Unable to shake off the Red Pill rage

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I’m realising that Red Pill rage could be interfering with my objective of being content searching for the things that matter to me. When I interact with others I always feel like I have to consciously tell myself to behave in the way I would like others to behave with me. It’s no longer a thoughtless natural tendency for me to be pleasant with others, especially women. I manage to behave correctly but it’s a job now. Any thoughts from others with experience on how to mitigate RP rage appreciated.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 54]

I had my doubts that mine would ever subside.But after being on here almost a year, I am pleasently suprised that it has a considerable amount.

In the mean time try your best to fake it. Try to be plesant till you can calmy decide who to weed out of your life.

[Anonymous 43]

I had trouble with the rage too.

I think the rage and bitter taste is a way for the mind to act as a brake against the lizard brain, white knighting and entering into relationships.

The hard part is tolerating all the bulls~~~. Look upon it as how you can be amused, how a magician fools us with misdirection and illusion, take the insanity and foolishness in and pick it apart in your own head, all the while nodding and smiling.

There is little chance that you can explain how people are wrong, they must arrive at your conclusion on their own.

[Anonymous 1]

Same as old sage. I’ve been here nearly a year for around the first 6 months, I was seriously bad. A few of my earlier posts on here show a lot of aggression and some family members pointed out a change in my temperament.

It subsides gradually and you’re not even aware of it when it almost gone. I hadn’t realised how much i’ve mellowed until I read this topic.

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

I have a bit of hard time to accept that one should let go of the rage…. its like turning the other cheek when someone or something keeps mistreating you i still think the appropiate response should be rage…

but maybe im not just there yet who knows.

[Anonymous 54]

Anger can often be a reaction to a percived injustis.

The objective being to not need anger to back up the belief.

[perpedes66Participant 259]

Hi point of no return.

9 months after the fog is gone forever. I can understand what you feel and described. I am working with a lot of manginas and a couple of white knights. My solutions:

1) Talk less

2) Talk less

3) No discussion except work topics

I always try to get in some kind of watchers perspective and then I count all the (bulls~~~) statements and there are not 50% or 60% usually it is nearly 100% pure BULLS~~~.

Sometimes I drift away in daydream….and I get a warm feeling …

I´m unbeatable, indestructible and they all are going to learn it the hard way when their little princess will throw them under the bus.

They think I am the nice guy and no threat to them. Don´t make you a target.

[UntamedParticipant]

I’m in no position to give you advice on how to deal with Red-Pill Rage. I’ve been divorced for close to 17yrs now and Red-Pill Rage is still a part of my every-day life. It doesn’t engulf me in anger since I’m usually an even-tempered person and the IDGAF attitude is strong with me but the Rage boils underneath the skin like lava in a volcano because I’m forced to not give a f~~~. Yet, like an old friend I don’t want to lose, I check and see if it’s still there. Red-Pill Rage may have negative connotations with other Men going their own way but I have to say that it helps me tremendously. It reminds me how f~~~ed things are for Men nowadays in a very personal way. It helps me identify with my MGTOW brothers. It lets me know that this state of affairs is completely unacceptable and has been so for too long. The last thing I would want is to become numb to that. I refuse to get used to the way Men are treated by weemins. Red-Pill Rage is here to remind me that I don’t have to take any s~~~ from anyone, especially weemins.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 54]

I hate feeling angry.I just hate it.

Sometimes I dont know how KM takes it. Alot of p~~~ed of guys show up, then calm down and split.Then more p~~~ed off guys show up.

Stealthy should be here any moment with Zen words of wisdom.

[JVBParticipant]

It will subside but it takes time. Some longer than others. Try channeling it to benefit you in some way. Work out more, become a better chef, be kinder to yourself and let the red rage enter and then let it go. I was there too bro.

Peace is > piece.

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

That rage is what drives us here its what compels us in to unity don’t let go of it otherwise things will allways stay f~~~ed up…

[Anonymous 6]

Anonymous wrote:

Stealthy should be here any moment with Zen words of wisdom.

His posts really help me to cool down if I’m in a p~~~ed off mood, and they help to remind us to let go of what we cannot control and just be in control of ourselves.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Point Of No Return wrote:

I’m realising that Red Pill rage could be interfering with my objective of being content searching for the things that matter to me. When I interact with others I always feel like I have to consciously tell myself to behave in the way I would like others to behave with me. It’s no longer a thoughtless natural tendency for me to be pleasant with others, especially women. I manage to behave correctly but it’s a job now. Any thoughts from others with experience on how to mitigate RP rage appreciated.

Point Of No Return wrote:

I’m realising that Red Pill rage could be interfering with my objective of being content searching for the things that matter to me. When I interact with others I always feel like I have to consciously tell myself to behave in the way I would like others to behave with me. It’s no longer a thoughtless natural tendency for me to be pleasant with others, especially women. I manage to behave correctly but it’s a job now. Any thoughts from others with experience on how to mitigate RP rage appreciated.

Fuk it let it rage on obviously still in you don’t feel bad about it fuk it rage on ! Sometimes you have to let things run its course I still channel my residual rage at the gym if I miss a day I get mean.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[narwhalParticipant]

nonconformist wrote:

That rage is what drives us here its what compels us in to unity don’t let go of it otherwise things will allways stay f~~~ed up…

I disagree to some extent. Rage is a part maybe, but not what keeps us here.

I was going to suggest that you keep your self as busy as possible on your goals, and make that the focus of your attention as much as possible. You’ll find peace in that. For what you do have to deal with, get used to asking yourself if you care, if it’s worth the effort and possible/probable repercussions from getting angry.

If you have to deal with your ex, instead of getting angry, practice saying NO whenever possible. Getting angry with her is giving her attention and making her feel like she made the right choice. Give her nothing.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 1]

It’s the old adage of learning to accept what you cannot change. The red pill rage dissolves naturally over time.

Only advice I can offer is to limit alcohol intake and don’t continue to read topics that send you into a tail spin.

Did I follow the advice I’ve just given? F~~~ no ha.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

I’m years in and still have red pill rage aftershocks,I just embrace it as a sign to stay the course. I’m starting to like it now. I have way more pity than anger until Gloria Steinem speaks

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

It’s going to be a different experience for each person but I can tell you that laughing at it helps. The rage comes from having the illusion shattered yet still holding onto the broken pieces of it… but if you can embrace that the illusion was absurd from the beginning, you find it’s easier to accept the truth and move on with a new way of thinking.

I often find that journaling helps. Writing honestly here or in private with detailed analysis of the things you believed about, wanted from, hoped for and tried to get from women and how stupid and silly you were to think they were going to happen… like a retard running through a field with an imaginary net in your hands chasing dead leaves in the wind because you thought they were butterflies… embracing the comedy of it all helps.

But if you’re making alimoney payments, living in a hovel because you got taken to the cleaners or are still unable to see your children… well then you may not be ready to laugh. In that case, channel that rage to some good use.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Anonymous wrote:

I hate feeling angry.I just hate it.

Sometimes I dont know how KM takes it. Alot of p~~~ed of guys show up, then calm down and split.Then more p~~~ed off guys show up.

Stealthy should be here any moment with Zen words of wisdom.

I agree Stealthy’s words of wisdom has helped me calm down numerous times. Regarding the rage, time will quell that anger. I should warn you, it does not go away, things happen, something will bring those flames back. When it happens, I try to come back here to get me grounded. What you are feeling is the anger from the bitter truth. We all knew it all along women are selfish and self destructive. Take the injustice against your fellow man in the form of divorce, family court and everyday false sexual assault, it is enough to make you insanely angry.

This is what helped me. Take all the energy in your anger and put it towards something useful. If you are out of shape and want to get back in shape, work towards it. If there is a job you wanted, go for it. A place you wanted to move to, work on moving there. A new skill you wanted to learn. Go and learn it. You will find self improvement to be your greatest ally in this struggle.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[UntamedParticipant]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

I’m years in and still have red pill rage aftershocks,I just embrace it as a sign to stay the course. I’m starting to like it now. I have way more pity than anger until Gloria Steinem speaks

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[LupusParticipant 214]

Don’t let it go, but moderate it with understanding and knowledge.

Check the deeper meaning of this song, it helped me a bit:

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