what is the worst thing your ex said to you…

[treznik87Participant 570]

what is the worst thing your ex said to you and you had stayed in relationship regardless?

For me it was once i decided to discuss about dead bedroom problem with my ex gf… (both 27 back then).

We havent had sex for more then a month (5 or 6 weeks) and it wasnt the first time (we didnt live together)… So since she was telling me something I didnt do / wasnt as it should be in her mind, I payed her back with telling her how not perfect she is – I told her about a friend ranting about sex only once a week and how other laughed at him, but all i could do was look down and be quiet because I get it once per month if lucky…

She replied with ‘You poor thing that havent had sex for a whole month’.
Should have dumped her right on the spot but of course i didnt.

And the winner: She said to my friend she wants a child soon (before 30) and if I dont want to be a father by then someone else will be…

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

1) She told me her sister cheated on her husband with a smile on her face and eyes sparkling
2) “I’m calling the cops”

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[narwhalParticipant]

“What do you mean, eventually you have to pay more then the minimum payment on a credit card?”

Ok. Then do it.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Can’t remember. I remember that she talked a lot but I can’t remember anything that she said.

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 16]

1) What are you doing? with the most disgusted face i ever saw ( it was her birthday and i was helping her undress to go bed after a dinner out and 600e pendants)
2) next day: Did you ever think about maybe i hooked up with you in cuba while we where students couse I WAS ALONE? (after 14 years marriage.
3) the truth is im in love with the 21 years old student that i introduced you, and comes to run with us every 2 or 3 days.
4) Its not my foult if you give all your existance to me.
5) I dont want anythinh bad happening to you couse i wont be able to live happy with him.
6) I fantasized almost all the time while in bed (with actor or what ever, anything except me).
7) I never really felt atracted to you, but you were good to me, you make me laugh and i felt great arround you.
8) i married you couse it felt like the RIGTH THING TO DO.
9) i was out the marriage like 2 months after we signed the papers

Yup i took all those blows in the most dificult last 6 months of my career, around christmas, in a foreing country with no other family or frieds near by (a few coworkers but we never were too close).

[Anonymous 54]

Got called a worthless loser. By an x girlfriemd I was willing to die for to protect her. (Stupid white night story ill post .)

C~~~.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

“I view you more as a friend then a husband”. This was after Chad had entered the picture and I confronted her. To my credit, the next day I was at the lawyers office.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[HitmanParticipant]

in marriage counseling,
she said “i was giving you a hard time on purpose for the last year because i wanted you to leave”.
i replyed ‘ why would i leave ? we have a beautiful new baby and a beautiful little home “..
she said ” because your’e a piece of s~~~ and i figured you would leave if i gave you HELL”.
.
she split a month later.
.
guys, i wanted the family to work so badly..
i offered her ANY arrangement she wanted to stay..
i even told her she could get a boyfriend ..
not have sex with me..
ANYTHING.
she said no to every offer.
she later said ” as soon as the baby was born i hated you and was planning to divorce you “..
.
i was such a brainwashed blue-pill idiot..
i’m still recovering from how shocked i was at MY behavior.
.
she said many , many other nasty insulting things..
i would try to calm her down..
it rarely worked.
gifts,
cards..
it’s impossible to make every day like a birthday party to keep someone happy..when their mind was made up to be miserable.
i wasted so much time and effort..
i wanted the family to work..
.
now i see it was a blessing when she left.
i’m so glad to not be living with her!

[Anonymous 11]

Oh God, where do I begin?

This one is really pretty good. I was once dating this one particular wack-a-doodle of many. She goes to take a shower and writes a former lover’s name from 18 years prior into the steamed up shower door glass. She exits the shower sucking on a bead necklace that I later learned was given to her by him. She immediately starts a fight with me over nothing, and then wants to have sex right then and there. Mr. Happy does not ever want to play when I’m angry.

Why did I stay around? Blue pill would be the answer.

F~~~ing head case so no wonder I went MGTOW.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

@hitman – holy s~~~ it must have been rough for you. thanks God for MGTOW setting you straight

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[TaxGuyParticipant]

The worst thing my ex ever said to me?

I do…………

Order the good wine

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

This is a difficult choice.

Once after working a 60 hour week to buy her things, I played golf on a Sunday rather than take her to her church. She said I was “evil”and the “Anti-Christ”.

And of course she told me “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” And the famous “I’m not happy.”

There is no amount of money that can satisfy a women. She always wants more.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9572]

I really shouldn’t post, because I never got involved in the first place. I’ve always liked hanging with the fellas.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Hitman wrote:

in marriage counseling,
she said “i was giving you a hard time on purpose for the last year because i wanted you to leave”.
i replyed ‘ why would i leave ? we have a beautiful new baby and a beautiful little home “..
she said ” because your’e a piece of s~~~ and i figured you would leave if i gave you HELL”.
.
she split a month later.
.
guys, i wanted the family to work so badly..
i offered her ANY arrangement she wanted to stay..
i even told her she could get a boyfriend ..
not have sex with me..
ANYTHING.
she said no to every offer.
she later said ” as soon as the baby was born i hated you and was planning to divorce you “..
.
i was such a brainwashed blue-pill idiot..
i’m still recovering from how shocked i was at MY behavior.
.
she said many , many other nasty insulting things..
i would try to calm her down..
it rarely worked.
gifts,
cards..
it’s impossible to make every day like a birthday party to keep someone happy..when their mind was made up to be miserable.
i wasted so much time and effort..
i wanted the family to work..
.
now i see it was a blessing when she left.
i’m so glad to not be living with her!

Hitman. Thank-you for sharing brother.

I was down on myself thinking I was the only one who bent over backwards to make my marriage work; wishing I could go back in time to kick my own ass.

You are in good company – if I had a child with the ex, I would have done the same as you – I guarantee. If it is any consolation, sharing your experience has brought me even more closure.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[TaxGuyParticipant]

A pal had his wife call out her lovers name in passion moments.

Opps!

I call bulls~~~! If he was married, he wasn’t having sex…..

Order the good wine

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

“I love you.”

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 16]

TaxGuy wrote:

I call bulls~~~! If he was married, he wasn’t having sex…..

HAHAHAHA

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I was seeing a married girl for a while – I entirely regret this, but it happened. One day she was acting like a total c~~~ for no reason. Then she just thought out loud about the way she was treating me and said : “why am I being a bitch to him, HE’S not my husband”.

My mind was blown. As though it’s her duty to treat her husband in a bitchy manner. The fact that she had a guy on the side (me) who she was f~~~ing, and I was treating her kindly was NOT enough; she STILL thought it was her role to treat her husband, the father of her children, and her provider like s~~~. It was so eye-opening. Just a glimpse into their f~~~ed up minds. They are insane.

Oh, and for the record she ALWAYS convinced me that the only reason why she was cheating was because her husband didn’t do ‘x, y, or z’. As though he was the one treating her like s~~~. The more I got to know her, the less I believed her. She was lying through her teeth.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 0]

After I was cheated on, I was told by said ex girlfriend, after she had broken up with me, was that “you’re the kind of guy I’d marry.” She never would f~~~ me and I had treated her like a human being that I had cared about. Big mistake, I was younger and much more niave then. However, even then I thought to myself as she said this, “I bet you would bitch.” Should have said it. I was nothing but used by her and meant nothing to her. AWALT!

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

“I love you.”

The OP asked worst thing, not the biggest lie.

“I love you” is just until… magically, she doesn’t.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

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