Tomorrow I Cash A Blank Cheque

[HitmanParticipant]

put aside that christian forgiveness bulls~~~ .;.sharpen the knives .. ready the weapons .. prepare for her DEMISE ..( metaphorically speaking of course ..) …

[EntropyParticipant 902]

1. If nobody stands up to the school bully, EVERYONE loses… even the bully (in the long run).

2. If you want a child to behave you must be willing to enforce discipline.

3. If nothing else, just consider it PRE-venge for the next poor bastard she tries to do this to. Then BOOM, it instantly goes from selfish to self-LESS.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

the fact that she took some sick pleasure in getting you arrested (with a lie) and had the audacity to rub it in with an email says to me she deserves a little payback.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[QcummerParticipant 652]

#1 You are being f~~~ed with by evil.
#2 Do not communicate with an ex OR anyone else who knows her
#3 When you think of your ex, just don’t. She should not exist inside your crazy head.
#4 If you still want to go ahead with it, please keep us posted 🙂

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I am with STEALTHY on this. An unpopular opinion I suppose. This women is the devil incarnate. The Lord knows what’s happening in the evils of her heart. This is not your battle to finish.

Walk away. Walk away fast. The pleasure you get in this single act will feel good in the moment but it will do you no good at the end of your life. Is revenge what you want to be remembered for? When this b*tch dies her act against you will be how she will be remembered. But you my friend are better far more wise than this. She is waiting for you to snap and pull something drastic. Walk away. Do what a woman can never do. You are not a coward. If you do this she wins. She may be screwed over but she will have a suck sense of satisfaction that she brought out the worst in a man. Women get drunk off that feeling. Flee from this evil my friend. It’s the toughest choices in life that often yield the best results. Heed Stealthy MGTOW’S advice.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

The only sure way to defeat evil is to renounce it

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Can’t WAIT for the followup in a few days. I hope this bitches life is just how she made others.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[RebaneParticipant 215]

A psychopath retreats only when it recognizes a bigger psychopath. Do you really need to renew your bond with the psycho-ex through revenge? Try to stop caring about her completely and rise above her petty ways. Easier said than done, I know. But in the long term it will be more beneficial to you.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Rebane wrote:

A psychopath retreats only when it recognizes a bigger psychopath. Do you really need to renew your bond with the psycho-ex through revenge? Try to stop caring about her completely and rise above her petty ways. Easier said than done, I know. But in the long term it will be more beneficial to you.

I am in the walk away side on this one. The best revenge is living well.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[UntamedParticipant]

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Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[UntamedParticipant]

Escaped! I’m so sad reading about all that s~~~ happening to you. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
That bitch of an ex of yours must be the most vindictive c~~~ I’ve ever read about. I’m not advising you to do anything and you’ll do what you must.
I’ve never personally been for revenge. I’m not a vengeful person because I believe that vengeance belongs to God and I trust Him to do it way better than I ever can.
I’ve had numerous experiences throughout my life when someone who’s hurt me or my siblings ended up regretting it bitterly.
Like this neighborhood bully who had succeeded to turn all the neighborhood kids against my siblings and I. A year later, he had been sent to hospital by the very kids he turned against us.
The last time God took up vengeance for me, recently, the bitch’s heart literally burst and she died. I learned of it through my daughter.
I don’t wish bad things on people, even those who hurt me, even though I sometimes want to strangle the person.
Revenge isn’t a dish, it’s more like a poisonous flat sorry-looking burger from McD’s. You’re still hungry an hour later.
The universe has a way of balancing things. we’re not always present when God decides to take vengeance for us but as for myself, I take comfort in the knowledge that my Master takes care of my enemies.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Again, I thank you gentlemen for your thoughts on the situation.

Lots of great opinions and thoughts on the board here, and I appreciate that. It’s great to have some sane, rational and cognitive voices about.

I’ll keep you posted in the next few days.

Cheers brothers.

[theseekerParticipant 32]

Do what needs to be done. Dont look at it as revenge. Look at it as setting other people free from her vindictive ess with the truth.

Her husband, employer and whoever else needs to hear the truth. Be that truth. When she is desperate enough and has no one else to go to, keep a recorder on or by your phone. If she does the jail thing then have her thrown in jail.it sounds like this is where she needs to be anyways.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

I’m with the don’t-do-anything camp for a few reasons.

1. She is looking to get a rise out of you/do drama with you. If you engage, she will be satiating her hunger for drama. If you ignore, on the other hand, it will be the largest metaphorical slap you can deliver since you will be telling her “You are not worth my time.”

2. The best revenge is success. Use this anger that you have and channel it towards your own betterment and future good.

3. Fall-Out: General Sun Tzu once said: “When you surround an army, leave an outlet free. Do not press a desperate foe too hard.” What do you think is going to happen after the first few incidences? She WILL know it’s coming from you. And she WILL lash out at you. And she WILL lash out harder because she knows she has less to lose now.

But forget about the fall-out from there.. Think about the other fall-out that could happen:
1. You tell her husband about her cheating and their marriage breaks up. Sounds good right? He’s liberated now! What about the fact that he loses half or more of his assets overnight in the impending divorce? Or What if he confronts her and this crazy bitch stabs him or does something worse and puts HIM in jail?

2. Her employer learns about a criminal conviction and fires her; what then? Not only will the HR people at her company be fired for giving secure information to a criminal (thereby worsening their lives), but also she will go down a very dark path and will become a full-fledged criminal. Do you really want that?

It goes on and on. You can cash in your cheque and temporarily feel good, but man, I’m telling you. The Inner Peace/Happiness that you’re looking for…you’re not going to get it from revenge. You will feel temporarily satisfied by tearing her life apart, but that’s it. And then you’ll regret it when you see the collateral damage with her husband, her employer, etc.

That was one option. The other option is work on yourself. Spend time on yourself. Enjoy your life. and forget about her. That is the harder path and the more fulfilling one ultimately.

When I first read your post, I must admit I was in the take revenge camp. But now, after further reflection, I really don’t think revenge will do you or other people any good. Let God serve her justice. Or let someone else do it.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

There’s revenge, and then there’s “See what happens when you f~~~ with me.”

In this case, you told her NO and she called the police. You were in jail for awhile and it cost you money.

Without any sort of consequence for her actions, she won’t hesitate to do so again. So if you’d rather practice restraint, I suggest you pick one or two things on your list and retaliate. If you don’t, she’ll repeat these actions over and over again.

You mentioned an arrest that would potentially cost her her job. Find documentation to support the presence of an arrest (newspaper online search or pay for a background check). Create a disposable email account, and either email a screen-capture of the proof to her boss, or if you’re nice, just email it to her. No explanation. No additional content. Only a picture of the proof. Make no effort to link it to you or the situation.

I would not advise you simply walk away or turn the other cheek unless you’re willing to move and change your phone number. She’s probably going to let what happened sink in and then call to make the same demand.

Conversely, you could file a harassment claim against her for this most recent event. That may cost more money than you’re willing to front. Or put a restraining order on her that includes telephone and online contact.

ETA: Maybe Stealthy is right. Reading your situation certainly p~~~es me off and so I’m prone to advocate that you reciprocate. If you decide to withhold the damning information then you must, in my opinion, do something to protect yourself. A restraining order my help. Simply not answering the phone might just merit another call by her to the police. At the very least, if she calls and you answer the phone, advise her that the conversation is being recorded on the advise of your lawyer and that no, you have no financial responsibility or the financial means to help. I dunno man. I’m really torn.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

I agree. and the dude she is cheating on should know. maybe he will go his own way.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Jon the Ex-Squid wrote:

There’s revenge, and then there’s “See what happens when you f~~~ with me.”

In this case, you told her NO and she called the police. You were in jail for awhile and it cost you money.

Without any sort of consequence for her actions, she won’t hesitate to do so again. So if you’d rather practice restraint, I suggest you pick one or two things on your list and retaliate. If you don’t, she’ll repeat these actions over and over again.

You mentioned an arrest that would potentially cost her her job. Find documentation to support the presence of an arrest (newspaper online search or pay for a background check). Create a disposable email account, and either email a screen-capture of the proof to her boss, or if you’re nice, just email it to her. No explanation. No additional content. Only a picture of the proof. Make no effort to link it to you or the situation.

I would not advise you simply walk away or turn the other cheek unless you’re willing to move and change your phone number. She’s probably going to let what happened sink in and then call to make the same demand.

Conversely, you could file a harassment claim against her for this most recent event. That may cost more money than you’re willing to front. Or put a restraining order on her that includes telephone and online contact.

ETA: Maybe Stealthy is right. Reading your situation certainly p~~~es me off and so I’m prone to advocate that you reciprocate. If you decide to withhold the damning information then you must, in my opinion, do something to protect yourself. A restraining order my help. Simply not answering the phone might just merit another call by her to the police. At the very least, if she calls and you answer the phone, advise her that the conversation is being recorded on the advise of your lawyer and that no, you have no financial responsibility or the financial means to help. I dunno man. I’m really torn.

Yeah, I’m a bit torn with it myself, @JonTheEx-Squid. I find myself in a few dilemmas with the issue. My own moral ones, personal safety ones, repercussions for those who are involved indirectly and the like. I don’t care for acting off the cuff, and am really making myself sit down and think on this one. Anger-based decisions don’t often lead to permanent solutions, (or they certainly haven’t in the past for me) although they can alleviate current or instant negative feelings. But in some instances, doing absolutely nothing can lead to further ramifications. And I echo with what you say about Revenge, that’s for certain. There’s a difference between revenge and using an offense as self-defense when someone is attacking or conceiving provocation. Again, I wouldn’t be doing anything illegal, nor would I entertain it. Perhaps through her own continued actions in life, she’ll only further continue to engineer her own social demise without any assistance. I might well pursue harassment alone, simply for the purpose of the recent infraction committed against me. That in and of itself might lead to the exposure of her past/recent/current transgressions, and god knows what the hell else she’s done that I’m NOT aware of. By pursuing that, as well as a no-contact order, the same end-result might well be achieved.

I really do not think you really get mgtow.

Do not heed the words of those egging you on. They could be 15 year old twerps for all you know.

Let her think she won.
Let time rot her soul.

I think I am done with this thread.

In the end it is your ass on the line.

Some of us can offer timeless advice.
Yet, wise men do not need it and fools will not heed it.

Never let negative passions and fixations guide your life.

Be smart.

This is wholly unappreciated. I could relate to some of your previous posts in the thread, and definitely took value from some of your points. This last post?

You don’t really think I get MGTOW? Seriously? Not even going to elaborate on that point. You can pass judgement on that one as you see fit, and continue to live your prescription of what you deem to be a MGTOW. Zen doesn’t fix everything. Ask Tibet. If you can get past the Chinese guards.

There are plenty of respected members commenting here who aren’t 15 year old twerps. They’ve got valid points as well, and I’ve appreciated the input.

As I’ve said, I’ll mull it over to make sure I’m not reacting too quickly. And I’ve certainly appreciated the thoughts and comments on the issue, as I asked. That kind of shaming and belittling s~~~ is not up my alley though, STEALTHY. You’ve got the way you’re going, and I’ve got mine. They’re not necessarily going to lie on the same page.

Thanks again for the thoughts, time and effort guys.

I’ll close the thread at this point, and come to an effective solution either way.

Cheers.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Back from the big bad Doctor’s. So I’m set for surgery on the 19th of September, and should be in for 9-10 days of recovery if all goes well. But there’s a less than desirable catch. I’m going to have to have a temporary colostomy for anywhere from six to eight months. I was a little taken aback with this; wasn’t expecting that at all. I found that to be pretty disheartening news, as that’s going to be a s~~~ty position to be in HAHAHA. Chuckle. Seriously though, wish me luck with that one fellas. But I’ll do what I gotta do. Changes some plans a bit for me, but life is a talented pitcher.

Have you considered that your double agent friend reads your posts?

Really think about that for a bit, STEALTHY.

And think about why I would bother to post certain points publicly, rather than keep them silent.

Handing someone a shovel whilst not telling them what to do with it can be a very useful tool.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

I am with you, EMP, no matter what is your decision.

I am with the “Don’t do anything” side.

Just live well, my friend. Anger is like a hot stone you wish to throw at someone, but as long as you hold it, it will only hurt you, instead.

You have a dog and a parrot, focus on them… Focus in get better, focus on you…

S~~~ will ALWAYS fly in your direction, in these days, since there are many people who will throw s~~~ in the fan. Just make sure that you have a towel with you, always.

Smile, laugh out loud for the pathetic attempt of “showing you what is right” that she tried.

In the end, if you ignore, then you are the winner.

I am trying to become a ghost, someone that will never be seen again, for everyone but my MGTOW fellow brothers, and perhaps my two (family) brothers and father. These are all the ones that I really care about.

I thought of revenge, when I was in your position (though my ex was not even near as vindictive as that bitch you dumped), and yet, the more I thought about revenge, the more stuck at her feet I was.

When I understood the irony that this “revengeful thinking” was, I just laughed at myself for being so full of rage.

Then things began to be better for me… When I finally get over the anger, my life has improved immeasurably.

Today, I am even better than I was at that time. I focused more on my work, I polished my old skills and gained a few others, my “top brass” started to notice me more, and I got some kind of “promotion” on my job.

Anyway, that is what I did…

I just wanted to leave my $2c for you, brother!

Thanks for reading my rant, and I truly hope that you get better, and that you live a long life among us.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Thanks DarkKenshi, that was a great read. Yours is a very touching story, and I’m glad your path has taken you to where you wish to be.

Dark Kenshi wrote:

Today, I am even better than I was at that time. I focused more on my work, I polished my old skills and gained a few others, my “top brass” started to notice me more, and I got some kind of “promotion” on my job.

And that sounds like a damn fine place to be.

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