship these days. He has to completely disregard his own safety, his reputation, his place in the food chain, his peace of mind, etc, etc, etc.
Maybe that’s why women get so many.

Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

You know what my first ex-girlfriend called me not pyscho but obsessive and controlling but in reality when a woman says this she is upset that you are not giving in to her ways. Pyscho, obsessive and controlling are just shaming tactics to try and control the man. In reality, how many crazy women are there out there? I was watching a video yesterday of a woman keying a her ex-boyrfriends car with him shooting the video and she was trying to knock the phone out of his hand. Now would you say this doesn’t happen regularly? Of course it does. The funny thing with women and proving they are hypocritical and blind at the same time. How many women have stated before a certain woman or women are crazy and wouldn’t want to hang around with them yet they cast blame on men for noticing these qualities in women and choose not to date them. Women want to have their cake and eat it too with their constant hypocrisy and BS of wanting men to buy into the feminine imperative. That’s the real truth.

[MonkParticipant 16983]

kbbroiler wrote:

I was watching a video yesterday of a woman keying a her ex-boyrfriends car with him shooting the video and she was trying to knock the phone out of his hand.

Something similar happened recently to neighbour of mine.

He had a minor dispute with a nearby couple. She got her White Knight boyfriend to key my neighbours car. She caused the trouble, but the boyfriend got arrested for Criminal Damage.

What’s wrong with this picture?

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