Want change? REJECT women

[IRuleMeParticipant]

ghost wrote:

El C~~~o Punto wrote:

People don’t realize how true this concept is. Don’t think about it, don’t make excuses for it. Do it. Get it done.

Ok, Phil Knight. I JUST CAN’T DO IT. The blue pill in me is too strong a force.

If you can’t, then you’re always gonna be miserable. Always unhappy. No matter how much money you have, you’ll always feel empty. Nobody on this site can help a man who can’t help himself. The man who finds the peace in himself, who finds the happiness in himself, will always be richer than the man with all the money. Every day you get up, you look in the mirror. You are the first person you see. Right before you go to bed at night, you’re the last person you see in the mirror. If you don’t like what you see, f~~~ing change it. It’s your responsibility, not anyone else’s.

[ghostParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

You are the first person you see. Right before you go to bed at night, you’re the last person you see in the mirror. If you don’t like what you see, f~~~ing change it. It’s your responsibility, not anyone else’s.

No issues there. It’s more of trying to plan a different life to the one I had imagined or planned for.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

if in the UK watch a show called Dinner Date on ITV Be….it is hilarious watching women get rejected. They like a bloke and get all moist and then once they get rejected they start saying how they didn’t like him and that he was “too short” or “bad dress sense” etc

always makes me laugh

https://www.itv.com/hub/dinner-date/1a8783

[ghostParticipant]

Jim01 wrote:

if in the UK watch a show called Dinner Date on ITV Be….it is hilarious watching women get rejected. They like a bloke and get all moist and then once they get rejected they start saying how they didn’t like him and that he was “too short” or “bad dress sense” etc

LOL. Of course that’s how they would act. Typical for base level creatures.

[Anonymous 1]

The last girl that I dealt with asked me for a meet 3 times(the first time asked me to go to her city, said no, the second time asked me to meet in my town, said no, the third time she said “Hey im in town can we meet?” without any kind of notice, bitch if you come out of the blue on a random day I might be busy, maybe she didn’t think about that), it became so annoying that the last time I told her “I have a spot in my agenda 2 months from now” that obviously sent her into overdrive and it ended up there, f~~~ing funny if you ask me.

Anyway this wont change a thing, it is just funny to see them acting just like you expect them to, I do not even want to use my knowledge and willpower to get laid, I have better things to do with my time and energy.

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The last girl that I dealt with asked me for a meet 3 times(the first time asked me to go to her city, said no, the second time asked me to meet in my town, said no, the third time she said “Hey im in town can we meet?” without any kind of notice, bitch if you come ut of the blue on a random day I might be busy, maybe she didn’t think about that), it became so annoying that the last time I told her “I have a spot in my agenda 2 months from now” that obviously sent her into overdrive and it ended up there, f~~~ing funny if you ask me.

Funny. I have had a very similar thing happen to me. I got trapped though.

Anonymous wrote:

Anyway this wont change a thing, it is just funny to see them acting just like you expect them to, I do not even want to use my knowledge and willpower to get laid, I have better things to do with my time and energy.

Strong.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

ghost wrote:

El C~~~o Punto wrote:

You are the first person you see. Right before you go to bed at night, you’re the last person you see in the mirror. If you don’t like what you see, f~~~ing change it. It’s your responsibility, not anyone else’s.

No issues there. It’s more of trying to plan a different life to the one I had imagined or planned for.

If life went as everyone planned, we’d all be happy, doing what we love, and making good money and living the high life. Life forces change. This site is evidence of that. With change comes adaption. You have to be able to adapt to your situation and understand you may not ever meet your goals or fulfill your plans. People make plans all the time. Life comes in like a tornado and says “fuuuuuuuuuk you!”.

I was born with a birth defect. As a result, there’s a tube protruding from my skull. Because of that I will NEVER be able to be and do the things in life I imagined. Never. A long time ago I accepted that. Life threw me the ultimate curveball. I didn’t get to live 20 or 30 years of my life before this f~~~ing happened. It happened to me right out the gate. To top that off, I’ve been deaf in my right ear since my birth. Also something out of my control, but something I’ve had to deal with, again, my entire life. S~~~ happens to people.

At some point you have to recognize that you’re the guy who doesn’t get to be what you originally wanted in life. So you calibrate. Is it depressing? F~~~ing aye yeh. I’ve spent the better part of 11 god damn years shaking depression. Compounded because I was surrounded by others who were depressed as well. But for all the s~~~, I’ve still managed to live an accomplished life. Seen the world, done more things than most could ever dream and I’m a hell of a f~~~ing singer. And I enjoy it.

Your life is always going to be what you make of it. But staying in a self imposed hell is only going to garner one sympathy for so long.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Wanting change has nothing to do with wimmin. Change comes from working on yourself.

[ghostParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

If life went as everyone planned, we’d all be happy, doing what we love, and making good money and living the high life. Life forces change. This site is evidence of that. With change comes adaption. You have to be able to adapt to your situation and understand you may not ever meet your goals or fulfill your plans. People make plans all the time. Life comes in like a tornado and says “fuuuuuuuuuk you!”.

Yes. No arguments here.

IRuleMe wrote:

I was born with a birth defect. As a result, there’s a tube protruding from my skull. Because of that I will NEVER be able to be and do the things in life I imagined. Never. A long time ago I accepted that. Life threw me the ultimate curveball. I didn’t get to live 20 or 30 years of my life before this f~~~ing happened. It happened to me right out the gate. To top that off, I’ve been deaf in my right ear since my birth. Also something out of my control, but something I’ve had to deal with, again, my entire life. S~~~ happens to people.

You are a strong guy. I admire your courage, bro.

IRuleMe wrote:

At some point you have to recognize that you’re the guy who doesn’t get to be what you originally wanted in life. So you calibrate. Is it depressing? F~~~ing aye yeh. I’ve spent the better part of 11 god damn years shaking depression. Compounded because I was surrounded by others who were depressed as well. But for all the s~~~, I’ve still managed to live an accomplished life. Seen the world, done more things than most could ever dream and I’m a hell of a f~~~ing singer. And I enjoy it.

A part of me wants to keep trying. I can’t give up on my dreams even if some of them might seem blue pill. I am happy that you are doing what you enjoy.

IRuleMe wrote:

Your life is always going to be what you make of it. But staying in a self imposed hell is only going to garner one sympathy for so long.

I get it.

[ghostParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

Wanting change has nothing to do with wimmin. Change comes from working on yourself.

Yes, but it helps to take the edge off sometimes. I guess if I’m having to take the edge off then I’m not making the changes necessary. Good point.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

ghost wrote:

El C~~~o Punto wrote:

Wanting change has nothing to do with wimmin. Change comes from working on yourself.

Yes, but it helps to take the edge off sometimes. I guess if I’m having to take the edge off then I’m not making the changes necessary. Good point.

There is it right there. Everything that I have talked about, falls in line with everything Warrior said in that video he made before he died. All the self help books, and all the stuff…. It all comes down to doing the work, on yourself. You’re a human BEING for f~~~’s sake. You’re not an animal roaming around in the world.

You have a frontal cortex that gives you a higher intelligence than the rest of the animals in the various animals kingdoms. Recognize, be self aware of the s~~~ you’re doing, or believing that isn’t working for you and CHANGE it up. Discard the stuff not helping you make progress. Your mind is like a super computer. It can be programmed with all kinds of software.

That software is everything about your decision making. Your beliefs, your morals, your habits, your perception of the world. When you become red pill, you’re FORCED to change those things. But if you’re consciously aware, then they’re changing all the time. The best part about your mind is, you can install whatever software you want on it. If you’ve been doing a certain thing, and it hasn’t been working for you, you have the brain capacity to change it and stop doing that thing that isn’t working for you.

[AttonParticipant]

That sounds exactly like MGTOW.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Ever5 wrote:

The whole thing is growing up and seeing reality for what it is. What you decide to do from there is based on the individual.

The majority of people are going to live in denial. It’s biological, instinctive.

I agree on the whole, I dont want to live my life on this website. This website is a tool, but it’s not the answer. Many men have done this before the internet even existed. It’s simply seeing the world for what it really is and making the best possibly choices based on the information.

The whole reason most men have come this way, is having made bad choices in the past, most of which was based on bad information, deceitful information, and biology.

As far as what someone should do. That’s up to the individual.

But this is an individual decision and path. And I think as far as making it more popular and socially acceptable. Be an example. Learn how to have an enjoyable life, something everyone else desires. Then be an example. “He doesn’t have a girlfriend, doesn’t have a wife, kids, and wow, he’s really cool. I want to be like that guy.”

The bitterness and anger is going to push people away. Again, it’s an individual decision, an individual path. I personally would never expect it to be anything other than that. As in, it’s just you, and expect everyone else to disagree with you. No one is going to buy into this perspective unless it’s something they have already come to the conclusion of based on their own life experience.

That’s the main takeaway. This site is not the answer. It’s a tool. I could log out tomorrow and never come back and be just fine. I’m not here for me. I’m here to help others. People can either choose to listen to, and implement into their lives what advice and knowledge I share, or they can choose not to. I can’t help anyone who doesn’t help themselves. Otherwise I’m just spinning my wheels and speaking to myself.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

IRuleMe wrote:

I was born with a birth defect. As a result, there’s a tube protruding from my skull. Because of that I will NEVER be able to be and do the things in life I imagined. Never. A long time ago I accepted that. Life threw me the ultimate curveball. I didn’t get to live 20 or 30 years of my life before this f~~~ing happened. It happened to me right out the gate. To top that off, I’ve been deaf in my right ear since my birth. Also something out of my control, but something I’ve had to deal with, again, my entire life. S~~~ happens to people.

I didn’t know that man. What are you unable to do? You’re a cool dude, even if you’re a bit of a gay f~~, (kidding) I’d hang with you anytime.

Looking forward to Zoom lol.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

IRuleMe wrote:

and I’m a hell of a f~~~ing singer

Holding back your talents eh? You got any stuff I can listen to?

[Anonymous 38]

ghost wrote:

Complaining about the raw deal we men have gotten is fine. It helps to vent and share our frustration. However, if we actually want things to change, we must take action.
It is very simple. All you have to do is reject and ignore women. Maintain your health, your assets, etc. and then reject them.
Some guys here might say to just go monk and live under a bridge. I am against that. I say you take an active role and reject women. This is very important for the younger MGTOWs.
Reject them and keep doing it. Play the long game.
Like I said, some men here may disagree and that’s fine. I want to make the world better for myself. I do not want to keep living on this website for the rest of my life.

Good post. I think this is very wise advice.

This is choosing to stay, surviving and thriving rather than taking the easier path of becoming a hermit.
It’s a harder path but one with more long-term reward.

It’s easy to put them off with your attitude. I’m distrustful and uncomfortable in conversation with them and they generally leave me alone because of that. Fine by me. This is me rejecting and ignoring women, I do not pander to them or ‘act’ in the way they want me to, which is for me to entertain them. It allows me to focus more on my goals.

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

This is choosing to stay, surviving and thriving rather than taking the easier path of becoming a hermit.

Yup.

[ghostParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

There is it right there. Everything that I have talked about, falls in line with everything Warrior said in that video he made before he died. All the self help books, and all the stuff…. It all comes down to doing the work, on yourself. You’re a human BEING for f~~~’s sake. You’re not an animal roaming around in the world.

You have a frontal cortex that gives you a higher intelligence than the rest of the animals in the various animals kingdoms. Recognize, be self aware of the s~~~ you’re doing, or believing that isn’t working for you and CHANGE it up. Discard the stuff not helping you make progress. Your mind is like a super computer. It can be programmed with all kinds of software.

That software is everything about your decision making. Your beliefs, your morals, your habits, your perception of the world. When you become red pill, you’re FORCED to change those things. But if you’re consciously aware, then they’re changing all the time. The best part about your mind is, you can install whatever software you want on it. If you’ve been doing a certain thing, and it hasn’t been working for you, you have the brain capacity to change it and stop doing that thing that isn’t working for you.

Thank you.

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