What is this woman's plan?

[flaccidpancakesParticipant 5]

I am a 19 year old guy who has had many failed relationships due to women being manipulative and what have you of their nature. I was raised by my dad mostly all my life since my mom filed for divorce on my dad when I was about 6 or 7, My dad ended up getting custody to raise me because the court decided on my opinion as a kid (even though I remember it vaguely) was to either live with my mom or dad and I chose to live with my dad. Throughout the years of my life while growing up I have seen my dad date and go off and on with many women. My father is devoutly religious and even though I am not, it seems like he has found a woman who is the same faith and is a good woman so to speak.

My Father met this woman when I was 17 so I was still in High School at the time. Here we are today and I am currently 19 and still living with my dad while attending college and he is still with her, Even so to the point that she even helped him start renovating our house with granite counter tops. This woman is also has a daughter that I am also particularly close with and we are the same age. We have both found a liking to each other so it would suck if my dad broke ties with this woman on the other hand because I would not be able to see her daughter anymore since things have gotten quite intimate and you could even consider us in a relationship, But her mother does not know about this stuff or activities that I have with her daughter.

My dad on the other hand is not a poor sap and has a very good paying job with some investments in the stock market and precious metal that he has told me to be worth a half a million dollars and will pass to me in his will, So it’s no wonder that this woman wants to latch down on him. I love my father very much for the great role model he is but even though this woman is down to heart and looks like she has nothing but love for me and my father, I feel as if she is hiding something now that I learn from the MGTOW community and general relationships in the past and the nature of women. SO, What do you think of this situation and what is her plan end game so I could maybe point hints to the situation that will be at hand in the future to my father.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

flaccidpancakes wrote:

I am a 19 year old guy who has had many failed relationships

If there is one thing I can tell you …. at 19, don’t even THINK about a “relationship”. They aren’t really “failed” relationships, they just “didn’t work”. There’s a difference.

they are not SUPPOSED to work. When you’re 19 (or younger) you’ve only been an adult for ONE YEAR. That’s a spit in the Ocean. Buy the time you are 21, you will have been an adult for already twice as long. And multiply that x3 when you are 30.

So have fun, and don’t even pressure yourself to make a relationship “work”.

flaccidpancakes wrote:

What do you think of this situation and what is her plan end game

I won’t pretend to know what your father’s woman’s end game or plan is.

flaccidpancakes wrote:

I feel as if she is hiding something now that I learn from the MGTOW

What you might learn here is less about predicting the future and more about being aware of the present. Women aren’t as clever as hiding their agendas as they think. When you’re red pill you can see it clearly. They reveal themselves very easily. If you’re not getting vibes and hints then maybe don’t try and conjure them up.

Interesting situation with her daughter. I can’t say I would allow myself to be in that situation. The daughter of the woman my Dad is dating would be “off limits” and inviting disaster. Of course I’m being judgmental. But just because I wouldn’t, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t. I don’t see much good in sneaking around.

You’re keeping it a secret from them because you know it’s not really right too.

Yes?

While the secrecy of it may be “exciting” how exciting would it be if they found out? Ask yourself that and whether or not it’s worth it.

Like I said, I’m being judgmental, so don’t listen to me on that.
This is MGTOW. You’ll know what to do.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[flaccidpancakesParticipant 5]

Those friendships I had were when I was young (I still am) with girls who wanted to play games and I never really saw myself being with them but only for sex. On the other hand I feel the same way with her daughter as she is all in for whatever I want to do. I will be doing my own thing far in the future so it won’t be important, Thanks for the response and I will keep it in mind.

[Truthseekr303Participant 34]

Young mgtow. You haven’t given any red flags in your descriptions. There’s a small chance she may actually love your father. At this point it’s wait and observe. True concern should arise if your father speaks of marriage. That’s when your inherited assets will come into danger. Like a lion stalking it’s prey, be patient. When genuine concern hits, address your father respectfully like a man. Best of luck

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I think there are two questions hidden in your post:

1. Is it wrong to bang this woman who could become my step-sister? That’s up to you, but I’m with Keymaster on that one.

2. Can I count on getting my dad’s inheritance? If a woman’s involved, no.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Be prepared to acknowledge you’re f~~~ing your step-sister to your dad &/or her mother.

PS: Listen to KeyMaster. He’s forgotten more about how women’s minds function than I will ever know.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[flaccidpancakesParticipant 5]

It’s not that I’m even concerned about the inheritance or the money in his will since I’m not going to get all of it only but only a small portion split among 2 and myself, It’s that I don’t want this lady to come in and take what doesn’t belong to her as I suspect she is trying to trap my dad because I know she will try to manipulate him. I also have a half brother and sister but they are only related by my mom since they have different dads but they will be getting a portion of the money in his will too, They are also a lot older than me and my dad is a father figure to both of them.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Dear Flacid:

Now that you are 19 you should have a quiet sit-down with your dad. Just you and him. Explain to him your concerns about the uncertainty of the future. He will fully understand, since he has been through the ringer already.

If your father puts all of his assets into an “Alter Ego Trust” (Alter means Other and Ego means Self). So really he is sort of establishing a twin (another self). All of the assets he owns (house, mutual funds, precious metal, etc,) that he places into an Alter Ego Trust belong to him until the second he dies. He can do with them what he wants. He can add assets, subtract assets, manage assets, buy and sell or what ever he wants to do while he is still alive. The moment he dies, all of his assets then belong to the Alter Ego Trust. They are not left up in the air, with everyone wondering who they belong to. While he is alive, he names the Trustee to the Trust, and the beneficiaries he wants the assets to go to, and in what proportions, and this information is included in the Alter Ego Trust documents.

Assets held by an Alter Ego Trust are not part of his Last Will and Testament. They are completely separate because he no longer owns them. They became the property of the Alter Ego Trust the instant he died. The Alter Ego Trust can not be challenged by a surviving spouse. They are not subject to probate, and are not taxable.

Take some time and read about it on the internet, and maybe give your dad some brief information, about what an Alter Ego Trust is and why it is a good idea.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

They don’t have a plan, it’s changes day to day.

Their longterm plan, be a gold digging c~~~.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[AttonParticipant]

Their plan is simple, do whatever suits them when it suits them. That is what women have done for all of human history. They adapt and change too the enviroment to achieve maximum success, that is really all there is to it. Women say they have been historically oppressed but the truth is they haven’t. Their strength comes from the perception of past victimization thus this narrative suits them. Whatever suits them they will do identify this and you can predict what they will do.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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