When online dating women’s first move is stating the importance of marriage…

[experiencedParticipant]

My apologies to any male this offends.
When a woman’s opener in online dating immediately brings up the importance of marriage, an appropriate counter move may well be asking her if she initiated her “divorced” status by being the one who filed for divorce.
No answer or an affirmative one immediately points out that you are dealing with a hypocrite of the worst kind.
She has chosen to bring it up and she can be held accountable.
The pure gall with which many females conduct themselves begs for the rug to be pulled out from under them.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Agreed!! After you ask her that…..listen to the crickets chirp. They’ll be kinda loud.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

What gets me with the online thing is how many women list all the requirements they have “he has to be stong, and intelligent, and financially secure. Understanding when I have a bad day and read to blah blah blah blah BLAH blah blah. Blah.”

Without even a single word about what they have to offer. She just deserves all of these things because vagina I guess.

I have this idea.

What if I find the worst of these types of profiles, and then copy and paste the text into my own profile, just changing all of the “he’s” to “she’s,” and then responding to her with something like “wow, we have so much in common we must be soulmates.”

What do you guys think?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I actually have done that and the number of hits has gone down drastically.

Great minds my brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Just tell her,” I can’t live without you,” she’ll run for hills.

Problem solved!

I usually get the need a relationship ones, back in blue pill years.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 42]

I smell the desperation!
Life sucks for a woman “manjockey” to be without a man to ride, all while standing in the Sahara desert of female sexual market value! They get really mean and nasty when the sand starts coating their wet spot!

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

sounds like somebody is hungry for alimony

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[LivinitupParticipant 135]

Ask her if she´s a virgin! (especially if she´s a single mother;-) )

When she tells you “of course not, silly” and starts laughing put on the most serious face you can manage and drop the ole´

Well….No Hymen No Diamond Honey!

Bonus Points if after you bluntly turned around and walked away, you stop after a few, turn around and ask for her hourly rate…… (or send a text a few hours later asking for it if the whole conversation is in text rather then face to face)

give us liberty, or give us death!

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

experienced wrote:

When a woman’s opener in online dating immediately brings up the importance of marriage, an appropriate counter move may well be asking her if she initiated her “divorced” status by being the one who filed for divorce.

Holy s~~~, so true. They always say “marriage is very important to me, I’m looking for something serious, not some fling. If you don’t have plans on marriage I’m not interested”

And they’re the ones who pretend marriage is so sacrosanct but then you find out that her last marriage was soooooooo important, and a focus of her life that she threw it away like trash without a second thought. Women these days are f~~~ing desperate, and they play it off like they’re good tradcon women, but we all know the ruse.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[FuckMeSpectator 215]

experienced, you stated “My apologies to any male this offends”…Key Master has taught me to be proud of what I post, and I try to live by that code. I have NEVER been offended by a single post here and don’t know how or why yours would with anyone. I have often pondered this same thing, and YES I want to ask the question and sometimes do, of course it has NEVER been their fault. It’s always because he didn’t make enough money, or he didn’t act right, or he couldn’t stop drinking, or he cheated, or he, he he…”The pure gall with which many females conduct themselves begs for the rug to be pulled out from under them”. I would like to take that rug, tie the damn thing in a nice pretty bow, and shove it right UP THEIR asses…if truth be told. NOTHING in life will DESTROY a man faster than making a woman a priority and “dedicating” himself to her, when he does that his life is OVER!!! He MUST, we must, find our life calling, have a plan and a mission, set goals and work on them, make money and build up our fortress, and the bitches can tag along for the f~~~ing ride…if we let them that is!!! Great post, thank you.

Bubba

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

experienced wrote:

My apologies to any male this offends.
When a woman’s opener in online dating immediately brings up the importance of marriage, an appropriate counter move may well be asking her if she initiated her “divorced” status by being the one who filed for divorce.
No answer or an affirmative one immediately points out that you are dealing with a hypocrite of the worst kind.
She has chosen to bring it up and she can be held accountable.
The pure gall with which many females conduct themselves begs for the rug to be pulled out from under them.

Not offended, just curious.

Why do you call men “male”, yet you call women “woman”?

Words have meaning. The word “male” has uses to make a grammatically correct sentence, however the feminist use it to disenfranchise men. . Others can disagree, but I am not a male, I am a MAN. This gender vs genital is crap.

I see a lot of writing online about male this and that and then women this and that. There is a disconnect like the feminists have decided the male is a second class term. If you notice, I have been actively referring to women as females to the best of my ability.

Not offended, just curious.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[experiencedParticipant]

You know, you’re right. I stand corrected. It’s either male female or man woman, period.
Earlier today I caught myself assuming that a negative situation was initiated by guess which gender??
It’s an ongoing battle ……………………………………………………………………..
as the blue pill past sometimes raises its head without caution.
I appreciate your clarity.

“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

It’s the worlds’ oldest negotiation and a man’s got to be “willing to walk.”
Perhaps an in turn, immediate reversal, in the form of, “What am I looking for in a woman?” and if she doesn’t meet ALL of them, DELETE her, now.
Females IMO LOVE to exercise the “race to rejection” option.
A man has to start with his feet set perfectly in the starter blocks.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

The initial apology is for a male friend “on the outside, probably reading this,
” / sitting on the edge / trying to decide….and also for new prospective members who hold strongly to hopes that I’ve mostly abandoned.
I’ve never run into elderly men who’ve told me, “Hey, the truth was exactly what I thought it’d be.”
The sooner each of us sees things for what they really are, the better.
Informed decisions are the best.
to keep gathering information doggedly often screams the answer into my ear.
the dating site females seem to use every ruse to give no information while gathering it to the maximum.
Knowledge is power. hopefully this thread will help many men.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

If she opens with the importance of marriage then you counter with the importance of the three-way. Tell her the following:

“For a woman, the objective of a relationship is to bind a man into a protector/provider role where her needs are met without question or resistance. So the ultimate value that a man can bring to a woman’s life is to submit to the legal contract of marriage.

For a man, the objective of a relationship is the same as it is when he’s single… to have a steady stream of new and exciting sexual partners.* So the ultimate value that a woman can bring to a man’s life is going out and procuring more women for him to f~~~.”

That should pretty much end any talk of relationships.

* based on generalized biological drivers, your mileage may vary

[narwhalParticipant]

“importance of marriage” is way too ambiguous. I’d ask for clarification. It could mean she wants you to commit to her before even really knowing her. Perhaps she treated her last guy like crap and she wants to make sure you can handle more of her crap then the last guy. Perhaps, she really just wants kids and wants to ensure you are capable and willing to financially support her goals.

As I’m thinking about this, I’m realizing that to me, it’s more important to me that she has good boobs then she share my thoughts on marriage. It’s pretty much irrelevant actually. She can walk whenever she wants. Boobs can be deal breaker, and I’m not paying to fix them.

Ok. Then do it.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

experienced wrote:

My apologies to any male this offends.
When a woman’s opener in online dating immediately brings up the importance of marriage, an appropriate counter move may well be asking her if she initiated her “divorced” status by being the one who filed for divorce.
No answer or an affirmative one immediately points out that you are dealing with a hypocrite of the worst kind.

Even a negative answer points out she’s a hypocrite. And is actually the worst answer.

If she valued marriage all that much she wouldn’t have given her ex-husband cause to file for divorce. And you know she must have given him a damn good reason to divorce her because the tremendous cost of divorce means most men stick it out instead. “Cheaper to keep her.” If the divorce court meat grinder is preferable to staying with this woman, why would you want anything to do with her?

ANY time a divorced woman talks about “the importance of marriage”, SHE IS LYING. She’s really talking about the importance of getting your stuff.

[experiencedParticipant]

@ sidecar, Thank you for the clarity.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[JosephParticipant 125]

Your answer should depend on what you want with her.
a) Shame her.
b) Teach her.
c) F~~~ her.

Long ago I’ve learned the little value of revenge, and the even less value to try to teach a pig how to sing, so I usually go for c).

This is what I do: First, I pretend to be all for marriage, she lower her defenses thinking that she is going to get a big fish. I make sure she knows I have money, but in a way that looks accidental (“sorry this weekend I need to repaint my beach house”). Then, when she is hooked online, I move to real life meeting.

I bring the topic of sex of the second real date. Usually they act all like “I am not that type of woman”. I ask them whether they ever had sex of a first date and they tell me about “mistakes” with “assholes”. And then with one sentence I pin them against the wall like this:
– “If you agreed to have sex with an asshole on a first date, I wonder why you do not want to have sex with a gentleman such as myself until you feel ready. I guess this is because you are not attracted to me…”.

Then she bites the bail real hard saying something on the lines of her being attracted to me, which makes me pull her out of the water with a single master move:
– “So, you had sex with a random guy, but with a nice guy you actually are attracted to you do not want to have sex. I think you are playing games and I am not interested”.

Then she is all apologetic to the point of showing me a good time.

This trick, or variations of it, never ever failed me with these types of women. So feel free to use it. And use them of course 🙂

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

What I don’t understand with these divorced women is that they probably married a blue pill Beta in their 30’s after a decade plus on the c~~~ carousel.

They got the house, money and children they thought they wanted but ultimately they hate their boring lives in the suburbs. They give their husband the “I am not happy” speech, have a Facebook affair and get all excited about f~~~ing younger men on the c~~~ carousel again.

But after a couple of years of this they decide they want a relationship again so look for another blue pill sucker. Usually these guys are an exact replica of the guy they divorced a few years previously because she was bored and “not happy”.

They find him, move him into the house she scammed from her ex husband and she is in exactly the same situation she was in before. The only difference is she has caused untold misery to the children and her ex husband but then again none of that matters as long as the woman is happy.

Either that or the boyfriends get worse and worse until she is on her own with cats moaning about where all the good men have gone.

I guarantee that every single divorced woman in her early 40’s has followed the exact same story as before. When you ask them why they got divorced the standard answer is “we just grew apart”.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

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