What is a S~~~ test?

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

What is a s~~~ test and what are some examples?

Thanks

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[CPilotParticipant 79]

They’re those open ended questions and tests that have no correct answers…the person doing the “test” is looking for a way into your head to start a cycle of control and intimate partner abuse. The classic is “does this dress make me look fat?”

In hindsight, I would have answered totally honestly. Damn the f~~~ing consequences. Ex2 was gauging her power over me by my response. Stuttering, stammering, searching for an answer, trying to figure out how she wanted it answered…all my downfalls and her way in and towards control. She was a highly manipulative c~~~-with a masters in psychology to boot.

No matter how I answered I was wrong. In those situations, now I only make it right to me by being honest. Who gives a f~~~ how the person answering feels. They’re the asshole for even asking and I let them know.

For a better explanation http://shrink4men.com/2013/05/29/abused-men-how-covert-abuse-begins-part-one/

A man that stops caring is a big deal.

[a bananaParticipant 288]

This vid should explain it well enough
example of s~~~ test:”does this dress make me look fat” its basically a loaded question or demand, she wants something but by giving it to her she loses respect for you and by not giving it she resents you, but wont lose respect for you in the long run, basically spoiled child type situation.

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

A s~~~ test is a way for wimin to find the boundaries, to push your buttons until you loose your s~~~, hence s~~~ test.

This can be in the form of a question or even more commonly ( in my experience ) something they do.

An example might be if she tells you to do something, get her a drink, go put out the trash, go to the store to buy her some tampons ( No s~~~, I have had that one more than once! ).

Another is when she twitters in your ear about some banal s~~~ when you are trying to watch the game, or when you are talking to her she picks up her phone and pretends to look at SMS messages.

Its all about power and who in the relationship holds it. Women basically detest beta males and so they use s~~~ tests to see if you are an alpha or a beta.

There is no reason a MGTOW should give a s~~~ about s~~~ testing, it’s much more important to game and PUA.

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[Anonymous 42]

CPilot wrote:

She was a highly manipulative c~~~-with a masters in psychology to boot.

Hey C-pilot, I had one of those psychogists post wall divorced pieces of s~~~ try to lure me in, I politely ignored all her advances and she became as cold as the center of Antarctica, she displayed her other side as I suspected, and expected, I played her like a cheap flute! The countless headf~~~ery I avoided in her is truly PRICELESS!
GO MGTOW!!!
Her on/off nature was the predominant indicator to her totally modern f~~~ed mindset!
She also told me she was filing sexual harassment charges on her male boss, that was the last and final nail in her coffin. I smoked that bitch like a cheap cigar! SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED, NOTHING! Ole MG-Tower got what he deserves; sanity, security, serenity, and happiness! I owe no woman ANYTHING!

[UntamedParticipant]

Head games.
Things girls and weemins do and say that have neither head or tail answers but often unexpected results, and they do that JUST to see your reaction.
Some of those results could be to belittle you and/or get you in a difficult awkward situation.
One thing a weemin cannot stand to see is a man who’s content. Weemins will invent all kinds of crazy situations for you to be in, standing there looking stupid and babbling some incoherent crap.
EVERY decision MUST be made by YOU according to YOUR mind and not that of a t~~~. That is a basis for mgtow living in my opinion and a good way to deal with s~~~ tests.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

S~~~ tests are women trying to get in your head, making you constantly prove your worth to her. They never end, and there’s usually no point in playing along as the pussy no longer justifies the annoyance.

What I’ve found fun is to s~~~ test women right back and then watch them squirm, or p~~~ them off.

“does this dress make me look fat?”
“no your fat makes you look fat” or just ignore them

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[CPilotParticipant 79]

Spacemonkey,

That just happened to me this morning-the “twitters in your ear about some banal s~~~ when you are trying to watch the game” This morning after the gym I couldn’t put a finger on why the hair on my neck pickled up. I was looking up something for my work, she asked what I wanted for breakfast in my ear (a seemingly legitimate question). I tried ignoring because she usually just makes something, but this time she persisted. I closed the computer down and said “you now have my undivided attention.” When she persisted on being p~~~y I left the room. I know from both ex’s a rise out of me is my downfall. I really have no patience for it anymore. It doesn’t happen often as usually she leaves me to my own devices. A seemingly NAWALT is still an AWALT. They all have it in them. Next time I can just say “nice s~~~ test” and leave. Thank you for the daily enlightenment.

A man that stops caring is a big deal.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

S~~~ tests exist because women know nothing about MEN. I was gonna say how can you not know? If you’re not aware of them, you’re in for a constant assault on your serenity. (Thanks for reminding. This should be in our glossary).

A “s~~~ test” a Manospherian/MGTOW term for this ……. s~~~:
http://video.glamour.com/watch/the-single-life-things-girls-say-to-test-men

Note the title: “The single life. Things girls say to test men”. So don’t listen to a f~~~ing word she says, because she is a failure in her own personal life and makes music videos about it.

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… and as you can see, she is not alone.

“S~~~ tests” are called that, because that’s what a relations~~~ with one of these arrogant t~~~s is like. S~~~. Thinking she is smarter than you, a woman will “test” you with little manipulations, and base her reactions (or emotional explosions) on your response.

Example:

“Does my ass look fat in these pants?”

Now the bitch wants you to lie to her and tell her she has the most perfect ass in the whole wide world – or you “fail” her stupid s~~~ test. That’s why it’s s~~~. She wants you to tell her whatever bulls~~~ she wants to hear. Not the truth. And if you’re not a mind reader and guess exactly what that is, she will hold sex like a hostage from you for 5 days.

That’s how “s~~~ tests” work in HER mind.

But in reality, if you tell her“YES. YES IT DOES. This relationship isn’t going to work and I’m breaking up with you now.” she will be more likely to f~~~ you within the hour. That’s why women are not in a position to “test” anyone. The relationship “works” when you give her plenty to complain about.

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Men QUALIFY women.
Women attempt to DISQUALIFY Men.

When a man chooses to buy mobile phone, he compares and contrasts the POSITIVE features and makes a purchase decision based on that. When a woman “tests a man in a relationship” she does the equivalent of smashing every phone (man) on the ground. The one that does’t break and puts up with her s~~~ the most, is the one she ends up with ….. and she will now begin to convince herself he’s “the one”.

Just like s~~~-testing women know nothing about phones, they also know nothing about Men. Women use what I call the “American Idol Method” of choosing a man. It’s not the BEST singer who wins. It’s just the last of the eliminated.

And that’s why s~~~-testing woman are repeat massive failures in their own personal lives. They are not actually smart enough to be “testing” anyone. They are failing miserably themselves.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

If a woman is speaking, it’s probably a s~~~ test.

– Where do you work?
– Where do you live?
– What kind of car do you drive?
– How many girlfriends have you had?
– What was your longest relationship?

Backhanded attempts at trying to judge you. Urban Dictionary says it is “A test that a girl performs on a guy by saying or doing something to judge the reaction or response from him”.

You’re being interrogated. When she asks if you like cats and you simply tell her you’re allergic to them, a woman will use that against you as an excuse not to have sex with you.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

thanks for all the responses guys. now that i know what it is…..upon reflection of my past, i have been s~~~ tested before…

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

CPilot wrote:

They’re those open ended questions and tests that have no correct answers…the person doing the “test” is looking for a way into your head to start a cycle of control and intimate partner abuse. The classic is “does this dress make me look fat?”

That is it. S~~~ tests can also be tasks with a no win situation.

And women most women enjoy giving s~~~ tests to men, some men also enjoy giving s~~~ tests to men.

Another type of s~~~ test is people will disagree with what you say, no matter that it is. It does not matter if it is a question, answer, or simple comment. They will find some fault with what you have to say. Even up to ganging up on you. And even pulling out a book to point out how you are wrong about one little detail, while ignoring the rest of your comment. And even if you are proven right in the end, they will blame you for dragging out the who situation for just speaking in their conversation.

Perhaps most people, both men and women, are psychotic. Because that is some real psychotic behavior.

[FrederickTheGreatParticipant 235]

A man’s reaction to a s~~~ test is what defines him as a beta-simp, a PUA, or a MGTOW.

The beta-simp doesn’t know he’s being tested and tries in vain to please the woman through kindness while losing her respect. He continually fails, without ever knowing what happened.

The PUA knows about the test, spends his life studying for it, tries endlessly to get an A+ on it, and then never leaves the classroom as he is subjected to more daily testing than a student in public school. He becomes a slave to the test-giver while thinking that getting high marks is a sign of achievement.

The MGTOW crumples up the piece of paper the test is on, throws it into the ocean, and walks away to beautiful place called Freedom. We have better things to do than spend our precious time with those who mess with our heads. We’ve got our favorite music playing through our earbuds, so we don’t even hear as the test-giver runs after us asking why we decided to go our own way.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Here’s an oldie but a goody s~~~ test. A mangina is out on a date and is able to take a woman home to stay the night. During the course of the night and at different intervals, both get up to use the bathroom. In the morning she makes an off-hand remark about him leaving the toilet seat up when he’s done using the toilet. Even though it is his house/apartment she is testing him to see if he will conform and remember to put the toilet seat down for her after he uses the bathroom. If he does, she knows he will be easy to tame, manipulate and control. If he doesn’t, she will continue to badger him about it until he gives in or until they have a fight about it or something else. During any fight she will bring up this very trivial problem and use it as an excuse to inflame and escalate the fight. A typical mangina will give in and make sure the seat is down after he uses the bathroom. In the mind of a mangina, he is avoiding a fight over a trivial thing. In her mind, she sees him as a weak pussy that is easy to mold.
This is one of the most basic of the many s~~~ tests she has in her arsenal. The only winning move is to not play.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

If I’m ever gonna end up in a ‘s~~~ test’, I would prefer running away than bothering to answer. I was taught ‘running away is not the soution’ … but if ‘the solution involves sacrificing my peace of mind and my sovereignity’, … NO thank you!!

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

Varun wrote:

If I’m ever gonna end up in a ‘s~~~ test’, I would prefer running away than bothering to answer. I was taught ‘running away is not the soution’ … but if ‘the solution involves sacrificing my peace of mind and my sovereignity’, … NO thank you!!

You can always run them away. More than one way to look at it.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[Darth TyrannusParticipant 349]

A s~~~ test is when a woman tries to play psychological mind games on the man. Others stated this could involve seemingly minor questions such as “Does this dress make me look fat?” Actions also are another form of a s~~~ test and they could take the form of inciting jealously, trying to make you do chores, et cetera. There is no known way to pass the infamous “s~~~ test” so best option is to assert your authority in the relationship, by all means DO NOT GIVE IN or she will lose respect for you and BAM she divorces, cheats, or dumps you.

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