Weird crap from the ex

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Texting with the ex last night about the kids, Christmas, etc. I made a comment about the parents of one of my daughter’s friends. They are kinky, they go to some weird sex toy “Mary Kay” type multi-level marketing parties to buy toys. The mom was mad at us for not helping out in a carpool while our daughter was injured and not going to practice. Apparently I should leave my injured daughter at home alone to drive their kids.

She was mad because they had to miss dinner with some friends.
Probably a sex toy get together!
OMG stop it. I threw up again.
You’re the one who told me about it. If I can’t unthink that neither can you.
Gross. I’m going to leave it at that. I could comment on you being a mold for one….gonna leave it alone.

At this point, I’m just thinking “F~~~! Here comes the monkey branching….” A sex comment from the biggest sexual camel I’ve ever encountered. One night of sex and she could hit the desert for months. I deflect a little, and then…..

Funny 15 said tonight after we got back from the store “you and dad talk alike”.
I’m sure we do sometimes. We’ve known each other 20 years. Something’s bound to rub off.
Yes. 🙂 I so wish things had been different. I think we are two peas in a pod…plan on no one getting that, or our humor.

Jesus, what a strong grab on the branch! That was as forward as she has been in a couple years. And two peas in a pod? Who is she, Forrest F~~~ing Gump! Yup, we’re peas and carrots bitch..

Well, we have a way of bringing out the worst in each other too.

Yeah that’s true. But 15 has asked me many times. Why are we divorced when we talk/text all the time?
Because we have kids. And they will gang up and conquer us if we don’t talk.
We should have made it. No one I’d rather spend time with than you.

This coming from a woman that would be on the phone when I got home at 5:30 after working all day and not get off until about 9 pm. And bitch about me the entire time.

This went on, back and forth for about 45 minutes. She kept trying, I kept deflecting and backpedalling. What a pain in the ass.

The funniest part is that she doesn’t even get it when she should realize that things are about her. At one point I told 15 the phrase “one chance, per person, per lifetime”. I know she told her mom about that. I don’t know why should wouldn’t realize that there is a message for her as well.

So, first of all, I want to thank all the guys on this website. Reading and learning from everyone is incredibly helpful when faced with bulls~~~ from black widow.

And second, Heed Ol’ Sage’s warning. Never get married!!

Order the good wine

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

She is realizing that she had it better with you.

Divorce regret. Not uncommon. At the least you are her tampon. You are talking to her , giving her attention.

Why?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

You’re right, that’s some powerful monkey-branching right there. Do you think that pre-MGTOW you would have taken the bait?

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

She’s low on drama. She craves it.
You? Not so much.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

She is realizing that she had it better with you.

Divorce regret. Not uncommon. At the least you are her tampon. You are talking to her , giving her attention.

Why?

Because of the children. Read it again, brother.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Nerevar wrote:

Because of the children. Read it again, brother.

That doesn’t even qualify as an excuse. I have shared custody and rarely even say hi or bye to my XW. Only straight to the point – “when, how, yes, no”, no niceties whatsoever

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Russky wrote:

Nerevar wrote:

Because of the children. Read it again, brother.

That doesn’t even qualify as an excuse. I have shared custody and rarely even say hi or bye to my XW. Only straight to the point – “when, how, yes, no”, no niceties whatsoever

I do try my best to keep it to the minimum amount of talking. Most times it works great. But every once in a while I have to deflect her monkey branching attempts. Last night was one of those times.

Order the good wine

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Mr. Man wrote:

You’re right, that’s some powerful monkey-branching right there. Do you think that pre-MGTOW you would have taken the bait?

No, even before finding this sight I was done with her. The only internal struggle would have been being able to see my kids more.

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[bladeParticipant]

Christmas the silly season. Had ex try and hint recently too. I normally keep words as minimal as possible to . But i laid it very clear and simple i am monk and no woman will ever be a part of my life again .

Yes you have to tread carefully when kids are involved and that i do . Same as Russky here keep it short and simple with minimal words.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Man Tax Guy, I can relate. I went through the same. The s~~~ we have to put up with for our kids.

Funny how it’s all about them and what could have been. And you have to put up with it for the kids sake.

Little did my special snowflake know that without the child I wouldn’t be listening to your ugh.

Stay strong brother.

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 43]

I had trouble with my ex texting. Then I decided that all my email and texting would be less than 10 characters.

10 characters worked for a little while, then I decided to cut back to 7. I felt like 10 was wasteful.
7 was good for a couple weeks, but it felt like a couple characters too much, so I cut back to 5, then 2

Two characters pretty much allowed me to say “no” and not much else. oh and “ya” for yes. I didn’t have much use for ya.

Kinda hard to be whacked for harassment if your messages are 2 characters, I suppose FU could have been unwelcome communication. She would sent the saltiest messages to get me to step in s~~~…2 characters has little chance of failing.

Then typing 2 latters was too much, I used emoji, happy face and sad face. That was it…1 character. Sometimes I sent only a single “.” Let her interpret that s~~~ any way she wants.

Since all my replies were no, the communication from the c~~~ has been zero since March.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

TaxGuy wrote:

We should have made it. No one I’d rather spend time with than you.
This coming from a woman that would be on the phone when I got home at 5:30 after working all day and not get off until about 9 pm. And bitch about me the entire time.

She’s realizing that she LOST the Man that did more for her then any other human being has ever done for her in this world and much more then ANYONE else ever will. She finally gets it. She realizes just how much SHE f~~~ed up and is BEGGING for a second chance!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Shes a failure, time to clean up the mess.

Plus christmas time, needs a present, if not valentine’s day.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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