What should I do??!! Please help.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Blue Skies wrote:

Maybe they want to see me dating more to prove I am not gay.

Prove that you’re not gay? They’d first have to prove that you are. That would be a laugh to watch.

[mp357Participant 531]

thx for posting, lots of guys experience this from there parents, especially immigrants, my advice is just keep on keepin on, they probably think you will get married because your in that age range. just stick to your guns and live your life eventually they will stop when they see it aint gonna happen.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Blue Skies wrote:

I have already told them I do not want to get married but they won’t stop bothering me about it.

Ask them if they are volunteering to pay all the divorce costs, child support, and alimony etc. out of their own retirement funds when the woman inevitably divorces you. Tell them you’re going to need that in a legally binding contract, signed, witnessed, and notarized before a judge.

Don’t let them fool you, getting married is not a part of growing up. But telling your parents, “No.” is.

[VenomParticipant 310]

My aunt’s ex told me “I’m definitely going to get married by the age of 25”. My aunt said something after that on which I don’t remember, and all I said in response was:

I’d rather be single and rich

My parents also want me to get married. My mom is more passive at hinting this and my dad is definitely more blunt.

My mom wants me to get in a relations~~~ because I may or may not have autism (and she wants someone to “look after me”) and my dad wants me to get married because “the bible tells us to go forth and multiply!”

I haven’t explained to my mom why I don’t want to get married yet, but I just tell my dad “Jesus was never married!” And he shuts up after that.

So if your parents are religious, just bring up Jesus.

[AFTParticipant 2722]

I haven’t found the right girl yet, I’m waiting for the one that will buy me a big expensive ring, bend down and propose to me, then buy me a house and car, and support me financially for the rest of my life.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[Cap285Participant 6007]

You can go ol’ Uncle Cap’s route if you like.

Politely drop some red pills.

They ignore you? One good alcohol fueled rant should shut them up.

It works. Trust me.

Fuck this planet.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

AFT wrote:

I haven’t found the right girl yet, I’m waiting for the one that will buy me a big expensive ring, bend down and propose to me, then buy me a house and car, and support me financially for the rest of my life.

yup, that is what i’m looking for. haha

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HitmanParticipant]

Cap285 wrote:

You can go ol’ Uncle Cap’s route if you like.

Politely drop some red pills.

They ignore you? One good alcohol fueled rant should shut them up.

It works. Trust me.

how f~~~ing TRUE !!!
K-M ..had to watch ” let a woman in your life ” twice so far ..it has got to be “the sermon on the mount ” of MGTOW ! thank you good sir , for the amazing clip .and for keeping things running like a well oiled swiss time-piece..
Saver..the guys above said it all for me , but i swear i would pay a 1000.00$ U.S. to recite the lyrics from my fair lady to your parents ! they will be in AWE !..keep us posted !

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Keymaster wrote:

….. and then I quietly enjoyed my desert — while my sister-in-law was burning holes through me with her eyes. Inside, I was laughing my head off.

Can you share more of your epic tales, please? I love this!

sidecar wrote:

Ask them if they are volunteering to pay all the divorce costs, child support, and alimony etc. out of their own retirement funds when the woman inevitably divorces you. Tell them you’re going to need that in a legally binding contract, signed, witnessed, and notarized before a judge.

I tried this with my dad right now since he’s always hinting that I should get married.

He said “ok, no problem. Where do I sign?”

[Anonymous 7]

Try to appease them. With every negative they throw at you combat it with a positive. Telling them s~~~ they don’t want to hear even if it’s factual might not make a dent.
Give them the positive benefits stuff they want to here like being successful and cut out the negatives.
Tell them how you not marrying can benefit them and you.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

The key is not to give them anything, Simply refuse to have a conversation about this.
I told my mom – Everything is great, but this is too personal for me to discuss. I’d like to keep my love life private. She backed off. If I tried to explain MGTOW to her – this would had been a pandora’s box I could never put a lid on.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Russky wrote:

The key is not to give them anything, Simply refuse to have a conversation about this.
I told my mom – Everything is great, but this is too personal for me to discuss. I’d like to keep my love life private. She backed off. If I tried to explain MGTOW to her – this would had been a pandora’s box I could never put a lid on.

Very good strategy! Arguements wont convince your parents anyways.

[experiencedParticipant]

Tell her, “Sons ‘marry’ their mom’s.”
Ask her, “Do you think I will be happy with a woman who will nag me until, she gets the answer she wants?”
Tell her, “80% of divorces are initiated by the woman.” Ask her, “Who do you think is given custody in the majority of the cases?”. “Now, aware of that, are you telling me you would go past me to see those grandkids?”
“What’s more important to you, my happiness or your plans?”
“It’s not the same world you grew up in mom, not by a long shot.”

As for sisters in laws etc. bringing up difficult topics ask, “Am I to understand that difficult topics are free game today?” ……………………..? ………………..?

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Oneforfreedom wrote:

He said “ok, no problem. Where do I sign?”

Are you surprised? He already made the mistake he’s asking you to make.

Now go see if your mother is as eager to lose her nest egg to some young golddigger. If necessary have a lawyer draw up a contract for her to sign right then and there.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

AFT. Best answer by far!

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Blue Skies wrote:

hat should I tell them? What should I do?

I was in the absolute same situation 2 years ago.
I just avoided unnecessary contact with them.
If you have a room spend your time there.If you have a lock on the door and a key even better.
Just stop seeking talk with them.
Once you shut your inner door to them they’ll give up eventually.

Remember they have brains of their own.
If they know you’ll never listen to them they’ll stop trying to convince you of anything.
This doesn’t mean starting arguments/being hostile or anything of the sort.
Your father will eventually understand and agree to disagree.
Your mother……well….

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