To everyone who is divorced…

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Happy Independence Day! You f~~~ing earned it.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Thanks brother. Spent the day working out, hit a bucket of golf b~~~~, BBQing. Freaking awesome doing whatever I wanted to do. No women, no drama.

They say divorce is expensive because it’s worth it. A couple of friends and my brother are divorced. I always told them “congratulations on getting half of your s~~~ back!” I’m here to tell you it is expensive, and it is totally worth it.

Order the good wine

[HitmanParticipant]

divorce is at a stand-still..
seperated for years and don’t know when it will finish.
living life anyway .
happy 4th brothers !

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

divorce is at a stand-still..
seperated for years and don’t know when it will finish.
living life anyway .
happy 4th brothers !

I feel for you Hitman. My separation went on for almost 3 years. She had been living with her boyfriend for over a year.

What finally did it for me was I saw on LinkedIn that she started a new company. I told her congratulations but since we are still married I could be sued if anything happened to her business. Since I don’t get half the profit (dropped that one little reminder to her that I could ask for half the business in the divorce) I shouldn’t be on the hook for HER business. And even if they couldn’t get to me I would still have to spend money to defend myself.

That dumb little move on her part finally got her off her ass and the paperwork was filed within a month.

Hopefully you can find a similar screw up on her part that will finally finish it off. Good luck brother!

Order the good wine

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Happy Independence Day to all. No Marriage=No Divorce. Simple as that.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

[HitmanParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

That dumb little move on her part finally got her off her ass and the paperwork was filed within a month.

thanks my friend..
for now i don’t care as we live separately,
she pays half the mortgage and i have the kid 4 or 5 days a week.
we have a few mutual “friends’ ( i don’t trust them much)..
you see, she would owe me over 13 grand if we divorced right now..
so, she’s not in a rush.
i have a nice roof over my head with very low payments.
the sword hangs over both our heads..
so it’s cheaper for now not to push ..
we’ll see ..

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

It was 2 years ago July 1, I earned my final freedom. Feels good. Still learning though.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[Anonymous 54]

I’m Freeeee!!!! Although the devorce wasnt!!!!

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Nearly a year ago for me, I must dig out the Decree Absolute to find out the actual date. I was actually very disappointed with the actual certificate, for the amount of money and stress it cost me I wanted to get it framed.

It was the hardest, longest and most expensive thing I have ever had to do but it was definitely worth it in the end. Think of all those poor bastards who are married in misery with no way of escape.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Nearly a year ago for me, I must dig out the Decree Absolute to find out the actual date. I was actually very disappointed with the actual certificate, for the amount of money and stress it cost me I wanted to get it framed.

It was the hardest, longest and most expensive thing I have ever had to do but it was definitely worth it in the end. Think of all those poor bastards who are married in misery with no way of escape.

That’s interesting. I know the date the divorce was final better than I know my anniversary date. I will celebrate that day every year for the rest of my life. I’ve thought about getting it framed too. One of the best days of my life was removing that parasite from its host.

Order the good wine

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

8 years…..of peace and quiet. My home is a refuge and not a hell hole to be avoided. Had a nightmare of a marriage but a beautiful divorce.

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