well here i go

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  • #411161
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    Bryant
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    well i know i have not been active, to tell you the truth i agree with alot of mgtow it all makes sense always has. here recently the girl i was with for 7 years ups and leaves while im at school for cummins power gen, acting like everything was ok that morning when i went to school. states ive never loved her destroyed her life never let her see her family even though her family hates me because i point out the truth to them like her mother is a whore like 2-3 different daddy’s for 4 kids.didn’t notice till i checked her art books which said “sorry i left this way without saying goodbye”. her family is very manipulative always hated me and always didn’t want me with their daughter because i always stood my ground. always trying to get her away from me.her family shoved the whole family is all that matters stick down her craw pretty hard, so she cant help it i guess.all i did to incite this was to bring up that while living in my new house she was drinking with 2 of my guy roommates and one of their guy friends and she was getting kinda drunk, so i told her the next day it makes me uncomfortable because the first day we dated she was drunk and slept with one of my frat brothers, so on the first night of dating she cheated on me. then i went on to bring up her past of when we broke up b4 and she slept with a man 10+ years her age while i slept with no one and drank all the time. she says thats the last straw because of me feeling uncomfortable and going down a logical path mentally of the past and mistakes made supposedly i never loved her or anything. always told her i didnt want kids or marriage just being together was fine and one time she got pregnant i did make her have an abortion i do regret that. and now shes on a greyhound home, im sorry to get on here and whine pretty much i just need support is all. also sorry my paragraph and sentence layout is s~~~.

    "He who lives with honor dies with honor."

    #411195
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    Awakened
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    You ARE much better WITHOUT this toxic train wreck !!

    Maybe, you had a little “White Nighting” going on thinking that you could save her, help her, or change her, or whatever.

    Some women are just born into seriously f~~~ed up homes and have seriously f~~~ed up lives from birth.

    99% of the time their lives only spiral downward.

    They will only bring you down with them if you are together long enough!!

    Consider YOURSELF LUCKY that you’re not connected via child support payments for the next 18 -21 years.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #411205
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    Bryant
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    yeah thx its just hard to deal with man

    "He who lives with honor dies with honor."

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    ApexScorpion
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    The great news is that she can’t cheat on you again.

    Can’t let women get away with that stuff, man.

    #411259
    Joetech
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    I made a big mistake last year when I decided to try to stick it out with my toxic bitch and her daughter…it almost killed me. I can’t see myself ever offering to live with a woman as her significant other again.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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    Sidecar
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    acting like everything was ok that morning when i went to school. states ive never loved her destroyed her life never let her see her family

    That’s just her blaming all her failures on you so she can pretend being a cheating slut whore wasn’t her fault.

    You are better off without her. Bullet dodged. It’s just a shame it took seven years of your life to dodge it. Now go live an awesome life and forget about her.

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    PuniShredder
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    Dude….step back..Sober..this bitch is a useless sleaze hole and you should be dancing a jig in the streets that she is gone!!!! Repeat after me “All women are whores and the only thing they have to offer is their pussy”. Act accordingly friend.

    Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

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    Rightturnclyde
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    It always sucks when a relationship ends. You’ve got an emotional past with her and no matter what any one says and no matter how f~~~ed up her situation is it’s hard to let go. Hopefully my experience will save you from making the same mistake I did. My first wife came from a horrible family – father a drunk, mother a religious zealot, sister a slut, brother in jail. I thought I could save her but I learned the hard way that you can never separate them from their family, even in a kind way. I loved her for her ability to overcome her hard upbringing and thought I could help her get past her past. I couldn’t. Without going into detail all of the things I thought she was getting over were just being masked and 10 years of a safe and secure marriage DID NOT CHANGE HER MENTAL ISSUES ONE BIT. Her issues with all of her family members never got resolved because she really didn’t want them fixed. She relied on her past to provide sympathy and an excuse to do what ever she wanted – drink to forget, stop working full time because it stresses her out, hang out with guys because they went through a similar childhood experience and give her support, and on and on. I finally gave up when she decided she didn’t want a house or kids anymore because it reminded her too much of her own family. We divorced amicably and over the last 30 years she will call every once in a while, always drunk, and with in 5 minutes starts talking about her family again. I politely say I have to go and as I hang up the phone I thank God she is not in my life anymore. Hope you get to feel the same one day.

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    Ogre
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    Learn your trade, practice it, slay for thirty years, and quit rich.

    She was always going to be the biggest hindrance to your success. Just from your original post she accepts no responsibility and takes no accountability for her own actions.

    Yes, it’s messing with you right now, but ghost her when she rebounds (she will). You had no exclusivity with her. There wasn’t actually a relationship except that which you gave to her.

    You can’t fix a broken person, that’s reserved for mechanical things.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

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