What would you tell your daughter(s)?

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

For those of you with daughter(s), what advice would you give them regarding how to deal with relationships?

would you explain the red pill stuff or just tell her to find a white knight?

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

@Bunker Mode

nice avatar pic! i see that u changed it recently

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HitmanParticipant]

a man can only do what is humanly possible ..let the young girls understand that boys are, better at some things and not at other things ,
if she wants respect she must give respect..
that she has choices that come with consequences .
that being fair with others is the best strategy for living a happy life ..
not to be a tease with her sexuality ..
to have standards that are realistic ..
also expectations that are realistic..
that what comes around goes around ..
to create good karma for herself ..
that treating others well and fairly is a reward in itself..
that there are NO knights in shining armour to rescue her !
that if she finds a man who wants to be in a relationship with her,and she feels the same ,that it isn’t 50/50 , it’s 100/100 .
lastly , to follow their own heart and NOT their friends advice ..

[GrumpyParticipant]

Sadly, I have just recently learned that despite every effort, every sacrifice, every piece of advice, every pearl of wisdom, every advantage, every experience in life, that I have shared and imparted to my daughter, in order for her to grow up as a decent, self respecting, honest human being, was a colossal waste of time and energy.
If I had to do it over again, I would do it for a son, anyone’s son, just not a daughter again, she didn’t listen at all.
I sometimes feel shame, because I am Thankful my line dies with me.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[PhiloParticipant 84]

Interesting question and I have to admit I have never given it any though since I do not have a daughter. I think the most tempting path is to try and guide daughters to follow more of a NAWALT path to increase their chances of finding someone worth being with. I would think that the more NAWALT-like she turns out the better her chances of finding happiness in relationships with men. Of course that should also include a serious effort to impart to her good tools to help her separate the wheat from the chaff where men are concerned (because lets face it, we are not all “good catches”).

Now having just said that, I have to wonder if you might not just end up imparting her with an overactive tendency for hypergamy and then have her turn out to be the kind of woman that men would be better off without. Would wanting to do the best you can for your daughter mean turning her into the kind of women who ultimately drives more men toward MGTOW?

Rather ironic is it not?.

This above all: to thine own self be true - William Shakespeare

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

I have my own point of view as to how a relationship may be successful.

Disclaimer. I haven’t been part of a successful relationship with a woman.

The concept that a person would enter in to a long time or lifetime agreement with a life partner and help mate requires;

Friendship
Respect
Acceptance – The more important because it is the harder to understand and realize. If you marry a drummer in a weekend rock and roll band. Having a ring on your finger does NOT automatically imbue him him with the realization that it is time to quit his weekend activities. Either clear the air to start, or move on.
Priorities – When in a relationship, your significant other is more important that parents, friends, or acquaintances. If they are not more important then you are not in a real relationship but in an agreement to provide money and resources to cohabitate.
Wysiswyg – What you see is what you get. Be true to yourself. Don’t present a false face or agenda. I say this in light of the fact that my ex presented herself as a person that I never saw again after “I put a ring on it”.
Integrity – If a person does not have strong moral principles or lacks the courage to do what is right, then that person will be an execrable life partner. In which case this person will misrepresent who they are and have a hidden agenda that does not recognize that the other person is a human being that is entitled to anything that she believes she is entitled to.

You partner comes first in all things. Even when there are children. If the partner doesn’t come first when there are children, then after they are raised and gone from the house, the best you can ask for is that you are living with a complete stranger that you MAY want to try to get to know all over again.

Itemized and bulleted to be sure but this is the benefit of my experience. This is the same experience and observation that I am sharing with my sons.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[BeeParticipant 700]

I want to teach my daughter to be smart and self reliant. She should not depend on a man economically or for personal identity. Prince charming may not show up or it may not last. Either way, you’ll be less shocked if you’re prepared to go on your own.

That and no pregnancy before age 25.

I don’t really know how these ideals will take. She’s 10 and mainly a game addict.

[UntamedParticipant]

I have never much gotten involved in my daughters’ relationships, simply because I know who they are and know they have the same deep sense of Justice in them as in myself. And I respect them too much to get my nose in their affairs. They’re smart cookies, much smarter than I was at their age and I know they’ll handle their private affairs for the best of everyone involved.
I simply told them that in any relationship they need to make damn sure they are respected to the fullest as Human Beings and should respect their friends/boyfriend/lover just as much and as soon as RESPECT is gone it wipes out any notion of relationship.
I’m not much worried of how bad they’d treat others, my daughters are decent persons with morals and would not make another person suffer. I’m more worried that their character would cause them to be taken advantage of… But so far, they’re doing great in life.
I’m a proud dad!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 0]

Treat her as same as I would if I had a son. Tell them the harsh truths about males and females and hope they lead a happy life. Also all that nasty stuff you like doing, your daughter will be doing it with other guys and your son will be f~~~ing the s~~~ out of someones daughter too. I have six sister and 5 niece. They beat it out of me to never look at women as some special being that above everyone.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I don’t have daughters but I have 2 nieces and I have thought about this carefully long ago. When she’s ready to start dating I would teach her a few things:

1. Stay off the pole and don’t be a stripper. ( If your daughter’s a stripper, you f~~~ed up. )

2. The way to a man’s heart is not through his stomach – or zipper. You want a man to come back to you and only you? It’s much easier than feeding or f~~~ing him. Learn it.

( Most women haven’t got a clue about what I’m talking about. )

3. Have sex if you want, with whomever you want, whenever you want, as often as you want. BUT…. don’t ever think it will get you anything else – or blame him for not giving it to you – just because you imagined it.

A girl will 2 brain cells in her head will now re-think her motivations.
If you’re thinking sex should get you anything but laid….. don’t have sex.

4. If he doesn’t call you again, it doesn’t mean “he’s an asshole”.
It means HE DOESN”T LIKE YOU.

5. ALL of your choices and decisions are your responsibility.
You will pay for ALL of your own mistakes.

Untamed wrote:

I’m a proud dad!

Thats’ awesome.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

I have a daughter. She’s a great kid, and has the problem of not doing work that she doesn’t like to do, but has to be done. Just like her mother. About the only thing I would “say” are the following variants of what I already tell her: “do what you need to do, so you can do what you want to do” and “you get and value what you work for”

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

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