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[Anonymous 13]

Its a long story of blue pill helldom, I was niave and impulsive when I came out of the army – still licking a few wounds from Iraq at Walter Reed Army medical center in DC.  I knew very few available women – I was a bit of a shut in (I’m sort of opposite of that now – still of bipolar).  One woman I did know – a friend of mine’s ex – was texting me – I could fly her out for free (at my expense – via yellow ribbon fund) to Walter Reed.  To skip over a rough seven years of codependent abuse by a narcissist – of which I learned and changed – but I have two kids from the ordeal so mitigation and compromise were essential in me getting to see my kids and raise my kids – Joint custody never worked – she never cared – I legally had it – but all she had to do and just recently did again is…file for a protection order.  Recently after co-habitating for a about six months (this time) she left.  After wondering where my kids were and when she was going to bring them back, she kept saying her brother was in the hospital (lie) and in a conversation I told her I threw all her s~~~ away – this was a month after she left and it is when she filed for an order of protection an entire state away.  I’m going to spare a lot of details.  Under the VAWA (violence against women act) mandates that most states have adopted in some form or another the judge was granted jurisdiction in his state – thanked me for my service and promptly took my kids thereafter – even with evidence that my kids were involved in a meth lab raid in our home state – even though I had witnesses she hit and I called the cops on her apparently if a woman hits you you are both offender and victim (I laughed like a mad man when the bureaucrat behind the counter told me that one).  Even with texts that exposed her as a liar – nothing nada zip null.  There was no evidence of me hitting here – though she said I have in the past w/o proof – also I lost my kids and the order was affirmed on the basis that I may have “shook” my daughter.
If you have kids with a woman…the power she has is akin to that of a loaded fifty caliber with a hairline trigger pointed directly at the forehead of whomever man she is speaking with at the time.  It matters NOT if “not all women are like that” the fact that they have been legally empowered to wreck lives and reek havoc on such biblical levels is enough to turn me off on ALL women forever.  I had a few 6s in looks type of gfs and they may not use such tactics or at least not as often and they had a desire to please – it made me feel guilty – and uncouth about it all – so I merely began to opt out – however I would let the woman whom I had kids with always come back (should I be killed for my insolence!? – I guess because I am being raped in other ways too at them moment – message received.  The message is, “f~~~ it”

Since there is nothing I can do to get my kids back, It brings everything to a crescendo of general pointlessness, illuminates the common retardedness of western nations under false doctrines to promote the covert enslavement for us all – amen.

 

The statistics of fatherlessness reflect the reasons why it is promoted in western nations (especially here) have global ramifications and really does connect to the economy’s health – and thus its policies as well.

 

I love my two kids, I quit my job and school to work with the busy lawyer I have, otherwise I’d miss an appointment and it would set back the unknown time or date of the reunion with my kids that I so long for.  Suicide is not an option – but trust me when I say I understand now, why so many men do it.  Anger is poison and I’ve had my fill…but to detach myself emotionally from a situation like this – would border on the psychotic – or NPD.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

That sucks man. FWIW, do what you can to keep in contact with the kids.  Try to send them letters and birthday/christmas gifts if you can. I was the child of a woman with similar abusive tendencies (although not this bad) and deprived of my father’s presence in my life for long periods.  Guess who I drive out spend father’s day and many other holidays with every year? My Dad. I even gave him a kidney when he needed it.

If you keep trying, your kids will eventually figure out the situation for what it is and realize who the evil person is and who is the hero and that’s all that matters.

There may be some damage to their educational potential done in the meantime, but that can be undone. For presents, I would send things like classic books, and things that will enrich their minds. They will remember efforts like that.  Chances are if what you’re saying is true, they’re as scared and lonely as you are.

If it were me, I would send books like Aesop’s fables, programming computers for girls, science books, etc.  They may not all get through, but sooner or later something will get delivered and the kids will get to it before she does. Jane eyre for the girls, the Odyessy,  Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein, Stoker’s Dracula, etc for boys. Spend the $30 and get the Easton press leather bound versions – a high quality book is hard to resist reading. Kids fun-with-science type books are great too.

I know you have a protection order and that might include “no contact” or whatever, but if it were be, I would send the books anyway. That’s just me, YMMV, IANAL, etc.

You might get in some amount trouble, but I have a hard time seeing even the most callous judge punishing you very severely for sending educational materials to your children.  Years later your children will love you for doing everything in your power to reach out to them, and despise her for her actions.

Worst case: think of the headline: “Man Jailed for Sending Science books to Children.”

Maybe that’s not an option for you, and maybe there’s more to the story that you’re not telling us, but if I were truly innocent, I would happily go to jail for breaking a court order to try and help my kids get educated. They will never forget that.  I can tell you from experience because I lived what your kids are going through.

Knowing my dad was out that and wanted to see me but couldn’t was everything. It gave me courage, a cause to fight for, and a reason to hang on, even at eight years old. Anything you can do to let them know that you are doing everything you can to improve their lot will never be forgotten.

 

 

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Anonymous 13]

I have to contact a third party agency whom will supervise visits and contact her and then rely back to me the time when “she” is available to drop off the kids.  They are one of those you have to pay as well.  This is ten thousand wrongs.  Thanks for your advice and personal experience, it means a lot.
Here comes my devious satirical side again – to vent:  What if I just say I am a woman now?  I mean, theoretically I could be a trans mom and have the same bias granted to me, the transmom?  Transmothering.  Honestly two things will happen:

1) She’ll drop the protection order and want to move back again (thus is the case of the fifty caliber – power equivalent – she holds all the cards).  If I say no (about her living with me) and say I just want my kids she’ll probably just file for another order of protection – or something even more evil – I shutter to let my mind wonder there – and I’ve seen the boogie man – I’ve seen the evils of this world – but they all pale in comparison to that which is a western woman believed herself scorned.

2) My lawyer actually pulls something off here – this is the case I am hoping for.  He’s busy, and I’m impatient.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I suggest you setup a gofundme account. I’ll donate a few dollars to help you fight for your kids and your living expenses. Not much I can help you with however I will help where I can. Don’t go transgender on us please.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

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