What just happened?

[Anonymous 38]

What happened was your desire to be ‘nice’ got you into something you don’t want to be in.

Ultimately you will have to learn to not fall into these traps if you want to go your own way.

The first trap you fell into was not showing your true self to your friend. Dish out red pills liberally to the people around you, it’s a good insurer against this kind of s~~~.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

This story sounds utterly insane. Why would anyone allow themselves to be goaded into an unnecessary “friendship”?

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

SH3LLZ wrote:

This story sounds utterly insane. Why would anyone allow themselves to be goaded into an unnecessary “friendship”?

Most people are imbicels.

They don’t observe, they don’t learn, they don’t understand and when the inevitable happens they cry, bitch, complain and blame everyone and everything.

MGTOW lifestyle is as basic as it gets.
And they still can’t do it.

It’s hopeless.

Monk

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

I have known people like the OP all my life and it never ends well for them. This is a character flaw that they have where they have to try and please everyone at their own expense even when they know it is harmful to them. The word NO is not in their vocabulary unless it is something so severe and even then they will sit around and try to contemplate if no is the right response.

Listen closely this is for your own good OP. People are like fire if you play with it you get burned and just because they say they are your “friend” does not mean they are even though they might have known you for years. The people you call friends are parasites that are leeching everything they can from you. You know this and they know this and yet you STILL will continue down this path. So keep putting your hand in the fire and keep getting burned you have only yourself to blame for the mess you keep putting yourself in.

You want to stop getting burned and s~~~ on all the time? Start saying NO every time someone asks you for something. Watch how fast your so called friends begin to abandon you and I think that is what you are most afraid of. You will never be able to please everyone in this world it is impossible the only person that matters is you because when you die you will be alone when it happens and all those people you tried to help and please and always say yes to will not be around in your final hour. Learn to love yourself and not worry about what other people think about you because the thing you want most is respect and admiration from your peers but the ironic thing is no one respects a man that can never say no.

By doing this you will set yourself free from the shackles of your own creation and start to live a good life for yourself. Also that friend of yours is not a friend kick him to the curb you can do much better and the easiest way to get rid of him is to start saying no. Good luck brother.

[MonkParticipant 16977]

crushhighlander wrote:

What I want to know is this. Did I inadvertently act blue pill-like by accepting to talk to her a bit […] I very steadfastly welcome any suggestions and/or observances any of you guys may have. Thanks bros.

*SLAP*

You did ask.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22506]

Yes, yes you did act blue pill. But just remember, being red pill/ngtow does not mean you can’t be as polite as you want while being so. Its just about being firm and confident about it. Many ways to be diplomatic and not be sucked into something you don’t want to do.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[GregB0Participant]

crushhighlander wrote:

do you actually think my pal just pulled a rather sleazy trick and decided to get me to talk to her so she would withdraw attention from him and focus it on me? Finally, what the hell can I do to cut this short without making it obvious, if possible? I very steadfastly welcome any suggestions and/or observances any of you guys may have. Thanks bros.

Yes, he pulled a smoke and mirrors to get away from her and give her another object to obsess over.
If you speak to her again, you can say that you were asked by your friend to meet her and that you have absolutely no interests in relationships of ANY kind. Nothing more and nothing less.

Good luck

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Did I inadvertently act blue pill-like

I think you just answered your own question. This man is an asshole and not your friend. You need to lose his number too.

As for the cow, it’s time for Ghost Protocol. She’s an ugly, desperate, single mom looking to latch onto something less unstable than her “no sex on the first date” policy.

You also need to revisit your stance on your golden rule. May I suggest the old-school Will Smith addendum: “Don’t start nothing, won’t BE nothing.”

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Personally, I would Walk Away from both of them.

Call your “friend” in a couple/few weeks, but if he brings it up again, I would ghost him for at least a month, and if he persisted I would walk PERMANATELY.

I would IMMEDIATELY GHOST the HO.

Adhering to the “Golden Rule” does not mean that you have to do what others want you to do especially when it’s as HORRIBLE as this situation IS. Doing this just makes you a Door Mat.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Your friend’s opinion of you amounts to an ill, single mother. Not much of a friend if you ask me..

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Arcturis wrote:

crushhighlander wrote:

When I asked for a picture I got a very unlikable surprise. Not only is she highly unattractive, but she’s a single mother and is rather ill.

DO NOT play this game Brother.

There is NO WIN situation here for you.

Just ‘lose’ her number, you don’t have to explain yourself!

This is true, quite so.

Thanks for the reminder, I really needed it. *Thumbs Up*

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

CombatRoll wrote:

@crushhighlander

You have the same flaw that I do. I cannot be rude. It is not in my DNA, unless someone is a total f~~~ing dumbass douchebag (in which case I can be violently rude).

I also cannot turn my back on someone. It is a f~~~ing curse. Most guys can walk away from an ugly bitch who is in need b/c … well she’s ugly and she’s in need.

GO DARK NOW

I will call it the curse of my life. Reason I’m like this, which I think happens to you too, is because we don’t want to come across as unadapted and anti-social, as serial killers usually are, but then again there’s use and there’s abuse.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

JB Books wrote:

Dude: Are you crazy?? And, although you allowed yourself to become a chump, let your buddy know you ain’t intetested in becoming a beta simp.

That I was brother, that I was.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Monk wrote:

Ghost Protocol

I did need that. I gotta be honest, lately I’ve not been myself. It seems that I got infected with the love bug (read desire to bang) ever since I saw a couple of dancers a few weeks ago. You guys can say I’ve managed to sober up more or less after that, and though it’s quite clear that I won’t be near this “lady” at all, let’s just say that my social attitudes have been off-sync, hence my inability to automatically refuse such an offer of “friendship” as I would’ve done before this whole shebang.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Anonymous wrote:

The first trap you fell into was not showing your true self to your friend. Dish out red pills liberally to the people around you, it’s a good insurer against this kind of s~~~.

I think that what happened now is that I was overestimating this guy’s red-pill like attitudes. I thought my explanation would be able to wait, but I guess that despite the facts, he still needs to learn stuff.

And you’re right, I need to manifest this more, which I do, but more energetically so.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Meister wrote:

You should look into the mirror and ask yourself what’s wrong with yourself.

You seem to have no discrimination or willpower.

Get your s~~~ together for f~~~ sake!!!!!!

Thanks for your words bro. I did need that glass of cold water in my face.

Meister wrote:

This “friend” is not your friend. He obviously does not have your well being in mind at all. This should be blatantly obvious, unless you are retarded.

Why are you going on “dates”?
I don’t think you can answer that question.

Why are you hanging out with a random, sick, ugly, old single mum?
I don’t think you can answer that question either.

I’m not actually going on dates, or hanging out really. It’s through Fakebook, which I’ve honestly thought of deleting for a while but I can’t quite do so as this is the only way I have of communicating with some friends and family who live in other parts of the world.

Yet, I figured it out. I blocked this person and will tell this guy if he brings it up that she wasn’t someone I was looking forward to talk to.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

crushhighlander wrote:

Thanks for the reminder, I really needed it. *Thumbs Up*

Welcome back 😀

Deleted her number yet?

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Awakened wrote:

Personally, I would Walk Away from both of them.

Call your “friend” in a couple/few weeks, but if he brings it up again, I would ghost him for at least a month, and if he persisted I would walk PERMANATELY.

I would IMMEDIATELY GHOST the HO.

Adhering to the “Golden Rule” does not mean that you have to do what others want you to do especially when it’s as HORRIBLE as this situation IS. Doing this just makes you a Door Mat.

You’re right sir, I call this whole situation a wake-up call and need to refocus.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Arcturis wrote:

crushhighlander wrote:

Thanks for the reminder, I really needed it. *Thumbs Up*

Welcome back

Deleted her number yet?

Haha, did it hours ago bro.

Plus, I think all of you guys gave me better tips as to how drop the red pill, which I lacked as I unfortunately don’t know any MGTOW in person.

Thanks for your words. And good day.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

Samsquanch wrote:

Your friend’s opinion of you amounts to an ill, single mother. Not much of a friend if you ask me..

I think he’s confused. He was also serving me a loaded situation as he says she is “so nice”, but I came to terms after I saw that he didn’t do anything to date her even though he’s single now.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

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