Victim Card

[TennesseeBanjoManParticipant 5]

I don’t know if this has ever come up on these forums, I’m kind of a noob here, but has anyone noticed how women always seem to play the victim in relationships? Like they’re the only ones hurt when a breakup happens or something. I’m in a very complicated relationship and current girlfriend keeps bringing up how much I hurt her, etc etc. It’s like the only feelings a woman cares about are her own. Sorry if this didn’t make much sense, I’m still trying to make sense of where I’m at in my relationship.
Edit: I’ve been in the relationship for a year and a half and this is really not the first time I’ve seen the victim card used my her.

[MeshakParticipant 280]

Manipulation is part of their weaponry. Just dump her and be done with it.

Meshak

[Anonymous 13]

Man, that’s all they ever do, is play VICTIM.

They’re KNOWN for it.

All women are victims.

Even when she kills a man she’s the victim.

Of course she is.

He must have upset her in some way.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Be aware that some men will attempt to play the “victim card” such as reported in this article: http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2017-07-06/cnn-president-jeff-zucker-trump-trying-bully-us

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Man, that’s all they ever do, is play VICTIM.

They’re KNOWN for it.

All women are victims.

Even when she kills a man she’s the victim.

Of course she is.

He must have upset her in some way.

She could be a millionaire CEO of a company, even her own company; have Ken for a husband and still find a way to be the victim.

[narwhalParticipant]

If you see the victim card usage up, it usually means she’s preparing her exit. I’m sure that’s not what you want to hear, but it happens quite often.

Women don’t want to just leave a relationship because they aren’t happy with it, they must make it so that they were mistreated somehow. That way, they can’t be blamed for hurting you, because you obviously were hurting her, and she was only freeing herself.

At the same time, she may be looking to someone to monkey branch too, so she doesn’t have to deal with being alone.

To be clear though, she doesn’t want you breaking up with her. She hasn’t made her case yet, found another guy, etc. You dropping her will make it harder for you to justify.

I think you have three options. One, keep letting her get away with it and she will eventually leave. Two, start making solid boundaries. She may start behaving or she may accelerate her exit. That’s fine, always her choice anyway, but the victim crap ends. Three, give her good reasons to leave. Cheat on her. Act insecure. Play victim yourself. Treat her like a princess. All the things she hates. She’ll be gone soon.

Ok. Then do it.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

TennesseeBanjoMan wrote:

the only feelings a woman cares about are her own

Exactly! Do not forget that.

Also, please feel free to write an into and tell us about yourself.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

TennesseeBanjoMan wrote:

I don’t know if this has ever come up on these forums, I’m kind of a noob here, but has anyone noticed how women always seem to play the victim in relationships? Like they’re the only ones hurt when a breakup happens or something. I’m in a very complicated relationship and current girlfriend keeps bringing up how much I hurt her, etc etc. It’s like the only feelings a woman cares about are her own. Sorry if this didn’t make much sense, I’m still trying to make sense of where I’m at in my relationship.
Edit: I’ve been in the relationship for a year and a half and this is really not the first time I’ve seen the victim card used my her.

Women nearly always play the victim card when they break up. My current gf said that she partly blames herself for her ex cheating on her and then leaving, because of communication problems, etc — being an exception to the general rule, is one of the things that gave her higher score on my Excel spreadsheet.

(I don’t make emotional decisions about women anymore — everything is quantified rationally and numerically)

When I broke up with the Asian gf and she dropped by and saw I had a “new” gf a month later, she was all about how I must not have loved her to have gotten a new gf so soon.

Ding dong! I don’t love women emotionally anymore, because I understand them too well. It is like if I built female sex robot, I wouldn’t love those because I understand how they function.

The only way you should ever be in a romantic relationship with a woman is if you FEEL nothing for her, and have logical reasons for staying. As soon as you get trapped by your “feelings” for her, she has control of you.

What has control of HER? Her biological imperatives and what society incentivizes her for, both of which are not in your best interests.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

TennesseeBanjoMan wrote:

. I’m in a very complicated relationship and current girlfriend keeps bringing up how much I hurt her, etc etc. It’s like the only feelings a woman cares about are her own.

She is about to make some move. She preparing you to take blame while convincing herself it’s your fault. This is to remove any guilt for whatever it is she is about to do.

TennesseeBanjoMan wrote:

Sorry if this didn’t make much sense, I’m still trying to make sense of where I’m at in my relationship

That’s what where here for. Making sense by way of redpill knowledge.

Obviously you’re in relationship and don’t have much experience with it. My best advice is don’t get her pregnant.

TennesseeBanjoMan wrote:

I’ve been in the relationship for a year and a half and this is really not the first time I’ve seen the victim card used my her.

You might want consider why are you staying a relationship where your partner is going play the victim card in the first place. Do you really want your back against the wall and walking on egg shells for another year and half?

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 14]

This trait is not exclusive to women, Leftists and many men use it. S~~~, the entire State of Israel exists because of the Victim Card, and Entitlement based on who they Identify as… Does any of this sound familiar? And everyone wonders why Leftist politics and Feminism is so heavily Jewish backed.

KEK!

[TennesseeBanjoManParticipant 5]

Thanks for all the responses guys, I am honestly about to GMOW, I’ve had it with women and their games, it’s just not worth the heartache and the trouble trying to please the unpleasable.

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